Dildo vs. Dick

[uniqueusername]

Weird question for you guys with experience with both.

I satisfied my curiosity with dildos and strap-ons long before finally experimenting with the real thing. While I didn't "dislike" the real thing, I found that I actually enjoy the fake dick better. (I had more than one "real" encounter, so I'm not basing this on a single experience).

I guess I just don't like being "intimate" with another guy. I really get off when a woman fucks me and fills my mouth with a strap-on, and I have a few realistic dildos that I use too. And I still get really turned on thinking about receiving cock. I don't think sucking cock or getting fucked is disgusting or wrong, I just didn't like it as much as I thought I would.

So my question is, does anybody else prefer fake dick to the real thing? I'm guessing I just like being with a woman more than a man, and that's what really makes the experience for me, but I thought I would see if if there were any others out here.

I know this is similar to the "crave cock but don't like men" thread, but this is a little different in that the cock I crave isn't real.

Any thoughts?

 

[hbbud]

yes me too

I also prefer a dildo and use one often. I have had some experience with the real thing, but prefer the dildo or a strap on, seems it is more about me and my orgasm. I really do like sex with women the most but anal is a special orgasm I really enjoy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Female here- and I often prefer solo sex to partnered. As hbbud says, it can be about me and my orgasm. If I'm with someone else, it almost always turns into being about them and theirs-- not that I mind, but I do like to pay attention to myself once in a while

 

[Chrissi]

Weird question for you guys with experience with both.

I satisfied my curiosity with dildos and strap-ons long before finally experimenting with the real thing. While I didn't "dislike" the real thing, I found that I actually enjoy the fake dick better. (I had more than one "real" encounter, so I'm not basing this on a single experience).

I guess I just don't like being "intimate" with another guy. I really get off when a woman fucks me and fills my mouth with a strap-on, and I have a few realistic dildos that I use too. And I still get really turned on thinking about receiving cock. I don't think sucking cock or getting fucked is disgusting or wrong, I just didn't like it as much as I thought I would.

So my question is, does anybody else prefer fake dick to the real thing? I'm guessing I just like being with a woman more than a man, and that's what really makes the experience for me, but I thought I would see if if there were any others out here.

I know this is similar to the "crave cock but don't like men" thread, but this is a little different in that the cock I crave isn't real.

Any thoughts?

No, absolutely prefer a real cock. I need the connection with another man. It's important. The foreplay, the sex, the body contact, the kissing and the afterglow and continued play that leads to more sex .
Love to fall asleep with another man resting in his arms on his chest. Love waking up either in the middle of the night or the next morning. None of that a piece of silicone can provide.
It's even more special when you have emotional feelings for him too.

 

[uniqueusername]

I get that. I certainly don't discount the intimacy involved. I guess that's the difference between someone who is truly gay or bisexual, and someone who just likes playing at it.

I enjoy the sexual satisfaction I get with toys, whether alone or with someone. But when it comes down to it... sucking one, or getting a good fucking... I've discovered that I prefer the fake ones to the real ones.

I found it odd, honestly, that I came to that realization since I had no hesitation about trying the real thing. And I didn't have any "negative" feelings about it. Just didn't do as much for me as the toys. And I use "regular" size toys, so it's not a size competition issue

Thanks for the feedback. Always great to hear all the various viewpoints from this community.

 

[stickygirl]

Wow - that has to be one of the most honest admissions I've ever read here! There are lots of people on Lit who claim to want 'cum' and dick but who, I suspect, never go beyond fantasy which is fine, and that's just my observation. I see nothing wrong in either dildo or dick but I admire you for just saying it like it is.

For the record, I like dick if its attached to a man I love and my orgasms in that situation are like a train crash - just amazing. Dildos make a good substitute when you're single

 

[biguy2488]

I myself prefer a real dick. I have a cyberskin dildo which is great but I love the way real skin feels. To be able to feel when a man is about to cum is so thrilling. And I love when he's cums in my mouth or ass that's my biggest turn on.

 

[nudeguy76]

I myself prefer a real dick. I have a cyberskin dildo which is great but I love the way real skin feels. To be able to feel when a man is about to cum is so thrilling. And I love when he's cums in my mouth or ass that's my biggest turn on.

Ive tried both too....nothing better than the real thing!

 

[StacyTG]

Wow - that has to be one of the most honest admissions I've ever read here! There are lots of people on Lit who claim to want 'cum' and dick but who, I suspect, never go beyond fantasy which is fine, and that's just my observation. I see nothing wrong in either dildo or dick but I admire you for just saying it like it is.

For the record, I like dick if its attached to a man I love and my orgasms in that situation are like a train crash - just amazing. Dildos make a good substitute when you're single

Me too. Hang in there, sister.

*hugs*

 

[Sasha69]

Real thing is better than toys,, hands down !

 

[Bbb13]

Only got the nerve up for toy

 

[pippaandsprout]

i don't mind either but I have to be in the mood for it and if I had a preference it would deffo be the real thing I like to feel it throb inside me

pip

 

[downforce]

i don't mind either but I have to be in the mood for it and if I had a preference it would deffo be the real thing I like to feel it throb inside me

pip

^this here. I like both, but Ive really got to want it, or else it hurts like hell. I like a toy for when Im playing by myself and I can control the pace, but having that live, hard cock thrusting into you is divine. Especially when you get to feel them cum inside you I've tried sucking a toy, nowhere near the same experience as sucking on a real cock, that one I would definitely prefer real over fake.

 

[AllAboutEva]

I mirror Stella's experience here regarding orgasm -- when I just want to get off, I prefer to be alone with my toys and my fantasies. BUT it doesn't replace cock. I do love being drilled by the real thing. Love to feel his cock jerk inside me when he fills me with his cum. And I have no interest in sucking a piece of plastic. I want the real thing there.

 

[danielblue]

Uniqueusername,

Your post is intriguing because I have often looked at pictures of essentially straight guys licking dildos and grooving on having them in their assholes and wondered why they just don't go out and get the real thing. Now I know why.

Human sexuality is incredibly complicated, isn't it. I guess there are straight guys out there that like anal sex but don't want to have sex with a guy. What they enjoy is the sensation of having something in their assholes but not the body that comes attached to the dick.

When you like men then the real thing is always better. It is just so much more intimate and nothing beats hearing your man's orgasmic grunt as he fills you up.

 

[stickygirl]

Uniqueusername,
Human sexuality is incredibly complicated, isn't it. I guess there are straight guys out there that like anal sex but don't want to have sex with a guy. What they enjoy is the sensation of having something in their assholes but not the body that comes attached to the dick.

Daniel nails it "Men can like anal sex - it doesn't make them gay" Just because a guy enjoys the sensations doesn't make them gay, no more than a woman who enjoys those sensations becomes a gay-male by magic. When men starts saying they like and have sucked cock, then they have bi or gay sexual desires whether that cock is attached to a cis-gendered man or a trans woman. No judging in that, just tidying up confusion from other threads I've seen on this subject

 

[pippaandsprout]

I personally enjoy the sensations of either a real cock or a dildo/toy. However I have always found it very difficult to relax enough to let another person use toys on me and so this has pretty much always been a solo activity.

I am now in a very loving relationship and have built up a great level of trust with my partner enabling me to be relaxed enough to enjoy him using toys on me.

That being said, my preference would be for the real thing!

S

 

[nudeguy76]

Daniel nails it "Men can like anal sex - it doesn't make them gay" Just because a guy enjoys the sensations doesn't make them gay, no more than a woman who enjoys those sensations becomes a gay-male by magic. When men starts saying they like and have sucked cock, then they have bi or gay sexual desires whether that cock is attached to a cis-gendered man or a trans woman. No judging in that, just tidying up confusion from other threads I've seen on this subject

Ive given men oral for a long time. Never really put a label on it. But a former girlfriend called me bi. She was right. And a man liking his ass/prostrate played with? Doesnt make him gay or bi...just uninhibited and horny!

 

[TomBoner]

Daniel nails it "Men can like anal sex - it doesn't make them gay" Just because a guy enjoys the sensations doesn't make them gay, no more than a woman who enjoys those sensations becomes a gay-male by magic. When men starts saying they like and have sucked cock, then they have bi or gay sexual desires whether that cock is attached to a cis-gendered man or a trans woman. No judging in that, just tidying up confusion from other threads I've seen on this subject

Hey girl! Haven't chatted with you for a while. See you're still out fighting the labeling battles. Personally, I abhor the term "straight". But it even gets worse when a guy advertises he wants to suck on a cock ... but only of a "straight" guy. Ya think "straight" cocks taste better ... or maybe they cum better. Usually it's just a round about way of saying I wait to suck on a "macho" man's wee-wee ... so I guess more power to them anyway. Personally I think 99.9% of guys would probably enjoy anal and particularly prostate stimulation ... but 80% of them are indeed afraid that makes them "gay" ... so they won't allow themselves to enjoy it. Sad ... sad ... sad indeed.

...

Oh ... and definitely the real thing for me!

 

[uniqueusername]

Thanks everyone for the feedback. Great stuff!

So after reading all the comments and thinking about it some more, I came to the conclusion that I liked the sex, but just not with a another guy. I had just figured it should be "better" than with the dildo, but when it wasn't, it made me wonder.

But I think truly it is a matter of liking to suck and ride a cock, but just without the other guy. So I'm thinking it's not so much a matter of one being better than the other, just that I am more comfortable, and more relaxed with my toys, therefore I get more out of it.

I still like it when a woman straps it on, though, so I'm not ready to go solo

Thanks again all!

 

[bps]

I would think that for many bottoms getting a guy off, making him cum -- with your ass -- would be one of the biggest rewards in that kind of sexual interaction. it's the consequence of your coupling, the final proof of his desire for you. can't make a dildo cum. not really.

 

[hylas_]

I like real dick better, and it has mostly to do with me not being able to control everything about it, the angle, the intesity, the speed, etc. I imagine a strap-on might feel similar, though.

 

[sterculius]

I'm a cocksucker and nothing can compare to the exquisite sensation of a real cock sliding in and out of my mouth and ejaculating warm, thick cum for me to swallow, but I also enjoy sucking my wife's Jeff Stryker cyberskin strapon dildo before she fucks my ass with it. In a pinch when I'm horny and alone, I'll suck on it while masturbating and watching a favorite cock sucking clip.

 

[Harley55]

I'm a bi curios married guy who has never been with a man but loves dildos. I own several realistic cock dildos that I use. I can take 8 inches all the way down my throat and up my ass no problem. Enjoy it so much that now I'm on a mission to get the real thing. Hope it happens soon

 

[bluesky496]

i like my dildoes but i definitely prefer real cock but i can understand your preference so just enjoy .