Dildo advice needed

[His Whimsicality]

My gf and I are going to get ourselves a dildo for her pussy from one of the local sex-shops, and I´m looking forward to fucking her silly with it (not that I couldn´t do it without a dildo *g*, but you can only last for so long when doing it hard and fast, and that´s where the dildo comes in)

What I want to know is: What material (jelly, crystal, normal plastic) and what shape is best; which one do you, other women, or, if you are male, your woman prefer?

(And, as a side question, are vibrators much better for you, or do dildos have a certain advantage over vibrators?)

 

[Guest]

In my opinion. . .

Jelly is the most comfortable. (KY or astroglide for lube)

Cock-shaped is the most fun. (Yeah!)

Double-sided has certain advantages, especially if one side is bigger than the other. You can start with the smaller side and work up to the bigger.

One of my favorite toys is a double dildo to penetrate the pussy and ass simultaneously. It's very arousing, and he loves to watch me use it on myself.

Vibrators feel very intense on my clit and around other various parts of my body. I usually prefer dildos inside me, but that's just me, every person is different.

You probably just need to buy something and try it out. It's great to hear that you and your gf are experimenting together.

Have fun!! Good luck!!

 

[Weird Harold]

(And, as a side question, are vibrators much better for you, or do dildos have a certain advantage over vibrators?)

Vibrators have the advantage: A Vibrator without power is still functional as a dildo -- the reverse is not true.

 

[Guest]

 

[Belilica]

I'd have to agree with Em and Harold, Vibrating is better. The silicone ones are much better than hard plastic. There was also a thread a while back about jelly potentially being dangerous:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75275

Just make sure that whatever kind you get to use lube, and lots of it. A personal fave is Wet Light. Just have fun and start with what you think would be best. Experiment, and build a collection

Bel

 

[Guest]

Wow! New information -

I have never had those problems with any of my toys. After a time, I do pitch and get brand new, of course. But I think I will be extra careful in the future -

Thanks Bel, for the thread. It seems we all need to take care of each other! (I do need more conclusive data before I believe that German study, however.)

Life is not fair!! Even our sex toys can be dangerous? What is the world coming to???

 

[moonshado]

NOT Good

O that is so not fair I had not heard the gel ones were bad for you. I wonder how so? MY favorite is a gel one. Its also a vibrator which i like very much. I also have a g spot stimulator which works well for finding that special place.. NOW i just have to figure out how LOL
MOON

 

[Belilica]

No prob guys. I have a jelly one too, an anal toy, and I haven't had problems, I'm just careful to watch for signs of disintegration. The silicone ones are great too, don't forget, and SHOULD be 100 percent effective, after all, baby teethers and suckies are made from silicone more times than not now.

Bel

 

[Belilica]

No prob guys. I have a jelly one too, an anal toy, and I haven't had problems, I'm just careful to watch for signs of disintegration. The silicone ones are great too, don't forget, and SHOULD be 100 percent safe, after all, baby teethers and suckies are made from silicone more times than not now.

Bel

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Well, I have so many toys I wouldn't know where to begin. But, I have a suggestion for you. I used to run my vibe along my bf's balls and his nipples, sent him thru the roof. So, although it was good of you to specify that the vibe is for her pussy (even though you don't have one) consider it a toy for the both of you to use on each other. Another point, I recommed electic vibes, batteries just don't cut it. Have fun!!

 

[TumbledLove]

Dildos aren't that exciting to me. I bought a jelly vibrator for my girlfriend (her first one). It was really weak though and the batteries didn't last long. It was kinda fun to fuck her with it but it was more exciting to watch her use it instead (which wasn't too often).

 

[sugardaddy]

Well, I have so many toys I wouldn't know where to begin. But, I have a suggestion for you. I used to run my vibe along my bf's balls and his nipples, sent him thru the roof.

Too true for that technique! As a guy I love it!

Sugardaddy

 

[ApplesMcgee]

yeah...

We tend to play more with vibrators, but the idea of getting a double header dildo to watch her use is quite interesting.

PowrDragn

 

[His Whimsicality]

TYVM for all your responses! Putting everything together you´ve said, the ideal toy then would be a silicone, penis shaped, and ridged vibe without batteries which can also be used as a dildo (only question is how expensive that´s going to be...).

Another question: Does anyone of you have any experience with those crystal/acrylic glass dildos?

 

[His Whimsicality]

although it was good of you to specify that the vibe is for her pussy (even though you don't have one)

Well, it could also be for her ass, you know *g*

 

[Weird Harold]

Another question: Does anyone of you have any experience with those crystal/acrylic glass dildos?

There is a very long thread (with pictures) onthe general board titled "I want a glass dildo," Started by Ginny, that has some good examples and commentary in it.

 

[Belilica]

Here's the link:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88551

Hope it's helpful!

Bel

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Well, it could also be for her ass, you know *g*

Oh yes, I know all too well I just came from another toy thread where I described the following. I have the most unbelievable toy and here's where to find it. Go to www.sextoys.com the item number is DJ0978-02 it's $27 and the name of it is Auto Vibe Deluxe. It works by plugging it into the cigarette ligher in the car. But, I have one of those battery packs that you can jump start your car with by plugging it into the cigarette lighter. I plug my vibe into the battery pack (no, the pack is never in the car, must remember to buy another one) and it is out of this world!!! Check it out and let me know what you think.

 

[His Whimsicality]

Thanks for the glass vibe thread - very hot stuff! Anyway, today the two of us went on a toy inspection in three sex shops, and I decided that since her birthday is not far away, I am going to gift her with a dildo/vibe.

After being against it initially - after all what is my poor little girl going to tell her friends when they ask her what she got as a birthday present from me *g* - she gave up her little bit of resistance and told me that a jelly vibe, which we can also use as a dildo (ty Emerald and Harold), would probably be best, but that she would also be happy with a certain jelly dildo we found (a beautiful and lifelike 8.5-incher for $32; my personal favourite) or a glass dildo (which is now the third choice I think because they are more expensive and perhaps too hard; the ones we found also didn´t look particularly sexy apart from the translucent material).

Anyway, thank you for your helpful responses, and as soon as the toy has been tested, I´ll probably let you know ;-)

 

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[Naughty n Nice]

Don't be so concerned about what her friends think. I guarantee that they have sex toys too. It is no longer taboo to have toys and to masturbate. Everyone does it, some, myself included, just do it more frequently. She should relax and not worry about it so much, she'll enjoy it more.

 

[His Whimsicality]

Thank you Emerald, this confirms my suspicions (see my post above yours).

 

[His Whimsicality]

Don't be so concerned about what her friends think. I guarantee that they have sex toys too. It is no longer taboo to have toys and to masturbate. Everyone does it, some, myself included, just do it more frequently. She should relax and not worry about it so much, she'll enjoy it more.

It´s nice that you think about it that way, but not everyone does, so, even though her friends aren´t conservative, there is no way you can "guarantee" that they have sex toys, they are like 19 to 21 years old. Also, there is such a thing as intimacy, I really don´t have the need to tell everyone in detail what we are doing in bed or what "marital aids" we are using to make things more interesting (Just trying to make a point or two...)

 

[Naughty n Nice]

It´s nice that you think about it that way, but not everyone does, so, even though her friends aren´t conservative, there is no way you can "guarantee" that they have sex toys, they are like 19 to 21 years old. Also, there is such a thing as intimacy, I really don´t have the need to tell everyone in detail what we are doing in bed or what "marital aids" we are using to make things more interesting (Just trying to make a point or two...)

Ok, I didn't realize the age of the gals we're talking about. I didn't have any toys when I was that age either. However, you are correct, there isn't 'always' the need to tell friends what we're doing in bed, on the counter, out on the grass,,,i digress,,,that's why she shouldn't be so concerned about what her friends might think. They don't have to know.
It is perfectly normal though, so don't be afraid to experiment.

 

[Hairgrip]

Hum
I have to say that in the house I lived in this year we conformed to the British standard of 3 vibes sold for each washing machine! It can be ok talking to some friends, but not all. I can talk to my best friend with no probs whatsoever about vibes and my sex life, but my other (former) flatmate lacks the relaxed nature required!
Like your lucky partner my boyfriend bought me my natural contours vibe after a month together. I am a very happy lady as a result.
If u fancy buying online may I recommend www.gash.co.uk (if u r in the UK that is).

Pob Luc
Have fun
H