For me and my limited experience, women are soft and smell so darn wonderful! I love the way a woman's body is smooth and curvaceous. Even a woman's hair seems softer, almost like silk.
A difference in kissing? Yes, most certainly! Women don't seem to have that urgency men do. Kisses are soft, almost hesitant, exploring, wondering. Men do those things as well, but it seems women do it more often. Plus, feeling her hair drape around my face and shoulders as she leans over me just gives me the chills!
As far as oral sex, it seemed about the same as with a man who was well-acquainted with the female body and who was truly into it. The only real difference was the feel of her soft body between my thighs, her hair spread out on my legs, and her nails lightly digging into my skin.
As far as giving oral sex, well, yeah it's very different. I like both, don't really have a preference as long as whoever is receiving it is into it and lets me know what they like.
And yeah, these are generalizations, based on my own experience. I'm sure there are women with rougher bodies, and men who have softer bodies. Also men's hair can be just as soft. I acknowledge all that. But still, I think there are differences, and I love them! I almost envy men, though. Women are such fun to play with and make feel good!
Having never experienced a homosexual encounter I can't speak from experience but I'd assume what Chele said about everyone being different, regardless of gender would have to be the case... but then a little bit of variety is always a good thing!
I love the softness and tenderness of another woman. How her scent mingles with mine. How you can take it slow and know they don't mind, and they always seem to know what you like and what feels good and vice versa....I've rarely had to instruct them with guys its like "ow, more to the left, thats right..mmm...no you lost it...dammit." LOL
*Shrugs* I just like 'em both...