Desiring my wife to become a Hotwife

[Hornyhusband2017]

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

 

[penshockey1983]

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

Sent you a message....

 

[Cardinal]

I wonder in the history of hotwifing this has actually happened because it’s the husbands idea?
I’m guessing that it arises out of some playful games from an already kinky adventurous couple.
I had a girlfriend in college who if we had stayed together we’d probably be swinging by now or she’d be a Hotwife
But with the woman that I married it would never even be able to be brought up or discussed

 

[ImiGirrst]

You think she's got the energy to do this? I bet her fantasy would be an afternoon nap!

 

[geronimo_appleby]

You think she's got the energy to do this? I bet her fantasy would be an afternoon nap!

buzzkiller...

 

[TravisAW]

Many men have fantasies about this - as I've said before, that's fine because your wife should be your favourite porn star. I've had many a fantasy about Mrs AW indulging in everything from a soft porn level lingerie lesbian kissing and fingering session to being gangbanged and left worn out with a stream of cum running from her pussy.

Would I want her to become a hotwife and start a totally different lifestyle? Doubtful. If a scenario happens where the opportunity presents itself, just like with many chance encounters people have had down the years, we'll cross that bridge as a couple when we get to it. Unless she raises it as a subject, it won't be planned in as an event in any way. It's not just the first, it's the rest, the emotional side, etc. Accidents can happen - you get your "ultimate fantasy" of two BBCs nailing your wife and a condom breaks - if she gets knocked up, are you okay with explaining to family how she's got pregnant four years after you've had the snip. Looks like all that did was change the colour of the baby! What if she gets too absorbed in the lifestyle for your liking? Or if size does matter to her and she wants you as a cuck instead of a stag? It's a hell of a risk.

 

[Cuck_boy]

I always think of this happening with my wife

 

[CuttingEdge]

Generally speaking, the thought of cuckolding a wife starts after a woman in the man's life has cheated on him. It might not be that wife, as it could be from a previous relationship, but generally cuckolding stems from a man once being hurt by not knowing she was having sex with another person. Cuckolding thus eliminates that. The man has learned, he has no real control over another person, even a wife that might have vowed to be faithful. Feelings change after all, and especially over time. But by knowing who and when she is with another man, to them its a way of keeping from being hurt again. If they know about it, them they cannot be blindsided again!

There is nothing wrong with that; we all avoid painful situations at all costs. But this is also the reason cuckolding is becoming more common of a fantasy, women are more likely to cheat on a man than a man is a woman, and that is a radical shift from years past when it was the men who typically cheated.

 

[Hornyhusband2017]

Many men have fantasies about this - as I've said before, that's fine because your wife should be your favourite porn star. I've had many a fantasy about Mrs AW indulging in everything from a soft porn level lingerie lesbian kissing and fingering session to being gangbanged and left worn out with a stream of cum running from her pussy.

Would I want her to become a hotwife and start a totally different lifestyle? Doubtful. If a scenario happens where the opportunity presents itself, just like with many chance encounters people have had down the years, we'll cross that bridge as a couple when we get to it. Unless she raises it as a subject, it won't be planned in as an event in any way. It's not just the first, it's the rest, the emotional side, etc. Accidents can happen - you get your "ultimate fantasy" of two BBCs nailing your wife and a condom breaks - if she gets knocked up, are you okay with explaining to family how she's got pregnant four years after you've had the snip. Looks like all that did was change the colour of the baby! What if she gets too absorbed in the lifestyle for your liking? Or if size does matter to her and she wants you as a cuck instead of a stag? It's a hell of a risk.

All I can say to this is that after our last baby, we both had the procedure done to prevent any more babies. So the risk of that happening is microscopically small, at the most.

 

[TravisAW]

All I can say to this is that after our last baby, we both had the procedure done to prevent any more babies. So the risk of that happening is microscopically small, at the most.

Ok, that's one sexually-transmitted thing you don't have to worry about

How much have you talked to her about it, thought about it, researched the levels of lifestyle (occasional meet up through to her being full time slut) etc?

What level of engagement are you seeking? I know of a couple where she is pretty much at the beck and call of 3 black guys. She can't have kids (same situation as you) but will suddenly nip out because one of the guys wants to use her arse until he fills it. The guy is the biggest beta you can imagine, knows he's punching above, etc. but according to her it's a combination of him absolutely doting on her and he started the idea and accepted the consequences - he's wired to be a non-sissy cuck and just loves that his woman is hot enough for three studs to want her. Another couple just swing once a month. They are careful who they meet up with and she takes a huge BBC in a nice hotel. Either he gets to watch or if he cannot make it due to work, it gets filmed for his/their later enjoyment (apparently she wanks him off while he watches on the iPad). Each to their own but you do need to consider and be honest with each other as to what level you are both happy with. Good luck to you both and as long as it doesn't affect the kids, I hope you enjoy it as much as you can.

 

[Pervert101sub]

Always thought about her sucking me and telling me she's been cheating on me with bbc. Because of the lust I said I love it and want to watch. With a few. Let's be honest especially if they're blonde, they deserve it
I wish to experience this one day
I've always said that bj and fucking bbc is not cheating

 

[Pervert101sub]

Always thought about her sucking me and telling me she's been cheating on me with bbc. Because of the lust I said I love it and want to watch. With a few. Let's be honest especially if they're blonde, they deserve it
I wish to experience this one day
I've always said that bj and fucking bbc is not cheating

I don't believe in cheating but it sounds hot. I want to be a sub for her and suck on it. Maybe she's turned me on to liking cock

 

[stargame]

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

NY wife is a Hot Wife. I remember seeing early signs of it early on in our marriage. Message me if you wish chat.

 

[TravisAW]

Always thought about her sucking me and telling me she's been cheating on me with bbc. Because of the lust I said I love it and want to watch. With a few. Let's be honest especially if they're blonde, they deserve it
I wish to experience this one day
I've always said that bj and fucking bbc is not cheating

Anything you've consented for her to do isn't cheating. In her eyes, if you've not told her you don't object, she'll quite reasonably expect that you would object - being in the same room and not stopping her kissing a guy means she isn't cheating in her mind. You having not said she could, but doing it out of sight of you is.

 

[HottieOlwen]

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

Hi. I've been a HotWife for 30 years. I'm so glad that I listened to my then husband's(now my cuckold's) advice. It's a great lifestyle.

 

[LMWM321]

For the first 15-16 years of our marriage the idea of my wife having sex with another man was abhorrent. I felt it posed a grave threat to our marriage because she might end up so preferring sex with the other man that she'd leave me, and our kids, for him.

Over the years, that concern faded. I see things quite differently now that the cement of our marriage has fully cured. We've raised awesome kids, built a home, share the love of our extended families, we still fuck like 20-somethings, and we look forward to sharing our retirement together and enjoying grandkids. Nowadays, the idea that she'd leave all this behind b/c someone made her cum harder the one time she fucked him seems utterly fucking ridiculous. Our devotion to each other is not going to be undone by something so trivial.

So now, it's feels downright petty, selfish and borderline cruel to tell her that she can't occassinally scratch the irrepressible, god-given urge for an hour or two of strange dick.

How much do I love my wife? So much that I want her to live her best life and wring all the joy and excitement she can from it. If for her that means occasionally fucking someone else, then have it. And I hope the orgasms are great. I wouldn't take it personally; being with someone new is exciting. It has nothing to do with my lacking in any way..

Put simply, today I feel no more threatened by the idea of her having sex with someone else than when she goes to get a massage. Call me weird.

I have two stories related to this subject. Please feel free to read them. Sharing My Wife Michelle, and Mature Hotwife Turns a Trick. ..Just be sure to leave a comment.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

My husband did this to me a long time ago. Set me up with a black dominant guy to slut me up (I didn't know it for a long time). Worked like a charm, except now I'm my master's slave and my husband is a cuckold and occasionally gets to watch me being used on video and masturbates to it. So be careful what you wish for...

 

[WonderPonder]

After fantasizing about my wife cuckolding me and becoming a hotwife for years it finally has happened. It is even better than I imagined it would be. It took 3 factors for this to become reality. First with me having serious health issues, cancer which I'm beating plus it has caused my heart function to deteriorate so intercourse is out of the question for another several months. Second is she went through menopause last summer which skyrocketed her libido and lastly she met a man through a mutual friend and they really hit it off becoming really good friends. All those things happened last July to labor day.

Joe, the other man asked her out for New years eve and they've been seeing each other regularly since then. All this has actually helped me through my issues and has changed our lives.
I have a small penis which has fueled my fantasies while the other man has a bigger cock, especially in thickness and gives my wife regular orgasms during intercourse whereas I have never given her one accept when I perform oral on her.
I've only met Joe once and that was at a bbq last July where they were inseparable the entire time. Eventually the three of us will be going out for dinner together.

So right now my sex life consists of performing oral on her and her giving me long session handjobs with lots of hot cuckold talk. I honestly find this more arousing than having actual sex with my wife. I've suggested that even when I get better I should be denied intercourse and blowjobs. Both her and Joe like the idea of this which is a big turn on for me.
My wife could never just "hookup" with just anyone, she needs to know the person, be comfortable with and also be attracted to them which is why all this is happening. I find it arousing knowing that this is much more than just a sexual relationship between them. Since menopause and now her seeing someone else has greatly changed my wife for the better. She seems to be actual glowing, has an extra jump in her step, losing weight, new hairdo with wardrobe change and more outgoing. She sees him one night during the week and then Saturday mid afternoon until Sunday night.

My wife thinks cream pies are gross so doing that doesn't happen, although she just showers before coming home so she isn't completely clean. Right now watching isn't happening but we've talked about it as I'd like that. My wife is warming up to the idea and so is Joe. I doubt I'd be joining in if it were to happen since I'll be denied.
Last night she came home and we talked some as they both talked about me being a cuckold. She brought up that we should purchase a chasity cage for me so that she will control my orgasms with handjobs and so I won't jerkoff. They read a lot and I'm liking some of the suggestions.
I love that all three of us have acknowledged that her pussy and body are completely his. Some of the things my wife says during our hot talk handjobs are such a turn on.

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Just be prepare it might not be what you are expecting. It might be a turn on or you might hate it. Also you got to think about how you two will view each other afterwards. Will it cause problems in the relationship. And it would be best if both of you agree on who join you guys.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

For the first 15-16 years of our marriage the idea of my wife having sex with another was abhorrent. I felt it posed a grave threat to our marriage because she might end up so preferring sex with other man that she'd leave me, and our kids, for him.

Over the years, that concern faded. I see things quite differently now that the cement of our marriage has fully cured. We've raised awesome kids, built a home, share the love of our extended families, we still fuck like 20-somethings, and we look forward to sharing our retirement together and enjoying grandkids. Nowadays, the idea that she'd leave all this behind b/c someone made her cum harder the one time she fucked him is utterly fucking ridiculous. Our devotion to each other is not going to be undone by something so trivial.

So now, I see telling her that she can't occasionally scratch the irrepressible, god-given urge for an hour or two of strange dick as being petty, selfish and borderline cruel.

How much do I love my wife? So much that I want her to live it fully and wring all the joy and excitement she can from it. If for her that means occasionally fucking someone else, then have it. And I hope the orgasms are great. I wouldn't take it personally. Being with someone new is exciting. It has nothing to do with my lacking in any way..

Put simply, today I feel no more threatened by the idea of her having sex with someone else than when she goes to get a massage. Call me weird.

I have two stories related to this subject. Please feel free to read them. Sharing My Wife Michelle, and Mature Hotwife Turns a Trick. ..Just be sure to leave a comment.

Have you shared this fantasy with your wife?

 

[TravisAW]

My husband did this to me a long time ago. Set me up with a black dominant guy to slut me up (I didn't know it for a long time). Worked like a charm, except now I'm my master's slave and my husband is a cuckold and occasionally gets to watch me being used on video and masturbates to it. So be careful what you wish for...

Is this slutting up story already written on here or if not, are you open to elaborating on it here? It sounds intriguing.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

Is this slutting up story already written on here or if not, are you open to elaborating on it here? It sounds intriguing.

I wrote a story about it here. Not sure how to find it however. Not very knowledgable about this site.

 

[LMWM321]

Have you shared this fantasy with your wife?

Oh yes... Completely open and honest about it all.. The only way to go...

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Oh yes... Completely open and honest about it all.. The only way to go...

And...
how does she feel about it?

 

[LMWM321]

And...
how does she feel about it?

Quite open minded. See my stories.