Describe Your Ideal Lover

[SeekingEmotionalDepth]

Mine is between the ages of 40-60. She would be below 5’3”, but on the thicker side. She would have naturally tan skin. Hair color, preferably not blonde, but I am open to all. Speaks English, but has an accent. Not flirty until she is comfortable. Then flirtatious is a must. Able to go deep into emotions. Well rounded worldly smart. She would enjoy personal improvement time such as reading and journaling. In addition, balanced in vacation spots. The beach and mountains especially. She would also want spontaneity, excitement and new experiences. Experimentation into most forms of sexual affection. Is 100% loyal and respectful within boundaries agreed on. Your turn, describe your ideal person.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

He's over 6ft, a little scruffy..45-47..
born in January? Being from Texas helps.

In all seriousness, I appreciate honesty to me, someone who's into larger women..

Someone who I can confide in, even if it's about issues with him, because I'm not aroused physically if I'm not aroused mentally.
A man who is a protector and provider.
He's calm. He's supportive.

The sexual aspect is not as important.
I don't care if he's experienced or not.
I'm all about integrity.
@Lonestar79

 

[drunkwombat]

Smart
Witty
Articulate
Highly focused
Not entirely unattractive
Affectionate

 

[gogogirl79]

Someone who is taller than me preferably as I'm 5'1
Ages 44 -55
Someone who can hold my attention through mental/intellectual conversation.
Someone who will challenge me not just sexually but in others ways too.
Someone who is confident in themselves, but not cocky
Open mindedness
Trust worthy
Willing to grow
Have fun and try to things

 

[Maximsdarling]

As tall or taller than me with good hair.
Confident not cocky.
Is able to see the humor and abusurdity in life.
Reads.
Understands we are a team
Understands consent.
Creative/open
likes learning
Open and emotionally mature
Liberal

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Emotionally mature
Inquisitive
Quick witted
Decisive
Vocally depraved - I LOVE it when a man can keep up with me in regards to dirty talk
Sexually demanding

Physically, I like all kinds of men - in shape, husky bears, etc.

 

[crem]

She’s about 5’4” large chest, nice big ass and stomach and answers to Sis or Michelle. Very strong feeling for her my whole life.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

If you can't be with the one you love. Love the one your with.
Funny thread your not going to find those resumes at first. No such thing as an ideal lover. You find someone who your attracted to and then you grow together.
For the women on this thread I like someone who is not judgemental

 

[SusanHoward]

Well, I’m nearly 5’8", dusty blonde, and wear a size 8 when I’m dieting.

Wait, do you want me to describe the guy I’M looking for!

 

[perturbedmusic]

The older I get, the more appreciation I have for romantic chemistry. Physical appearance and career don’t matter so much if they’re selfish, judgmental, and closed minded.

It’s such a turn on talking to someone who is adventurous and curious, who enjoys pushing boundaries but is self aware enough to respect limits, and ranks your pleasure as highly as their own.

 

[lets_roll_12]

I have found her, although we are separated by oceans and kooky time zones. That being said, she has the qualities of what I want in a true lover, soul mate even.
- Intelligent
- Witty
- Expressive
- Beautiful blue eyes
- Red rosy cheeks
- A delicious body to explore and give pleasure to and receive from
- Quirks, traits and kinks that not only make me smile but also turn me on

She is a lover of good music, coffee, food, slow dances and a sex drive that pairs perfectly with my own.

I count myself lucky to have her in my life.

 

[MasterDarcy]

The main traits:
Intelligent.
Wit.
Humour.
Sexuality adventurous, open minded and depraved.
Submissive.
Morose and deep. (Optional)
Goth. (Optional)
Big breasts. (Optional)

I simply wouldn't be with a woman who wasn't Intelligent and wasn't able to keep up with my wit, etc.

Opposites don't attract.

Whilst I do wear the label of a sapiosexual as well as a demisexual, I do still have a physical type: Kristen Stewart, Emma Watson and Keira Knightley all fit the bill.

You could say that all three are intelligent, quirky and have a razor sharp wit. Plus all three are gorgeous.

I think it's a coincidence that all three are brunettes.

I'm picky and quite the perfectionist, so I require all the boxes to be ticked before I sign anything.