Vitriolhack
I hear you
- Joined
- Feb 5, 2018
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This could be dangerous but I get the need for an emotional connection. It's a true shame that you don't have that with your wife.
For many reasons, many married couples don’t share their true self with their significant other. Sometimes, the person you married 10, 20 or more years ago is no longer the person you are today. It can be hard to let someone know that, the person you are sleeping with is an imposter.
Ok, maybe imposter is a little too strong but, if you got married young and was busy raising kids for the first few years, you wake up one day and realize that you are not the same person anymore, sure you are a lot like who you’re were but some things just don’t hold the same level of excitement anymore and others make you drool.
Would he or she mind the new you? Would you risk a frank conversation? Tough question to answer.

