Dealing with a foreskin!

[HelveticaBold]

Hi all,
Well through 2 marriages and a few other relationships I have never had to handle a foreskin.
And now it appears everyone I meet has one....!!!!!!!!!

So I now find my usual techniques don't work quite the same and I'm not feeling so confident.

Would welcome help from either sex... ladies what are your best tricks and guys what do you like?

Helvetica

 

[SweetErika]

The most important thing is to ask your partner how he likes to be handled. There's nothing wrong with telling him you're not all that familiar with natural cocks and you would love for him to teach you what he likes and give you plenty of honest feedback when you're pleasing him.

There's also some good advice in previous threads. Click me.

 

[infinity706]

So, what techniques wouldn't work? Once a cock gets hard, chances are, you can't even tell whether the guy has a foreskin.

 

[In Anticipation]

Hi all,
Well through 2 marriages and a few other relationships I have never had to handle a foreskin.
And now it appears everyone I meet has one....!!!!!!!!!

So I now find my usual techniques don't work quite the same and I'm not feeling so confident.

Would welcome help from either sex... ladies what are your best tricks and guys what do you like?

Helvetica

You can practise on mine if you like . . .

Seriously, I might post something a little more helpful later.

 

[silverwhisper]

as an uncut guy, i don't think any of my partners gave the matter a moment's thought.

i'm kinda curious about something: did you recently move or something? b/c barring religious obligations, circumcision isn't much practiced outside of the US.

ed

 

[HelveticaBold]

You can practise on mine if you like . . .

Seriously, I might post something a little more helpful later.

Ha ha.. well you know I might not object to some practise.....

But do let me know any info you think might help.

xx

 

[HelveticaBold]

Well SilverWhisper.. I have always lived in the Uk and here it is not uncommon in my age group to find men who were circumcised...
But... and here is probably the difference.... I am now dating much younger men and I guess circumcision went out of fashion before their time. Lol!
And Infinity.. that was not my experience... there was still plenty of evidence of foreskin..otherwise I would not have needed to post my message.
x

 

[dirtycarol]

I only had sex with one guy with his foreskin intact, and I did have some fun with it when it was semi flacid pushing it back with my lips. He was an older guy, and I was in my early twentys, he could cum more than any ma I ever met before, or since.

 

[infinity706]

Well SilverWhisper.. I have always lived in the Uk and here it is not uncommon in my age group to find men who were circumcised...
But... and here is probably the difference.... I am now dating much younger men and I guess circumcision went out of fashion before their time. Lol!
And Infinity.. that was not my experience... there was still plenty of evidence of foreskin..otherwise I would not have needed to post my message.
x

Oh, so the head of his cock isn't getting fully exposed even when hard?

 

[In Anticipation]

Ha ha.. well you know I might not object to some practise.....

But do let me know any info you think might help.

xx

I guess the key thing is that the cock head is going to be more sensitive as it is protected most of the time. However, mine tends to retract or roll back when I'm hard, so I'm not sure how much difference there is beyond that.

It's nice to roll it back and forth when wanking too.

Anything else you need to know, let me know, if you want illustrations you better PM me . . .

 

[ThinkerLover]

I guess i am the exception to the rule. I have a lot of foreskin to where it doesn't retract entirely when I'm hard. However, it does retract with the friction against my wife vulvae. Both my wife and my ex have noted that the difference in my cock and the circumcised men that they've been with is the "bunching" of the foreskin gives a little extra sensation against the folds in their vaginal cavity.

As far as what I find nice in bed, I think that the first thing that i have had to educate girls on is that the exposing the head is something that you build up to, allowing the head to lubricate itself and the cock to get hard. It's erotic to tease me before exposing the head.

When my wife gives me head, I like it to start with the skin still stretched over the glans and her lips giving my foreskin a little tug as she pulls away. As I get harder, she can slowly retract the skin and softly run her tongue over the glans.

You know the rest.

Vaginal intercourse should not be a whole lot different. You may need to work him over with your hands - again, minding the buildup, and then pull his skin back over the glans just before penetration, allowing your vagina to retract the foreskin.

"Insert, thrust, repeat." -- Clerks

 

[HelveticaBold]

Oh, so the head of his cock isn't getting fully exposed even when hard?

Exactly!

I guess i am the exception to the rule. I have a lot of foreskin to where it doesn't retract entirely when I'm hard. However, it does retract with the friction against my wife vulvae. Both my wife and my ex have noted that the difference in my cock and the circumcised men that they've been with is the "bunching" of the foreskin gives a little extra sensation against the folds in their vaginal cavity.

As far as what I find nice in bed, I think that the first thing that i have had to educate girls on is that the exposing the head is something that you build up to, allowing the head to lubricate itself and the cock to get hard. It's erotic to tease me before exposing the head.

Ok. Obviously essential to know. Thanks

When my wife gives me head, I like it to start with the skin still stretched over the glans and her lips giving my foreskin a little tug as she pulls away. As I get harder, she can slowly retract the skin and softly run her tongue over the glans.

Thanks again. Can understand that.

You know the rest.

Vaginal intercourse should not be a whole lot different. You may need to work him over with your hands - again, minding the buildup, and then pull his skin back over the glans just before penetration, allowing your vagina to retract the foreskin.

Now, see it's that 'work him over with your hands' bit that isn't as easy as it sounds when you're used to different equiptment. Lol!

"Insert, thrust, repeat." -- Clerks

Thanks to everyone so far for their input. Not sure when I'll be needing to use it.. maybe next weekend. I am also going to work on being able to ask for direction from my lover, obviously that is essential for any situation. And if I had some basic stuff to start with I'd be happy to do that already but I felt I didn't even have the basics.
Cheers all.
xx

 

[HelveticaBold]

Oops! Please read my comments as i've inserted them into the quote in the last message. Obviously a forum techno-virgin too... Lol!

xx

 

[NakedMale]

I love having a foreskin, It keeps it very sensitive being covered. Good for masurbating and you can't really tell its there when I am hard. I cant see why there are problems

 

[infinity706]

Exactly!



Thanks to everyone so far for their input. Not sure when I'll be needing to use it.. maybe next weekend. I am also going to work on being able to ask for direction from my lover, obviously that is essential for any situation. And if I had some basic stuff to start with I'd be happy to do that already but I felt I didn't even have the basics.
Cheers all.
xx

Well, I've never fucked an uncut guy, but I'd assume you'd have to be more gentle with the head of his cock just like how a many women's clits are extra sensitive from being shielded from the world. Of course, if the foreskin is really tight to the point that you can't expose the head, he might have to have surgery to correct it. Afterall, a lot of the nerves are in that first inch of cock, so you might have a hard time getting him off if you can't get at them.

 

[NakedMale]

When I was young mine was a bit on the tight side, It easy to slacken off by sliding the skin back and force.

 

[CumalotCastle]

Doubtful a man of sexual age needs surgery on his foreskin. I think foreskins that don't automatically roll back when hard are more common than some people think. Mine is the same - I can have it forward or back. If I roll it back it bunches up and creates a "hood" that gives more friction to my girl. And when wearing a condom I can pop it on with the skin forward and it allows the skin to move backwards and forwards WITHIN the condom.

 

[silverwhisper]

helveticabold: sorry for the delay in responding.

gotta say, i've never had a problem with my foreskin retracting when aroused, but i have heard that this happens to some and obviously a few of them are litsters! :>

is there anything in this thread you were able to put into practice?

ed

 

[m140]

you really dont have to treat them differently at all...some guys like it when you run your tongue between the foreskin and the head

 

[HelveticaBold]

helveticabold: sorry for the delay in responding.

gotta say, i've never had a problem with my foreskin retracting when aroused, but i have heard that this happens to some and obviously a few of them are litsters! :>

is there anything in this thread you were able to put into practice?

ed

Well I haven't met with him again yet... not until Saturday. He lives a 2 hour drive away so is really a weekend relationship...lol.

But just reading about the possibilities and the differences and the samenesses is giving me more confidence. And I am feeling able to start asking him what he likes. But I just felt I needed some basics at least.

For those contributors who have said...a) there shouldn't be a problem....or b) there isn't any real difference in handling.....I'll say this

a) If it were the case with us that once aroused the foreskin was not evident then I wouldn't be writing the message in the first place. I'm not sure what was the point of those replies.

b) My usual handling techniques involve a much less sensitive head, quite a lot of action just under the head and both gentle and vigorous, slow and fast working on the shaft ..which does not move at all in it's own right...lol. Now none of this translates to the material I have had to work with when uncut. Well at least not without some more information....like what to do with a sensitive head etc.

But thanks to everyone who has sent useful information. I really appreciate it and will give some feedback after the next weekend...ha ha

xx

 

[gob5hite]

My advice would be.
Dont think about it too much just do what feels right I am sure he will enjoy it.
If you analyze it too much it could become a serious issue when it really isnt

 

[HelveticaBold]

My advice would be.
Dont think about it too much just do what feels right I am sure he will enjoy it.
If you analyze it too much it could become a serious issue when it really isnt

Well you've hit the nail on the head actually.... that was the big problem...NOTHING felt right and so I ended up just fiddling about a bit and pretty much avoiding it as much as possible...ha ha. Not a recipe for success. Fortunately I have other skills and he was not disappointed overall but I prefer to be a 10 in all areas.

I wasn't disappointed either... was a delightful experience taken all in all and we are both eager to continue this weekend.

XX

 

[cebalrai]

One girl I was with who had only been with circumcised guys before me said that my penis entered her easier during initial penetration. I think what happens is that the inner labia kind of hold the foreskin back while the penis sides out of its sheath into the vagina. Uncut guys have a moist glans, which helps.

After the penis is wet with the woman's fluids though, I bet there's not much of a difference.

 

[honeymonster69]

I am an uncut guy with a slightly tight foreskin but stretching twice a day is helping loosen it up. Because my glans is usually covered I am very sensitive and only the gentlest direct stimulation with lubrication feels pleasurable to me. I much prefer having my foreskin slid back and forth over the head of my cock. Not right back or it gets stuck, just as far as it wants to go without being forced. One of the jobs of a foreskin is to give this highly pleasurable stimulation so you might find this technique works well on your man.

Good luck.

 

[In Anticipation]

Well you've hit the nail on the head actually.... that was the big problem...NOTHING felt right and so I ended up just fiddling about a bit and pretty much avoiding it as much as possible...ha ha. Not a recipe for success. Fortunately I have other skills and he was not disappointed overall but I prefer to be a 10 in all areas.

I wasn't disappointed either... was a delightful experience taken all in all and we are both eager to continue this weekend.

XX

So how did it go then?

I'm on the edge of my seat . . .