daughter in adult entertainment

[DieselBoss65]

any other dads in similar situation?

 

[geronimo_appleby]

why is this in personals?

 

[MisterDark]

Hey Diesel.....yup......was in a similar situation and didn't handle it well. My step-daughter found out that at one point I had been a body guard for full nude female entertainers and that eventually, it had excited her mom (my second wife) enough that she wanted to try and turned out to be quite good at it. Naturally, when she turned 18 and wanted an easy way to make money - she turned to using her body - but she neither enjoyed it nor knew what she was doing. She asked me several times to help her on her "routines" but because of her being my daughter there was no way I would and I wouldn't even talk to her about it.

Long story short - she turned to men that were willing to use her - turn her out - get her hooked on drugs - and finally pregnant and then discarded her. At 32 she is beginning to straighten her life out but has a long way to go. While I know from personal experience that this is not a path we would choose for our kids, at the very least - be there to talk to her and listen to her - but not to chastise. Maybe you can get through and help her get off the pole before she destroys her life.

Best of luck to you and your daughter.

 

[Zundas]

It's his first post ever and a very intense and personal one + is in the wrong section. I sense a troll.

 

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[DieselBoss65]

Hey Diesel.....yup......was in a similar situation and didn't handle it well. My step-daughter found out that at one point I had been a body guard for full nude female entertainers and that eventually, it had excited her mom (my second wife) enough that she wanted to try and turned out to be quite good at it. Naturally, when she turned 18 and wanted an easy way to make money - she turned to using her body - but she neither enjoyed it nor knew what she was doing. She asked me several times to help her on her "routines" but because of her being my daughter there was no way I would and I wouldn't even talk to her about it.

Long story short - she turned to men that were willing to use her - turn her out - get her hooked on drugs - and finally pregnant and then discarded her. At 32 she is beginning to straighten her life out but has a long way to go. While I know from personal experience that this is not a path we would choose for our kids, at the very least - be there to talk to her and listen to her - but not to chastise. Maybe you can get through and help her get off the pole before she destroys her life.

Best of luck to you and your daughter.

Thanks for the input MisterDark. Mine is much older and has her life together as far as I could tell, which made it more of a surprise when I found out... It's not exactly what I would choose for her but seems like she works from her own home and does quite well for herself. Did it turn out ok for the entertainers you worked for?

 

[bluesbreaker_69]

any other dads in similar situation?

One of my daughters has been performing striptease for a while now.

 

[MisterDark]

Thanks for the input MisterDark. Mine is much older and has her life together as far as I could tell, which made it more of a surprise when I found out... It's not exactly what I would choose for her but seems like she works from her own home and does quite well for herself. Did it turn out ok for the entertainers you worked for?

Most of the entertainers were college aged girls in their 20's. My job was to make sure they DID NOT get pimped out - did their dance - made their money and got home safely. Usually a single girl would make 400-500 a night in tips. 2 girl shows usually was between 1000-1200 that the girls split. I happily attended 2 separate college graduations for the girls I protected and like I said.....was married to the third one.....so yeah....never heard of any horror stories like came out of the clubs or like my daughter went through.

Best of luck Diesel. Sometimes it is just a rush for the woman to see the power her body holds over men.