Dating question????

[sufisaint]

I met a beautiful woman today...we talked for literally 3 hours, I wish i could keep my mouth shut more...I spilled my guts and told her my life story...but any way, I actually got the nerve to ask her for her number and she gave it to me!!!!!! I tried to be cool but was dancing up and down on the inside. My question now is how long do I wait to call her...I know the at least two day call rule after a date...but what about to get the first date. As you can tell I don't get out much and just do not want to break any rules quite yet??????

 

[perks]

gawd there are rules?

just call her dude, and say "Hey I don't know the rules or whatever for calling, but on first impressions, I really like you and would like to take you out. I thought it would be a good idea to give you some time to work me into your schedule before the weekend gets here."

that would work for me, but I'm a carpe diem kind of girl, I'm really a seize the moment, but for the life of me I can't find a latin translation for moment.

 

[Ice Cold]

Well good luck on meeting the girl and getting the number,
but watching Seinfeld ruined me on that whole period of call back time.

 

[sufisaint]

Isn't there the whole appearing to needy thing I have to deal with?...which I am not needy...just really happy to find someone whom I have alot in common with and is also a closet artist....

 

[Saytur]

It isn't needy dude, it's "interested." She won't establish your neediness until at least Thursday.

Listen to Perky, she rocks.

 

[brisbon]

Hey good luck, you sound pumped over this lady ..... hope things go well for you.

 

[Lancecastor]

Call her whenever you feel like it.

If she digs you, run with it like a boy in a field.

If not, you're a stalker.

Carpe per diem....sieze the expense cheque.

 

[Raina]

Isn't there the whole appearing to needy thing I have to deal with?...which I am not needy...just really happy to find someone whom I have alot in common with and is also a closet artist....

It wouldn't seem needy at all. She's probably jumping up and down inside too and hoping that you'll call.

Just ring her already!

 

[red_rose]

"Three days is money."

"How long are you going to wait to call yours?"


"Six days."



I take it no one here has seen Swingers?

 

[sufisaint]

I will do it tomorrow...a day is good I think. (but what do I know)its been so long that I met someone in person whom I connected with right away. Besides appearing absolutely beautiful to me in the girl next door sort of way...its the eyes that blew me away, she is caring, intelligent, funny, a little quirky and whacky ( I really love that) and creative. She loves dogs, harley's, muscle cars, camping and hiking...we laughed about we are both over-educated rednecks from the suburbs!!!!! I was literally flying...now of course i am fighting with self doubt but I can handle that and ignore myself....Thanks for the encouragement...

 

[Aphrodisiac]

"Three days is money."

"How long are you going to wait to call yours?"


"Six days."



I take it no one here has seen Swingers?

" Your pure money baby ! "


I love that movie.





As for the calling ... simply call her and ask her out ... why must you follow these so called " rules" ... why don't you make up your own rules and do as you please... hope all goes well ... have fun.

 

[red_rose]

I love that movie.

YAY!

 

[Guest]

I met a beautiful woman today...we talked for literally 3 hours, I wish i could keep my mouth shut more...I spilled my guts and told her my life story...but any way, I actually got the nerve to ask her for her number and she gave it to me!!!!!! I tried to be cool but was dancing up and down on the inside. My question now is how long do I wait to call her...I know the at least two day call rule after a date...but what about to get the first date. As you can tell I don't get out much and just do not want to break any rules quite yet??????

There are no rules. If she likes you, she'll be delighted you called.

Moon

 

[Lasher]

"Three days is money."

"How long are you going to wait to call yours?"


"Six days."



I take it no one here has seen Swingers?

Sorry, took me a moment to find this, lol...

MIKE: How long do I wait to call?
TRENT: A day.
MIKE: Tomorrow?
TRENT: No...
SUE: ... Tomorrow, then a day.
TRENT: ... Yeah.
MIKE: So, two days?
TRENT: Yeah. I guess you could call it that.
SUE: Definitely. Two days. That's the industry standard...
TRENT: (to Sue. shop talk) ... I used to wait two days. Now everyone waits two days. Three days is kinda money now, don't you think?
SUE: ... Yeah. But two's enough not to look anxious...
TRENT: Yeah, but three days is kinda the money...
MIKE: (interrupting sarcastically) Why don't I just wait three weeks and tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and found her number...
CHARLES: ... then ask where you met her...
MIKE: Yeah, I'll tell her I don't remember and then I'll ask what she looks like.

(pause)

Then I'll ask if we fucked. How's that, T? Is that "the money"?

(The guys laugh.)

TRENT: Laugh all you want, but if you call to soon you can scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
SUE: Don't listen to him. You call whenever it feels right to you.
MIKE: How long are you guys gonna wait to call your honeys?
TRENT & SUE: Six days.

 

[intrigued]

I will do it tomorrow...a day is good I think. (but what do I know)its been so long that I met someone in person whom I connected with right away. Besides appearing absolutely beautiful to me in the girl next door sort of way...its the eyes that blew me away, she is caring, intelligent, funny, a little quirky and whacky ( I really love that) and creative. She loves dogs, harley's, muscle cars, camping and hiking...we laughed about we are both over-educated rednecks from the suburbs!!!!! I was literally flying...now of course i am fighting with self doubt but I can handle that and ignore myself....Thanks for the encouragement...

Wow.

I am so very happy for you, and anyone that feels like this.....

 

[red_rose]

Sorry, took me a moment to find this, lol...

*ahem*

Okay, you officially rock.

 

[cutie pie]

Take a deep breath. . .count to ten. . .relax. . .then follow perky's advice.

The worst she can say is "no", but if your conversation went as well as you described she's probably sitting by the phone waiting for you to call!

 

[sufisaint]

Even if it does not work out (knock skull) its is really encouraging to feel this way. Of course I had sworn off women last month so i could get my life together and not put anyone through my "life changes' but now I think of it..if someone actually still likes me during my downtime than that truly will be amazing...

 

[yanking]

when that happens to me i'mnot surprised to get a bogus number.

 

[Lasher]

*ahem*

Okay, you officially rock.

LOL... Yep, I'm the fucking money!

 

[red_rose]

LOL... Yep, I'm the fucking money!

You're so money, you don't even know it.

Let's go find some beautiful babies who like to party.

This place is dead, anyhow.