Dating Asian women is very complex and challenging.

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Dating Asian women is very complex and challenging.

I have dated a great many Asian girls, and I can tell you from experience, it is quite different than normal dating.

If I wrote a manual on how to successfully date an Asian woman I would become a millionaire in a year or less.
 
Dating Asian women is very complex and challenging.

I have dated a great many Asian girls, and I can tell you from experience, it is quite different than normal dating.

If I wrote a manual on how to successfully date an Asian woman I would become a millionaire in a year or less.
You should write a manual. This way you don't have to work 20 hrs a day 365 days a year.
Which reminds me how do you have any time to date anyone let alone "a great many Asian girls " ? 🤔
 
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Dating Asian women is very complex and challenging.

I have dated a great many Asian girls, and I can tell you from experience, it is quite different than normal dating.

If I wrote a manual on how to successfully date an Asian woman I would become a millionaire in a year or less.
Do tell as I have always figured if I was ever single again I would search for an Asian woman
 
Since my marriage ened I have been together with an Indian woman (family was from India she was more so Americanizes but practiced cultural customs still) and quite a few Hispanic women.

I wouldn't say they were any better or worse than my relationship to a white American woman but they are most certainly different in my personal experiences. There is a lot of things I didn't know beforehand.
Please share
 
I briefly dated a Japanese woman, on and off, for about 3-4 years, the last year of college and after. Her parents were from Japan and interred in the Japanese camps during WWII. You could say that her formative years were somewhat traditional and conservative. She was also a model and considered busty for an Asian in the 1980s at a large B/Small C. There were no such things as PDAs. One time at the beach, waiting for the tow truck to come for her car which wouldn't start, I tried to put the time to good use...it was after 7 PM and dark. No matter how excited she felt, kissing and making out in the car was out of the question. And even though she was a model, the slightest hint that you could see a hard nipple under her blouse and bra, panicked her. But behind closed doors, she was the most free and loving partner. The first time we were going to have sex, she insisted that she share a shower with me and clean me. What was unusual is that while she got the shower going, she left her tank top (braless) on, but was naked from the waist down, proudly showing off her dark labia and trimmed landing strip. From past experience, girls I knew were happy to bare their breasts but always kept their panties on. And after that, when we were together, she was always naked and playful behind closed doors. It was that dual persona between public prude and private powerhouse that made things difficult, at times.
 
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Dating a Chinese girl? You can woo them by unconditionally praising chairman Mao and the Chinese communist party.
 
It depends very much on her nationality and ethnicity, whether White or Asian. Then also religion. Confucian or Christian Korean women are an entirely different bag than Muslim Indonesian women or Buddhist Thai women, for example.

A more nation-specific guide would be excellent, though. I could write a whole chapter on dating Korean women in Korea.
 
Dating Asian women is very complex and challenging.

I have dated a great many Asian girls, and I can tell you from experience, it is quite different than normal dating.

If I wrote a manual on how to successfully date an Asian woman I would become a millionaire in a year or less.
you are correct. i done the same as you. its not too challenging once you realize a few things. the other is its easy for Americans to go to an Asian country, but the Asian coming here it has many challenges in a relationship. Practically impossible.
 
I have preferred East Asian females since I learned they existed. When I was six or seven I watched a television documentary on Japanese school children. I thought "Some white girls are pretty. Some are not. All Japanese girls are pretty." I soon learned that Chinese girls looked just as good.

Oriental women have less testosterone than white women, and more estrogen, so they are more feminine.

I am white, by the way.
 
as a black man dating east Asian women will be hard most are not interested in black men they prefer white men i learned that the hard way

I have preferred East Asian females since I learned they existed. When I was six or seven I watched a television documentary on Japanese school children. I thought "Some white girls are pretty. Some are not. All Japanese girls are pretty." I soon learned that Chinese girls looked just as good.

Oriental women have less testosterone than white women, and more estrogen, so they are more feminine.

I am white, by the way.
We know you're white, likely American. Coz you just called a group of people Oriental. Oriental is what is used to describe a thing, not a person.
 
We know you're white, likely American. Coz you just called a group of people Oriental. Oriental is what is used to describe a thing, not a person.
When I use the word "Oriental" I mean Chinese, and nations that adopted Chinse culture. These are Korea, Japan, and Vietnam. I do not mean to use the word "Oriental" in a derogatory way, because I prefer Orientals to my own race. When I told an Oriental woman I was dating, "I prefer Oriental women," she did not get angry at me.

She smiled and said, "You think we are much more wonderful." I told her I do.
 
Correction, an elderly, white, American. It's generally considered offensive to use the word Oriental to describe people. Regardless of how one person supposedly responded, you're on a public forum. Search it up, it's been disrespectful for ages. Do what you like, just trying to help you understand how to be a kinder more respectful person.
 
This research has found that Asian American women prefer to date White men over men of color, and they are less likely than Asian American men to want to date a fellow Asian American (Hwang, 2013; Tsunokai et al., 2014). Furthermore, only 32% of Asian American women expressed a willingness to date a Black man and only 45.9% expressed a willingness to date a Latino man (Hwang, 2013). While these studies describe some patterns of Asian American women’s racialized dating preferences, they do not consider what racially relevant sociocultural factors may motivate these preferences.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-024-01450-9
 
Correction, an elderly, white, American. It's generally considered offensive to use the word Oriental to describe people. Regardless of how one person supposedly responded, you're on a public forum. Search it up, it's been disrespectful for ages. Do what you like, just trying to help you understand how to be a kinder more respectful person.
I also use the word "Negro."
 
This research has found that Asian American women prefer to date White men over men of color, and they are less likely than Asian American men to want to date a fellow Asian American (Hwang, 2013; Tsunokai et al., 2014). Furthermore, only 32% of Asian American women expressed a willingness to date a Black man and only 45.9% expressed a willingness to date a Latino man (Hwang, 2013). While these studies describe some patterns of Asian American women’s racialized dating preferences, they do not consider what racially relevant sociocultural factors may motivate these preferences.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-024-01450-9
And? Why so race driven? I don't get it
I also use the word "Negro."
So do 140 million+ people on the planet, so?
 
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