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In my days, I used to date quite long period.
My dates didn't put out a lot except one.
My dates didn't put out a lot except one.
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Johnny Mayberry
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I personally don't like to jump right into the sex. To me, it seems that if you have sex on the first date, and on every date, it makes it easier to pretend that the person is a better match for you than she really is. When i was younger, and I wasn't ever looking for anything serious, it didn't matter, sex was a big goal. Now, I can date just for fun, but I wouldn't mind having more serious relationships, and waiting to have sex seems to help that.
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sidney328 said:
I've been out with numerous girls who the thought of sex was the farthest thing from my mind....
Well,...it wasn't in the top 5...okay?
Three women I dated for a long time, and never even copped a feel. Not because I didn't want to, but I feared sending the wrong signals. These were women I really liked and saw them for more than a quick roll....
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sidney328:
"Guys, how long would you date someone if they didn't want to have sex right away?"
As long as I was interested.
"Sometimes, I find myself wishing that dating were simple again."
I find dating quite simple. Then again, I find human relationships quite simple.
"What happened to the whole courting thing? Why are people more interested in getting into another's pants than into their brain?"
Courting has never been about getting in someone's brain. Courting was all about getting them in your family.
"Guys, how long would you date someone if they didn't want to have sex right away?"
As long as I was interested.
"Sometimes, I find myself wishing that dating were simple again."
I find dating quite simple. Then again, I find human relationships quite simple.
"What happened to the whole courting thing? Why are people more interested in getting into another's pants than into their brain?"
Courting has never been about getting in someone's brain. Courting was all about getting them in your family.
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Re: Re: Re: Dating and sex
I don't want to get anyone in the family just yet, lol, I just want to date with no sex, get to know someone and what they're about before messing around [/B][/QUOTE]
I believe Nancy Reagan was correct then.....
JUST SAY NO!!!
sidney328 said:
I don't want to get anyone in the family just yet, lol, I just want to date with no sex, get to know someone and what they're about before messing around [/B][/QUOTE]
I believe Nancy Reagan was correct then.....
JUST SAY NO!!!
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It really depends on the woman and the situation, but mostly, I'm willing to wait until it feels right. If she isn't into having sex right away, I'm not going to feel comfortable having sex with her right away. Depending on how often you go out, I don't think 3-4 months is unreasonable. After that, I may start to wonder if she's really interested in me at all.sidney328 said:
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Anyone ever date and not have sex anymore?
Ever again? No, I don't think I could go for that permanently.
Guys, how long would you date someone if they didn't want to have sex right away?
I could tolerate it quite a long time if the woman was special. But if it was because of other reaosn that she wasn't being honest about, I would end things as soon as I found it.
Sometimes, I find myself wishing that dating were simple again.
What happened to the whole courting thing? Why are people more interested in getting into another's pants than into their brain?
That isn't true. You just aren't looking with the right part of your brain. Do something different than what you normally do. Talk to someone you wouldn't normally have. You just might discover a whole new world. Take a chance.
If all a person ever knows is what they have, then they are probably dead.
Ever again? No, I don't think I could go for that permanently.
Guys, how long would you date someone if they didn't want to have sex right away?
I could tolerate it quite a long time if the woman was special. But if it was because of other reaosn that she wasn't being honest about, I would end things as soon as I found it.
Sometimes, I find myself wishing that dating were simple again.
What happened to the whole courting thing? Why are people more interested in getting into another's pants than into their brain?
That isn't true. You just aren't looking with the right part of your brain. Do something different than what you normally do. Talk to someone you wouldn't normally have. You just might discover a whole new world. Take a chance.
If all a person ever knows is what they have, then they are probably dead.
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Never said:
LMAO! Reminds me of my technique for the first few dates, which is to invite a woman for lunch. A lunch date doesn't really put people in the mindset of 'are we gonna have sex?!?' the way an evening date does. Lunch dates barely count as a real date in many people's minds, so that might be the way to go.
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OMG, you poor thing!sidney328 said:
I could go you one better...I was 'seeing' a woman for about 2 months, and I was the last to know that we were 'engaged'! I have never run so fast or so far from a woman...
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hmm ...If I need a conversation I'll talk to a friend ... Dating is about sex ...
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Mr K and I knew eachother for a year and dated for six months before we had sex. Which is really amazing, considering how generally promiscuous I was at the time. But he was special.
