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[donjuanx23]

How can I ask this girl I know out on a date? Our families have been friends four 15 years. We personally have been friends now for at least ten of those years years. I really like her both as a friend and more. I want to ask her in a way that wont make our currrent relationship wird. I have flirted with her in the past and I think that she has notice. Every time I think I have th courge to ask her out, I find out that she has a boyfriend (we live about 4 hours apart). What can I do?

 

[mjl2010]

How can I ask this girl I know out on a date? Our families have been friends four 15 years. We personally have been friends now for at least ten of those years years. I really like her both as a friend and more. I want to ask her in a way that wont make our currrent relationship wird. I have flirted with her in the past and I think that she has notice. Every time I think I have th courge to ask her out, I find out that she has a boyfriend (we live about 4 hours apart). What can I do?

Send her flowers. On the evening of the day they get delivered, call her up, talk to her a while and then ask her out. You never know, she may have been waiting for you to ask her for the last ten years. Takes courage, but suck it up and do it.

MJL

 

[smotherman]

How can I ask this girl I know out on a date? Our families have been friends four 15 years. We personally have been friends now for at least ten of those years years. I really like her both as a friend and more. I want to ask her in a way that wont make our currrent relationship wird. I have flirted with her in the past and I think that she has notice. Every time I think I have th courge to ask her out, I find out that she has a boyfriend (we live about 4 hours apart). What can I do?

How ofen do you have the courage to ask her out? Be direct with her and tell her your feelings. Life is too short not to go after what you want. The direct approach is always the best one.

good luck!

 

[donjuanx23]

I usually see her once a month and have built up the courge to ask her out (for the moment anyway. Thanks for the advice.

 

[northern_nights]

Go for it! If she's not interested in more and you can accept the friendship the way it is, then it might not change your friendship at all. I have a great friend that wanted to date, I wasn't interested in more, but we are still great friends(more so now that he has found another)

 

[subwannabe]

I think you should do a little trick I used to do a lot when I was single: Ask her out without actually asking her out. Since she often has a boyfriend, if you ask her out and she says no you will probably never ask her out again. Instead, just say something like, " We have known each other for a long time and I really like you and I would like to get to know you a lot better. What do you think about doing something sometime?". Then just see what her reaction is and take it from there. Maybe you will get a date tomorrow, maybe next month, maybe never. I figure if she is willing to go out now she will jump at the opportunity, if she doesn't want to now she will remember what you said later, and if she doesn't want to at all I suspect you will know that too.