Damn. It happened again.

*hugs*


Lots and lots of 'em.


I'm here ifyou need a listening ear or whatever :)
 
Thank you, EL. I'm in a really bad place in my head right now. I feel so betrayed. Your kind words really help.
 
English Lady said:
I totally mean it too...if you need to chat at all my PM is wide open :) :kiss:

I may tay you up on that when I can stop crying long enough to type. :(
 
My heart goes out to you. :rose:

If it helps, just think that it's better to find out now, than further on down the line. Probably doesn't just now...I know it hurts.
 
cloudy said:
My heart goes out to you. :rose:

If it helps, just think that it's better to find out now, than further on down the line. Probably doesn't just now...I know it hurts.


Thank you, sweets. I know you're right; it's better to know now. But, yeah, it still fucking hurts like hell.
 
LadyJeanne said:
My SO turned out to be less S than O. Fuck.

Welp, now you're gonna have to track em down and kill em just like the last one. Why are they always afraid of commitment?
 
Lucifer_Carroll said:
Welp, now you're gonna have to track em down and kill em just like the last one. Why are they always afraid of commitment?

I'm sure his other girlfriend would be asking the same thing if she knew what he was up to. But I'm sure she doesn't. I certainly didn't know I was the other woman.
 
Anytime *hugs*

it'll take time..but you'll get over this..you will. Just let yourself go through allthe emotions you need to...we're all here for ya :)
 
Let's drink a bunch of whiskey and drive around with the jerk in the trunk of my car, that sounds like therapy, doesn't it? :kiss:
 
Another O More S

I feel very bad for the way you are feeling.

Know that tomorrow will bring you another O who will be far more S and give you much happiness.
 
LadyJeanne said:
I'm sure his other girlfriend would be asking the same thing if she knew what he was up to. But I'm sure she doesn't. I certainly didn't know I was the other woman.

See now you can both kill him and share a bonding experience over it. See it's not an ending, but a life affirming beginning. Well, it'll be an ending for him, but then he no longer matters.
 
LadyJeanne said:
I'm sure his other girlfriend would be asking the same thing if she knew what he was up to. But I'm sure she doesn't. I certainly didn't know I was the other woman.
Lucifer's idea might seem a bit radical. But you and her have a golden opportunity to deliver him some solid stereo slapping on the very least.

Meanwhile, have an unconditional virtual hug, and a few red and green pixels: :rose:
 
OhMissScarlett said:
Let's drink a bunch of whiskey and drive around with the jerk in the trunk of my car, that sounds like therapy, doesn't it? :kiss:

Whiskey could help except that it wouldn't get past the knot in my stomach and perfectly good whiskey shouldn't be wasted.
 
LadyJeanne said:
My SO turned out to be less S than O. Fuck.

Hang in there LadyJeanne, he obviously didn't deserve you. *hugs* from afar.
 
Oh, LadyJ, I'm so sorry! The bastard. Hugs to you! If you and Scarlett decide to ride around with him in the trunk, come by here. I'll kick him in the balls and then in the head and then I'll call the cops and report him for trespassing. After that we can go for a nice therapeutic swim and swill liqueur.

Hugs. I am so, so sorry for your hurt. :rose:

Luck to you,

Yui
 
:rose:

Time to let the other, other woman know about his insignificance.

Fuckin' dweeb. :mad:
 
Farrrgin' Bastage!

Can you say 'lesbian'? :D

kidding!

~lucky (always ready to return the favor to a jackass... lemme know if you think he'd be kicking himself if he found out you had a girlfriend and would have been willing to share. I volunteer, btw!) ;)
 
Luc and Yui, thank you for being willing to inflict bodily harm on my behalf. Those kind of friends are good friends to have. I'd take you up on it, but I'm too busy kicking myself for believing.

Liar and Imp, I agree his girlfriend would be better off knowing. I have no way of doing that and I wouldn't, anyway. Not now. I feel too vulnerable as it is.

Lucky, thank you for that delightful offer! He'd be a fool not to kick himself about missing that. But then, he's already established himself as a fool.

Thanks so much to all of you for your kind thoughts. I truly appreciate them.

:kiss:
 
My condolences, Jeanne.

Some men are just assholes.

But remember, it's just some. There are still good guys out there and one is prob'ly looking for you.

:rose:
 
LJ, I am not being flippant when I say try to think of him as just another member of his species. It helped me once. P. :heart:
 
Dranoel said:
My condolences, Jeanne.

Some men are just assholes.

But remember, it's just some. There are still good guys out there and one is prob'ly looking for you.

:rose:

Some women too. Had the same thing happen to me a while back. She told me about her real boyfriend as a Christmas present. Most "WTF?" Christmas yet so far, but I'm hoping to top it one year.

But it wasn't a candle to what happened to Jeanne. At least she admitted before anything serious happened.

This guy, on the other hand, for his cowardice would make a fine fondue pot for guests.
 
*nuzzle*

He's an ass. And while some of my best friends are donkeys, he's not the good kind.

All I can say is that anyone who's read your work must know what an absolute idiot he must be.

Don't berate yourself. Love takes trust. We're not fools to trust; we're just brave and hopeful. It takes courage to believe the best of people, and it's courage that is needed for the good of everyone. Idiots who abuse that faith and strength are neither clever nor superior - just curs who are willing to destroy all of the beauty and love that we all need in pursuit of egoistic gratification.

You are infinitely his superior.

Shanglan
 
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