Daddy's Little Girl

I know this has been said before, but I think it bears repeating: for all the romanticising and idealizing of this dynamic, it is so important to remember you are dealing with a human being, with a life. As littles, yes, we're strong and capable, but daddy taps into that most vulnerable part of us. It's not to be taken lightly. Real harm can be inflicted.

I know there are good daddies and bad daddies, as in every other part of life and humanity. Just be careful who you entrust with your heart. Not even daddies are always who they say they are. :heart:
 
I know this has been said before, but I think it bears repeating: for all the romanticising and idealizing of this dynamic, it is so important to remember you are dealing with a human being, with a life. As littles, yes, we're strong and capable, but daddy taps into that most vulnerable part of us. It's not to be taken lightly. Real harm can be inflicted.

I know there are good daddies and bad daddies, as in every other part of life and humanity. Just be careful who you entrust with your heart. Not even daddies are always who they say they are. :heart:

As with the term "dominant", the "daddy" term can be used by predators too easily, I'm afraid.

Also, not all "little girls" or "daddy's girls" are "littles", but that's a side note.
 
I know this has been said before, but I think it bears repeating: for all the romanticising and idealizing of this dynamic, it is so important to remember you are dealing with a human being, with a life. As littles, yes, we're strong and capable, but daddy taps into that most vulnerable part of us. It's not to be taken lightly. Real harm can be inflicted.

I know there are good daddies and bad daddies, as in every other part of life and humanity. Just be careful who you entrust with your heart. Not even daddies are always who they say they are. :heart:

Thank you for this wonderful reminder, FJ.

As littles we need to be careful, but as in any relationship, there is no full-proof way to ensure we are never hurt or taken advantage of. As we meet someone and learn about them, trust is something that happens over time. We should never rush in simply to have 'the safety' of a Daddy, nor should we allow someone to take advantage of our trust just because they say 'they know what is best for us'.

However, once we trust, and our submission takes place we are vulnerable, I think this is the whole point of submitting.

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As with the term "dominant", the "daddy" term can be used by predators too easily, I'm afraid.

Also, not all "little girls" or "daddy's girls" are "littles", but that's a side note.

Thank you for pointing this as well. :rose:
 
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I know this has been said before, but I think it bears repeating: for all the romanticising and idealizing of this dynamic, it is so important to remember you are dealing with a human being, with a life. As littles, yes, we're strong and capable, but daddy taps into that most vulnerable part of us. It's not to be taken lightly. Real harm can be inflicted.

I know there are good daddies and bad daddies, as in every other part of life and humanity. Just be careful who you entrust with your heart. Not even daddies are always who they say they are. :heart:

Absolutely FJ. Because of the vulnerability and the potential of complete control, DDLG, as with any DS dynamics must be approached with extreme caution. Building up trust is key and that requires understanding and patience on the part of the dominant member. I feel the submissive should also be wary at the initial stages... it is certainly not to be taken lightly be it online and offline. However, the rewards of finding a "good" one makes the experience incredible and worth the time and effort.
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Absolutely FJ. Because of the vulnerability and the potential of complete control, DDLG, as with any DS dynamics must be approached with extreme caution. Building up trust is key and that requires understanding and patience on the part of the dominant member. I feel the submissive should also be wary at the initial stages... it is certainly not to be taken lightly be it online and offline. However, the rewards of finding a "good" one makes the experience incredible and worth the time and effort.
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I think that FelicityJohns, barefootgirl69 and you have brought up great points that need to be remember by both parties.
 
It goes both ways, Littles can wound there Daddy's with misused word, or thought, or deed. I have stressed Comunication is key so many times. So yes please vet your Daddy's as hard as you would oh say open heart surgery, because once broken...
 
Oh DA.. you are absolutely right. It is sometimes easy to forget that the dominant is also vulnerable in terms of his feelings to the submissive. It goes both ways and communication is key.
I would also like to add that finding someone that fits you Is important. At the end of the day, it is a relationship and like any other relationship, there is no one size fits all. Someone who is the perfect Daddy Dom for one might not be so for someone else. And the same applies to the submissive.
 
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