headdoctor
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Greetings. I posted a similar ad in the BDSM personals a couple days ago and I'm sorry for re-posting here. While my ideal woman is a natural submissive, I'm drawn to any bright, adventurous woman who wants to explore creative, playful, taboo narratives.
My hope is to find a sweetheart with a secret suspicion that she might be attracted to the dark side. Perhaps she is not so drawn that she topples into the abyss but at least she likes to be encouraged into contemplation of its depths. A fun tour of taboo country with an experienced guide. It is an enormous pleasure for me to encourage and bring out those fantasies and desires.
My ideal partner enjoys wordplay and the thrill of the erotic imagination. Though perhaps inexperienced and reserved, though perhaps a lurker out here, she is curious about the world of forbidden pleasure. I especially enjoy family fantasies (more than realities), plays of consensual sharing that, though at first reluctantly undertaken, become a powerful passion. It's the hesitation at the edge, followed by the delicious indulgence, that I find erotic. It doesn't matter to me what the roles are; I like the intimacy with so much at stake. For that matter, I'm drawn to any stories or roles that move us into terra incognita, places that we can't anticipate, know might have risks, but need to explore.
I greatly enjoy the written word but ultimately I want someone who can talk on the phone as well (on anonymous chat lines), thinking into and thinking up all kinds of inventive strategies (role plays, stories, and so on).
I'd add that, for me, the pleasure of these explorations is based on some kind of friendship and, within the limits of privacy and anonymity, openness and even trust. I have always found that I can go deeper and wilder with my partner if we know each other's sensitivities.
I should say: I'm in my mid-50s, educated and kind, naughty and adventurous, attached (happily) and nonjudgmental (though for all my interest in taboo I also have some limits!). I'm quite politically liberal and enjoy the arts, cooking, and anything that gets me into the woods. Also, I'm only partly Irish!
If you're interested, please message me!
My hope is to find a sweetheart with a secret suspicion that she might be attracted to the dark side. Perhaps she is not so drawn that she topples into the abyss but at least she likes to be encouraged into contemplation of its depths. A fun tour of taboo country with an experienced guide. It is an enormous pleasure for me to encourage and bring out those fantasies and desires.
My ideal partner enjoys wordplay and the thrill of the erotic imagination. Though perhaps inexperienced and reserved, though perhaps a lurker out here, she is curious about the world of forbidden pleasure. I especially enjoy family fantasies (more than realities), plays of consensual sharing that, though at first reluctantly undertaken, become a powerful passion. It's the hesitation at the edge, followed by the delicious indulgence, that I find erotic. It doesn't matter to me what the roles are; I like the intimacy with so much at stake. For that matter, I'm drawn to any stories or roles that move us into terra incognita, places that we can't anticipate, know might have risks, but need to explore.
I greatly enjoy the written word but ultimately I want someone who can talk on the phone as well (on anonymous chat lines), thinking into and thinking up all kinds of inventive strategies (role plays, stories, and so on).
I'd add that, for me, the pleasure of these explorations is based on some kind of friendship and, within the limits of privacy and anonymity, openness and even trust. I have always found that I can go deeper and wilder with my partner if we know each other's sensitivities.
I should say: I'm in my mid-50s, educated and kind, naughty and adventurous, attached (happily) and nonjudgmental (though for all my interest in taboo I also have some limits!). I'm quite politically liberal and enjoy the arts, cooking, and anything that gets me into the woods. Also, I'm only partly Irish!
If you're interested, please message me!
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