Cyber Sex

[bondagegurl]

Do you enjoy it or... does it do nothing for you?

If you do enjoy it, what part of it do you enjoy? The ideas exchanged (the fantasy exchanged back and forth in words), or the thought of what the other person at the other computer is doing as they type?

 

[roxanne69]

With the right person I really enjoy it. I think that the best sex is very cerebral. When you don't have r/l sex, a cyber buddy who writes well and shares the same fantasies can be very very erotic. Knowing that the other person is masturbating at the same time is icing on the cake to me so I would have to say I like both facets of it.

 

[kotori]

It's not as much fun as phone. There's something about hearing the other person's voice. You don't have touch, you don't have sight, you don't have taste or smell--at least there's aurel connection. And it's "hands-free." Typing is too distracting and there's no senses used.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I dream in text...so cyber works just fine for me.

 

[bondagegurl]

With the right person I really enjoy it. I think that the best sex is very cerebral. When you don't have r/l sex, a cyber buddy who writes well and shares the same fantasies can be very very erotic. Knowing that the other person is masturbating at the same time is icing on the cake to me so I would have to say I like both facets of it.

i agree with you completely... i've had times where i'd just *disapear* because it was so horrible, yet others when i couldn't get enough!

 

[lobito]

if I was goona do something (sick) like that, I'd prefer Phone, cybering isn't the same, after phone.


From what I hear.

 

[roxanne69]

It's not as much fun as phone. There's something about hearing the other person's voice. You don't have touch, you don't have sight, you don't have taste or smell--at least there's aurel connection. And it's "hands-free." Typing is too distracting and there's no senses used.

Very true kotori. My favorite is starting in cyber and working each other into a frenzy, ultimately consummating it on the phone *fanning myself*

bondagegurl: I have "disappeared" when it has been painfully bad as well...lol I know what you mean

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I never understood the cyber thing. Still don't. The phone...eh...it would have to be with a person I really knew. And even then...I am left aching. I need flesh. I real person in front of me. To touch. Taste. Hear his need.

 

[bondagegurl]

It's not as much fun as phone. There's something about hearing the other person's voice. You don't have touch, you don't have sight, you don't have taste or smell--at least there's aurel connection. And it's "hands-free." Typing is too distracting and there's no senses used.

oh yes.. phone sex can be awesome! actually hearing the persons voice can be a wonderful turn on as well!

Mmmmmm... ~*sigh*~

 

[bondagegurl]

I never understood the cyber thing. Still don't. The phone...eh...it would have to be with a person I really knew. And even then...I am left aching. I need flesh. I real person in front of me. To touch. Taste. Hear his need.

What if you found someone with the exact same sexual interests as yourself?

Would you consider it?

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

What if you found someone with the exact same sexual interests as yourself?

Would you consider it?

To cyber with?

I have someone, and I don't 'cyber' with him. I can't wrap my mind around the thought of fucking sitting here at my desk typing to him when I can call him. Or see him. I am beginning to think, people place too much stock in being on-line. But that is just me...I want flesh. I want to see that persons eyes when we are really doing things together...not typing about it.

 

[Guest]

What if you found someone with the exact same sexual interests as yourself?

Would you consider it?

That's the secret...finding a cyber soul-mate. I have - for over a year now and our "sessions" leave me feeling almost as satisfied as real life sex. He keeps coming back, so it must be good for him too.

 

[bondagegurl]

To cyber with?

I have someone, and I don't 'cyber' with him. I can't wrap my mind around the thought of fucking sitting here at my desk typing to him when I can call him. Or see him. I am beginning to think, people place too much stock in being on-line. But that is just me...I want flesh. I want to see that persons eyes when we are really doing things together...not typing about it.

I can understand that, nothing will ever be as good as the real thing

But, imagine the situation is... you can't see him...

 

[bondagegurl]

That's the secret...finding a cyber soul-mate. I have - for over a year now and our "sessions" leave me feeling almost as satisfied as real life sex. He keeps coming back, so it must be good for him too.

~*smiles*~ which is why i started this thread... i never cared for cyber sex til now and wanted to know if other people feel like that as well.

i didn't know there was someone else out there that was so like me sexually!!!

 

[Spider_Guy]

Cybering can be all right.....at times.

Have you ever tried it with pictures?. Like if you describe yourself as wearing something you send a pic of yourself wearing that particular outfit to that person. Can add a little excitement to the whole "cybering" thang

 

[glamorilla]

if I was goona do something (sick) like that, I'd prefer Phone, cybering isn't the same, after phone.


From what I hear.

there's a "lobito" that hangs out in one of the nycm4m rooms i frequent...always trips me out when he messages me.

cybering can be fun~but i use it as an appetizer. i look at it as writing an interactive dirty story with someone but if the person your chatting with lacks talent its just boring.

 

[lobito]

sorry Glam, if it was me, I'd let you know. You should know me well enough to know that by now.

 

[lilminx]

I never understood the cyber thing. Still don't. The phone...eh...it would have to be with a person I really knew. And even then...I am left aching. I need flesh. I real person in front of me. To touch. Taste. Hear his need.

I feel pretty much the same way. I don't get off on phone sex, and cyber is just boring.

I need the feel of the person's body touching mine, the scent of him, his taste...

 

[glamorilla]

sorry Glam, if it was me, I'd let you know. You should know me well enough to know that by now.

actually he's a nice latin boy from the bronx.

 

[WynEternal]

Cyber does nothing for me either.

 

[SeXyGuRLiE6969]

depends on who ya do it with, some people just ramble on and on
and even when you dont reply, they seem to keep going
anyone know what i'm talking about?
lolz

 

[Spider_Guy]

depends on who ya do it with, some people just ramble on and on
and even when you dont reply, they seem to keep going
anyone know what i'm talking about?
lolz

HEEEY!!!!! What can I say, I had a lot of caffiene that night. My fingers where bouncing off the keys like crazy. I kept pushing the keyboard off my thighs with my thingy...lol.

Ok, so we've never cybered. But I'm bored and it sounded funny at the time

No hard feeling luv?

 

[leathercrow]

~*smiles*~ which is why i started this thread... i never cared for cyber sex til now and wanted to know if other people feel like that as well.

i didn't know there was someone else out there that was so like me sexually!!!

Never cared for cyber sex till now eh? Hmmm And just think that is how we began our relationship too. Interesting....I'm curious to find out just with whom you may have found this wonderful connection with but I am sure I have a good guess.*smile*

 

[cheesysusie]

Hmmmm, interesting question. I have very much enjoyed cyber sex. I have enjoyed phone sex as well. Obviously, it's going to be better in real life. But sometimes you settle for what's available.

 

[k¡tty]

Cybersex? Phone?



Oh I'm blushing at the mere thought..