CuriousCat89
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- Feb 16, 2024
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It's been a while, as I look on and off. I've had success before with long term relationships, including in person, so I thought I might try again.
I'm a 40-something female in the NE US, mostly happy at home but alone often so I'm not looking for anything messy or to talk about how much we hate married life or our exes.
What I like: cooking (mostly plant based), travel, exercise, politics, girly things like the spa, good TV shows. I like my job, and I have no problem admitting that I don't really love going out anymore unless it's to concerts - with proper ear protection now! I'm more submissive/masochistic. I'm trying to read more as an answer to limiting social media and not doing well so far.
What I like in a partner: quiet dominance - doesn't need everyone to know his business, someone who likes similar things but not the exact things, someone who isn't ashamed of their home life, someone who has a good job that challenges them and wants to talk about it. Who understands that I have a life off-lit, and understands boundaries. Someone who wants to build a trusting communications-based relationship that could turn into more with the right level of trust and chemistry. I am open to geography and definitely think some accents are super sexy (are you English?).
What I don't like: MAGA, MAHA, negging, daddies, people who I know have been sending the same message to everyone on lit for 3 years with no positive outcome. Smoking and drinking. Dick pics and immaturity.
I'm a 40-something female in the NE US, mostly happy at home but alone often so I'm not looking for anything messy or to talk about how much we hate married life or our exes.
What I like: cooking (mostly plant based), travel, exercise, politics, girly things like the spa, good TV shows. I like my job, and I have no problem admitting that I don't really love going out anymore unless it's to concerts - with proper ear protection now! I'm more submissive/masochistic. I'm trying to read more as an answer to limiting social media and not doing well so far.
What I like in a partner: quiet dominance - doesn't need everyone to know his business, someone who likes similar things but not the exact things, someone who isn't ashamed of their home life, someone who has a good job that challenges them and wants to talk about it. Who understands that I have a life off-lit, and understands boundaries. Someone who wants to build a trusting communications-based relationship that could turn into more with the right level of trust and chemistry. I am open to geography and definitely think some accents are super sexy (are you English?).
What I don't like: MAGA, MAHA, negging, daddies, people who I know have been sending the same message to everyone on lit for 3 years with no positive outcome. Smoking and drinking. Dick pics and immaturity.
