curiously bi

[english scorpio]

please could someone tell me if theres a problem being bisexual..ive been married for 2years but just recently have been thinking about a relationship with another man..a stranger..whether its a fantasy or not i dont know but i enjoy looking at other men naked and am wondering what to do next?
please reply...

 

[rambling man]

Well, if you are married, cheating with a man is the same as cheating with a woman, I'd say. If you are bi, then you should be able to control your urges with both, if you are gay and can't have sex with your wife anymore, then you should be honest and leave

 

[cymbidia]

If you and your wife have expectations of exclusivity in your marriage, then the best thing to do is talk to her about your feelings for other men.

If you can't, then you have to decide if doing something about your urges without her knowledge is worth the risk to your marriage.

If it is, you have to always play with other people safely, so you don't drag any kinda disease home to her.

Don't let anyone but your own mind, your own conscience tell you what to do in this situation. YOU are the one living your life, not me, not anyother poster here. YOU are the only one who can possibly make a decision of this magnitude. Don't even ask us, strangers, what you should do. Gather info, think everything over carefully, and make a decision based on what's right for you. It's the only way.

That said, most people are bisexual to some degree. Go here to read more about it:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?postid=593831#post593831

This is a difficult decision for you. Good luck with understanding your needs and finding a way to integrate an expression of those needs into your life.

 

[His Whimsicality]

Lately I´ve also developed quite some amount of bi-curiousity. So I finally met someone I got acqainted with over the internet and he is very nice and also handsome - but during our talk I somehow realized that, despite my fantasies, it wasn´t the real thing for me. That is not to say that I´ll never try to be intimate with a man, but I think I realized at that time that I was lotsa more attracted to woman. Dunno if this is going to help, but that was my impression.