Must be somewhere back in my early years (sometime in the 60's) when my curiosity developed and I have been that way ever since. So, here I am in my evening years where I still have this urge to be curious, but everyone (or so it seems to be to me) is more interested in the younger "swinging dicks" and "split-tails" rather than sample the taste of experience. And, with that said, part of that diverted interest is because I am married as well, where no one wants to get in-between (or again, so they claim) any stormy winds that might prevail from that sort of an alliance. However, the data will show that there is an over-abundance of married individuals that "fool around" either with or without their spouse and either with or without the knowledge of their spouse. So, you might say, "this is all so boring..." And, I would agree so let me get to my point...
I am a married male, middle-aged, married, professionally employed, well-educated (in both street as well as book knowledge), average to above average in all my physical characteristics (in case you have this need to compare) who still has many curiosities about a multitude of sexual deviations (and, this word is not used in any negative kind of way) that I would like to explore with the right individual(s) and/or couple(s).
I can assure you that age and race make absolutely no difference to me but seriousness and discretion is important and is a must have for me. And, while I still enjoy sex very much, I have never been one to jump from bed-to-bed or desire a wham, bam, thank-you mam kind of experience. There must be mutual respect and friendship from which the sexual adventure develops naturally and exploration is not only a natural evolution to the experience, but mutually discussed and agreed upon.
And, if all you want to do is talk or email, then that sharing can be just as enjoyable and fulfilling in my opinion because it has been my experience that those types of situations are missing in most long-term relationship and I believe that void is important to fill for day-to-day peace-of-mind.
I get embarrassed easily and my face grows red. I am shy and introverted and if I were a student in class, I would be sitting in the back of the room and not raising my hand to make a comment. I am very kind and considerate and have an enormous amount of compassion as well as passion to offer. I am an excellent listener and in so doing, never make judgements on people, especially taking into consideration all the "less than positive" things that I have done in my life.
I like to read (or listen to books on tape), walk, kayak, watch old movies, drink coffee and wine, have been to both Woodstock and VietNam and visited almost every country in the world. I can dress-up and hold my own in coversations with the intellectual elite (or so they think of themselves) or the wealthy, and I can dress down (not really my choice of words) and hold my own with the homeless or the less fortunate (regardless of their circumstances); in short, I feel comfortable with all levels of our socio-economic society...
I like to talk politics, and other current issues in the news, but I am hot-to-trot on conversations that revolve around religion, gun control, or abortion. However, I do believe in "Gay Rights" and that ALL people have a right to decide what it is that they might want to do to or with their own bodies... However, I like the idea of philosophical discussions or even theoretical physics (string theory), SCIFI, and the concepts of multiple dimensions. But, I am not a very good speller so if you catch a word or two, it is because it is just mispelled......
My birthday is Scorpio and I am a middle child. My Myers-Briggs type is INTJ. I bite my fingernails, but have excellent teeth and very few cavities. Until recently, my eyes have been 20/20 or better but I need glasses to read. I am not constipated like rhinos nor do I have my nose in the sky like that tall bird that never flies...
And, most proudly, I am a Southerner... and a father...
And, in closing I love to sing and drink and know or remember a few drinking songs that I used to sing when younger.... like, "roll me over in the clover..." or "bang, bang lulu, lulu's gone away, who we gonna bang-bang..." or " roll-y pole-y tickle my hole-y..."
Love to hear from you... and will be sad, down in the dumps,
if I don't
