Curious

[Eighty6ed]

Any advice for a very bi-curious married guy that really wants to experience sex with another man? I don’t know how to go about it, I’ve tried Grindr and that was mostly a waste of time.

 

[hbbud]

Try Doublelist com free to use. My best results comes from silver daddies. remember a lot of guys respond when horny, cum and then chicken out. So keep looking

 

[PFWilly]

Try Doublelist com free to use. My best results comes from silver daddies. remember a lot of guys respond when horny, cum and then chicken out. So keep looking

I also had my best results from SilverDaddies... including the most awesome blowjob I EVER received.

One needs to be patient, as always there are a few flakes on some of those websites.

Good luck!

 

[cyberking001]

A few suggestions

Hi, here are a few suggestions that you can take or leave:

1. Get together with a mutual friend, business colleague, neighbour,
or someone else whom you know and whom you find attractive.
Start talking about the success (of lack of) in your sex lives and
what you need. That should make both of you horny, at which point
you can hint at (or even say straight out) what you are curious about
or what you would like to try. You never know where it might lead.
That is how I had my first two experiences -- I initiated physcial
contact with my first friend while we were watching (straight) porn
together, and it it was my second friend who was over for a visit,
and who started the conversation by asking me "If I have sex with
another man, is it still cheating on my wife?"

2. If there is a gay village area near where you live, go there on a
weekend evening. Go into a gay bar or dance club, just relax or
wander around. You can either make initial eye contact with people
whom you find attractive, or respond to people who make eye
contact with you. Talk first, make sure you are comfortable, and
see where it goes. Just use your common sense at all times.

2a. At this time of the year, there may be a city near you that is
hosting a "Pride Week" or weekend. If so, you can attend both
the public events as well as the open clubs and bars to get a
taste (pardon the pun) of life on the dark side .

3. There are several online sites that people have recommended.
You could include squirt.org which allows you to remain local.
It is free to join, but very limited access (e.g. no live chat) unless
you wish to become a paying member. However it is definitely
possible to create encounters, even if you do not pay.

4. Squirt.org will also give you lists of local cruise areas where guys
go just to cruise for sex. Once again, if that is your thing, keep your
common sense about you.

5. Do some online searches for local gay organizations that do activities
such as hiking, sports, tours, movies, social events, etc. and if these are
also things that you like to do, go to one of their events. That provides a
very good basis for having something in common and creating a friendship
even before it becomes physical.

6. You are married. Have you ever talked to your wife to see if she would
be interested in a 3-some with another guy, or even watch you get it on
with another guy? You might think she is the shyest, most inhibited girl
in the world, but one day when you are snuggling with one another, try
hinting at it and see where it goes! If it turns out that she is not averse
to the idea, she might even help find another man to bring into the picture.
All of this, of course, assuming that you want to explore your curiosity with her.
If not, you can throw this one into the round file.

In closing, given that you are married, keep your common sense about
you at all times, both about being out in unfamiliar areas and meeting or
having sex with strangers, as you do not want to become a crime news
item or bring home something unexpected to pass along to your wife.

Be sure to let us know how you make out -- and with whom
Sam

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Tried scruff but it seems useless, get no responses. Doublelist worked for me, had a couple of good leads and the ad I placed yesterday landed my first m2m today.

I wasn’t picky and actually had rare opportunity to host which helped a lot.
Have 2 more chances lined up in the near future too.

 

[carln3346]

Hi, here are a few suggestions that you can take or leave:

1. Get together with a mutual friend, business colleague, neighbour,
or someone else whom you know and whom you find attractive.
Start talking about the success (of lack of) in your sex lives and
what you need. That should make both of you horny, at which point
you can hint at (or even say straight out) what you are curious about
or what you would like to try. You never know where it might lead.
That is how I had my first two experiences -- I initiated physcial
contact with my first friend while we were watching (straight) porn
together, and it it was my second friend who was over for a visit,
and who started the conversation by asking me "If I have sex with
another man, is it still cheating on my wife?"

2. If there is a gay village area near where you live, go there on a
weekend evening. Go into a gay bar or dance club, just relax or
wander around. You can either make initial eye contact with people
whom you find attractive, or respond to people who make eye
contact with you. Talk first, make sure you are comfortable, and
see where it goes. Just use your common sense at all times.

2a. At this time of the year, there may be a city near you that is
hosting a "Pride Week" or weekend. If so, you can attend both
the public events as well as the open clubs and bars to get a
taste (pardon the pun) of life on the dark side .

3. There are several online sites that people have recommended.
You could include squirt.org which allows you to remain local.
It is free to join, but very limited access (e.g. no live chat) unless
you wish to become a paying member. However it is definitely
possible to create encounters, even if you do not pay.

4. Squirt.org will also give you lists of local cruise areas where guys
go just to cruise for sex. Once again, if that is your thing, keep your
common sense about you.

5. Do some online searches for local gay organizations that do activities
such as hiking, sports, tours, movies, social events, etc. and if these are
also things that you like to do, go to one of their events. That provides a
very good basis for having something in common and creating a friendship
even before it becomes physical.

6. You are married. Have you ever talked to your wife to see if she would
be interested in a 3-some with another guy, or even watch you get it on
with another guy? You might think she is the shyest, most inhibited girl
in the world, but one day when you are snuggling with one another, try
hinting at it and see where it goes! If it turns out that she is not averse
to the idea, she might even help find another man to bring into the picture.
All of this, of course, assuming that you want to explore your curiosity with her.
If not, you can throw this one into the round file.

In closing, given that you are married, keep your common sense about
you at all times, both about being out in unfamiliar areas and meeting or
having sex with strangers, as you do not want to become a crime news
item or bring home something unexpected to pass along to your wife.

Be sure to let us know how you make out -- and with whom
Sam

Excellent post . . . these are great suggestions and thoughts.
I haven't gotten up the nerve to approach someone I know (there are a few I'm attracted to), but it's a great idea if done right. If 2 guys are aroused, anything can happen.
I tried squirt, but had better luck with silverdaddies
I also have checked for cruise places, and was very surprised to find that a park that's not too far away is known to be a safe place for men to connect. I've been there 3 times, and lucked out twice.
And always, always, use common sense!

 

[Hornybicurguy]

Tell me please, what is the meaning of "420 friendly" ?

 

[pantyboyxxx]

Tell me please, what is the meaning of "420 friendly" ?

Smokes pot.

 

[Hornybicurguy]

Smokes pot.

Many thanks, I thought so but was uncertain I hope you don't mind if I use it as well.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

As a married man who enjoys taking a mans cock in my mouth, i know how hard it is to find the right guy. I mean i could just go out and suck every cock that is presented to me but that would be asking for trouble. I am very picky about who i suck off, i do prefer other married guys, but sometimes its not that easy. Where do other married guys find cock?

 

[cyberking001]

As a married man who enjoys taking a mans cock in my mouth, i know how hard it is to find the right guy. I mean i could just go out and suck every cock that is presented to me but that would be asking for trouble. I am very picky about who i suck off, i do prefer other married guys, but sometimes its not that easy. Where do other married guys find cock?

See my post that I made above (Sam)

 

[cyberking001]

Tell me please, what is the meaning of "420 friendly" ?

The reason that "420" means weed is that in California, where the term comes from,
teenage boys used to meet after school at 4:20 p.m. to smoke up together (Sam)

 

[jackbird]

luck

I have good luck on Double list. I have placed a add on there. 1 out of 5 works out the other 4 get cold feet when it's time to meet. I place the same add 3 times over a year so it dose take work. right now I see a married guy a couple times a week. I am embarrassed to say I blow him in his truck. We meet after work and I get in his truck. He tells me his wife is a great fuck but no oral so I give him what he wants. I all so had some luck on silverdaddies was seeing a guy that was 77 years old. He loved that I never rushed sucking him. Older guys do take a longer time but thats why I love sucking them

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

As a married man who enjoys taking a mans cock in my mouth, i know how hard it is to find the right guy. I mean i could just go out and suck every cock that is presented to me but that would be asking for trouble. I am very picky about who i suck off, i do prefer other married guys, but sometimes its not that easy. Where do other married guys find cock?

Short of knocking on your door---?
Parks, bars, E-way reststops, fishing sites at the State Parks, beach, etc. etc...