Curious question about sexual partners...

[artistgonewyld]

I was having a discussion with a friend earlier and we couldn't cum to an agreement.

The debate: most people have had well over 50 sexual partners. Especially people between the ages of 20 to 35.

The question: how many partners, in all honesty, have you had?

 

[College_geek]

One. It makes me a bit depressed, even if I do love him. Makes me feel very undesirable to say, in complete and utter honesty, that I've only had one, when, if standing in a line, either person next to me would probably have to use at least 2 hands to count.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

One. It makes me a bit depressed, even if I do love him. Makes me feel very undesirable to say, in complete and utter honesty, that I've only had one, when, if standing in a line, either person next to me would probably have to use at least 2 hands to count.

one more than me

get close and then I find out I was being used as an emotional tampon and such
finaly got fed up and told 4 of girls(differant times) I was going after if they weren't interested in a real relationship I was done dealing with them
havn't seen them since
no lose

 

[College_geek]

one more than me

get close and then I find out I was being used as an emotional tampon and such
finaly got fed up and told 4 of girls(differant times) I was going after if they weren't interested in a real relationship I was done dealing with them
havn't seen them since
no lose

Hmm...well at least you had more that one person at least show some interest...even if it was emotionally greedy interest. Don't become an ass, though...I hate when nice guys give up and become assholes.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Hmm...well at least you had more that one person at least show some interest...even if it was emotionally greedy interest. Don't become an ass, though...I hate when nice guys give up and become assholes.

actualy
I more of an asshole posing as a nice guy
I'm nice and civil, if not a bit satirical and sarcastic
then you get to know the perverted asshole once I get used to you

though I could cave and go after that couger with the 8y/o that keeps following me around everytime she sees me at the mall

 

[garbage can]

One. It makes me a bit depressed, even if I do love him. Makes me feel very undesirable to say, in complete and utter honesty, that I've only had one, when, if standing in a line, either person next to me would probably have to use at least 2 hands to count.

Ms Geek, you're an attractive woman, I'm sure you'll have many more partners.........

 

[artistgonewyld]

Ms Geek, you're an attractive woman, I'm sure you'll have many more partners.........

I agree, how many would you love to have?

 

[College_geek]

actualy
I more of an asshole posing as a nice guy
I'm nice and civil, if not a bit satirical and sarcastic
then you get to know the perverted asshole once I get used to you

though I could cave and go after that couger with the 8y/o that keeps following me around everytime she sees me at the mall

Ooh, you're the worst then. Although I suppose the women who love assholes end up being happy? Who knows. I guess I'm into the perverted nice guys...are they so rare?

 

[College_geek]

I agree, how many would you love to have?

That's a difficult question. I love my boyfriend so much and would never want to hurt him, but since I decided to lose my virginity, that part of me which I kept locked away for so many years burst out and has been fantasizing about sex with some people I know. In a dream world or fantasy world, there'd be at least 4 others (the guys I fantasize about) somewhere in my sexual history, but in real life...while I'm with my boyfriend...which may be forever...it seems one is the number.

 

[garbage can]

I agree, how many would you love to have?

*grin*....My peak days of having women are in the distant past.

 

[poppy1963]

I was having a discussion with a friend earlier and we couldn't cum to an agreement.

The debate: most people have had well over 50 sexual partners. Especially people between the ages of 20 to 35.

The question: how many partners, in all honesty, have you had?

Curious...where did you get such numbers? LOL! I think youi are speaking of the exception rather than the rule.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Ooh, you're the worst then. Although I suppose the women who love assholes end up being happy? Who knows. I guess I'm into the perverted nice guys...are they so rare?

I've always been an asshole
just not the wife beating verbal degrading kind
actualy bastard is a better choice of words
and it fits both definitions

and why you have such a pervertion for nice guys?
self estem issues
only reason I've ever seen

and yeah they're rare
most men dont like being used only for the benifit of someone else without getting any real acknowlagement from it
but this is just my experinace

 

[garbage can]

Curious...where did you get such numbers? LOL! I think youi are speaking of the exception rather than the rule.

Hi Poppy............

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Curious...where did you get such numbers? LOL! I think youi are speaking of the exception rather than the rule.

I was wondering that as well

 

[College_geek]

I've always been an asshole
just not the wife beating verbal degrading kind
actualy bastard is a better choice of words
and it fits both definitions

and why you have such a pervertion for nice guys?
self estem issues
only reason I've ever seen

and yeah they're rare
most men dont like being used only for the benifit of someone else without getting any real acknowlagement from it
but this is just my experinace

Yeah, I'd agree with the self-esteem issues, at least for myself personally. I don't like being treated like shit...if I was I'd probably smack him...and probably get smacked in return. I tend to be friends with the nice guys since the assholes would rather hang out with the skanky looking girls. And I also probably like feeling slightly dominant to the nice guys, although that's more a subconscience thing than an actual physical thing.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Yeah, I'd agree with the self-esteem issues, at least for myself personally. I don't like being treated like shit...if I was I'd probably smack him...and probably get smacked in return. I tend to be friends with the nice guys since the assholes would rather hang out with the skanky looking girls. And I also probably like feeling slightly dominant to the nice guys, although that's more a subconscience thing than an actual physical thing.

which is why theres not any 'nice' girls either
just use eachother and nothing happens about it

personaly I'd like a girl with some self confidance and a sharp wit
but then again if they've got some wit they're avoid me based murphy's law

 

[alwaysAmber]

I was having a discussion with a friend earlier and we couldn't cum to an agreement.

The debate: most people have had well over 50 sexual partners. Especially people between the ages of 20 to 35.

The question: how many partners, in all honesty, have you had?

I would also like to know where that "well over 50" thing came from. I've had about 20 sexual partners (which by no means constitute as 'relationships,' mind you). at the age of 21, 20 doesn't seem all that out of sync with that arbitrary number, but that's what it seems to be - arbitrary. this debate doesn't appear to be based on any fact.

 

[poppy1963]

Hi Poppy............

Hi sweet garby!

 

[College_geek]

which is why theres not any 'nice' girls either
just use eachother and nothing happens about it

personaly I'd like a girl with some self confidance and a sharp wit
but then again if they've got some wit they're avoid me based murphy's law

Sometimes I wonder if a woman with self-confidence even exists. In public, many women will portray confidence to attract people, but behind closed doors, their just as insecure and afraid as the rest of us. It's difficult to build self-confidence when one is conditioned to have to always be the best and look the best, but fails every time. *shrug*

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Sometimes I wonder if a woman with self-confidence even exists. In public, many women will portray confidence to attract people, but behind closed doors, their just as insecure and afraid as the rest of us. It's difficult to build self-confidence when one is conditioned to have to always be the best and look the best, but fails every time. *shrug*

true
cant love what ya got cause its never enough ~ kyprios

 

[College_geek]

true
cant love what ya got cause its never enough ~ kyprios

Would this be a bad time to mention that your cock looks nice?

 

[EndCredits]

Well, since "sexual partner" is a pretty broad term, I'd say 2.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Would this be a bad time to mention that your cock looks nice?

thats the one part I'm happy with
minus the psorsis part though
if I ever manage to loose the 50lbs I need to I'd be even more happy with it

 

[Shyguy1369]

Well I am guessing that you mean any kind of sexual act. I have had intercourse with 4 women in my life (I am 30), but I have also gone down on two others. Nothing ever further. So I guess in just sexual excapades 6. Unfortunately 3 of the intercourse parnters were one night stands I guess you could say, not something I am overtly proud of. The other one was a steady gf at the time. And the two other encounters of me going down. Well one was hard to explain, but basically she had been seeing someone else, they were breaking up we had our moments and then they got back together. The other was a kind of bet lol... I tell you I sure enjoyed that bet

 

[College_geek]

thats the one part I'm happy with
minus the psorsis part though
if I ever manage to loose the 50lbs I need to I'd be even more happy with it

I'd need to lose much much more than that. -.- Some people talk like it's so easy to just lose the weight. I really need to just shut up and do it though.