Curious Gorgina has 2 questions for Doms...

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2 questions for Doms...

How did you know you were a dom? For example did you always want a submissive woman?

How does the online slave thing work?
 
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Can't answer the second, but for the first it was because the money was better than being a sub.
 
How did you know you were a dom? For example did you always want a submissive woman?

How does the online slave thing work?

I discovered that I was a Dom a long time ago when I was with a naturally submissive lady. The pleasure was much greater and it felt very natural for me.
Now, I am not happy unless I am with a submissive lady.

For me, the "online" slave thing does not work. It is too easy for one side to step away. There is no true state of control or submission.
Online stuff for me is just empty... unless you have already been with that person in the flesh.... then it can be very nice. But never like skin to skin.
 
As for the first thing i was once watching a porno when i was about 14 of a woman being spanked, spat on, hair pulled, told what to do etc and it really did it for me. I told my girlfriend at the time and she said she'd always liked the idea of being submissive. We gave it a go and that just confirmed what that film had made me feel. from there i met other more experienced people and saw and read about new things and put them into practice-since 14 i've only ever been with sub women and i've loved it. I've tried being sub once. didnt work for me at all lol.

as for the online sub/dom relationship- it hardly ever works for long time. i've ended up with some really good friends from it though. so give it a try. u may end up with a lot more knowledge and a few good friends x x x D
 
How did you know you were a dom? For example did you always want a submissive woman?

How does the online slave thing work?

on line works for a while. it can give you a feeling if you want to carry the game over to real life. exploring your desires on line is safe.

some people start out as subs. they may stay, may intensify their role, change to a switch, go for a dom(me). all is permitted. explore your feelings and do not hurry the journey.:rose:
 
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I knew I was a Dom at 17 shortly after I entered the Army. As far as Dominating women is conserned that came as a natural extension.

Now to your question as to how things work online that depends on a number of factors and the Dom/Domme. As the sub in qestion is not present of phisical disaplain. I'm sure there will be some disagreement but that is nothing new. Submission must be something that you feel in your soul and the pain that you feel should you fail if you are a true sub will fource you to obay.
 
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