curious about crossdressing

[ESH419]

i'm a 21 year old guy who's got a growing interest and curiosity with crossdressing. not so much attracted to others who do it but for me to do a bit of it. at the moment i'm not all about the full 100% out on the street sort of crossdressing.. just something for a little kinky play. i'm not sexually interested in other guys but that doesn't mean i'd be opposed to an actual conversation about stuff. (i do have fantasies about strap on play tho =D) i'm not into the Ds thing so the bdsm section didn't seem proper. this place seemed right but my bad if i'm wrong. =P

i'm interested in a friend to talk about fetishes ...advise, support, fantasies... and life in general. what comes (or who for that matter =D) after that remains to be seen.

cause of the nature of the fetish, this place seemed right =P apologize again if i'm wrong

 

[mercury93]

go get a pair of women's panties. tuck your penis and put them on. look at yourself. one of three things will happen:
a) it will feel weird and you will take them off.
b) you will instantly get turned on.
c) you will feel a sense of better self-esteem and will feel more attractive.

if it's b, then you are sexualizing it and it could turn into a fetish.
if it's c, then you may be heading towards some gender questioning, and may possibly be a transvestite, transgendered or transsexual. if this is the case, there is nothing wrong with that! my husband just started down this road in the past couple of months and he feels fantastic wearing women's underthings and women's jeans all day now.

b and c could happen at the same time though, so don't worry if you get some confusing feelings. look into getting a copy of "My Gender Workbook" by Kate Bornstein for some friendly assistance in sorting through what's going on. and in the end, if all you need to do is wear a skirt and take it up the butt to feel satisfied in your explorations, then do it and have fun! just be the happiest and healthiest version of you that you can be.

 

[Harper2808]

Hi

I'll chat !! PM me !!!

xxxx

 

[ESH419]

go get a pair of women's panties. tuck your penis and put them on. look at yourself. one of three things will happen:
a) it will feel weird and you will take them off.
b) you will instantly get turned on.
c) you will feel a sense of better self-esteem and will feel more attractive.

I've had a bit of access in the past before so to speak =P it's definately B.. fetishizing and all. getting a bit bolder with it. just finished college recently and don't have a mailbox of my own for internet shopping tho =/

 

[tusitala]

cross dressing

If it's B, getting turned on, then by all means do it! PM me if you want to chat about it any time..

 

[ESH419]

bumpity bump

 

[ESH419]

Another bumpity bump cause i'm not getting any bumpity bump =P

 

[experiment102]

Hey ESH,
I forgot to tell you, there is a better forum than lit. Not many people here seem to go for crossdressers. But check out crossdressers.com if you haven't already. Not as many people, but everyone is really nice! Best wishes