Curious 🤔

[Angeleyes355]

How many people have actually had successful relationships after meeting on lit?
Whether just of an online nature or even finally meeting...
To the girls, what did it feel like when you first started chatting? Butterflies? Excitement? Nervousness?
To the guys, how did you know she was the one you were looking for?

 

[Jada59]

I have met two people from Lit. Both were very nice but we were not a good fit. So no butterflies. Actually, I have never had butterflies or gotten overly excited to see anyone. Unless maybe it's a cat. Or a kitten. Or a small dog. I don't tend to have highs and lows but I'm usually in a good mood.

 

[KDBisback]

How many people have actually had successful relationships after meeting on lit?
Whether just of an online nature or even finally meeting...
To the girls, what did it feel like when you first started chatting? Butterflies? Excitement? Nervousness?
To the guys, how did you know she was the one you were looking for?

I’ve met some nice women here but had really only one deep online connection. We started chatting and the dialogue was natural. She was confident in her beliefs, in her skin and in her desires. All very sexy. We seemed to be glued to each other’s words right away. Arousing both of us

Then we exchanged face pictures adding to the connection. As we chatted more we discussed life, desires, infilled desires, eventually exchanging naked pic. This led to more chatting, pics, videos, live cam, remote WiFi sex toys, mutual masturbating at work on video. She was unique and so confident in herself and her willingness to please me as well. Geography and time zones made it difficult to sustain. I think of her often.

 

[Paradox]

I've made some good friends here over the years. A few I've met in person with varying degrees of involvement, and a few who have remained online friends, only. Some of those relationships lasted for only a few months, but one has lasted almost twenty years. She isn't active on Lit any longer, but we talk by email every now and then.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

How many people have actually had successful relationships after meeting on lit?
Whether just of an online nature or even finally meeting...
To the girls, what did it feel like when you first started chatting? Butterflies? Excitement? Nervousness?
To the guys, how did you know she was the one you were looking for?

I thought I met "the one" when I started talking to a woman who was older than me from California. Gosh we talked about everything. I really thought she was the one. Matched my emotional wants along with the physical. She was absolutely beautiful. And there wasn't anything we kept secret. At least I didn't. Then one day, she was gone. Tried to email, call her cell phone, etc. She just upped and ghosted me. Which given the circumstances at the time was weird because she helped me with some financial problems. If she needed help or money from me, then I would understand her leaving me. It's been three years and I do still think about her. Mostly just wondering if she is still alive given the abrupt stop in our conversations.

And it wasn't a catfish thing. We video chatted and everything.

 

[nyguy1980]

I thought I met "the one" when I started talking to a woman who was older than me from California. Gosh we talked about everything. I really thought she was the one. Matched my emotional wants along with the physical. She was absolutely beautiful. And there wasn't anything we kept secret. At least I didn't. Then one day, she was gone. Tried to email, call her cell phone, etc. She just upped and ghosted me. Which given the circumstances at the time was weird because she helped me with some financial problems. If she needed help or money from me, then I would understand her leaving me. It's been three years and I do still think about her. Mostly just wondering if she is still alive given the abrupt stop in our conversations.

And it wasn't a catfish thing. We video chatted and everything.

This is deep man.
We all been there. The internet has changed the dynamics of relationships.
I guess life took its course here.

 

[nyguy1980]

My biggest piece of advice is stay local.
I know we all say we are ok with communication with all parts but when the one happens to be 2000 miles away it can really mess you up.

I have had some good connections and met someone, but distance is the killer.

 

[MMM_wms]

I thought I met "the one" when I started talking to a woman who was older than me from California. Gosh we talked about everything. I really thought she was the one. Matched my emotional wants along with the physical. She was absolutely beautiful. And there wasn't anything we kept secret. At least I didn't. Then one day, she was gone. Tried to email, call her cell phone, etc. She just upped and ghosted me. Which given the circumstances at the time was weird because she helped me with some financial problems. If she needed help or money from me, then I would understand her leaving me. It's been three years and I do still think about her. Mostly just wondering if she is still alive given the abrupt stop in our conversations.

And it wasn't a catfish thing. We video chatted and everything.

I empathize with you; you got screwed. Gosting is one of the meanest and most inconsiderate crimes known to mankind, regardless of how many excuses for it everybody and his brother here comes up with.

You have to learn to live with it, of course, but that makes ghosting not one bit less inconsiderate.

 

[tonyreid]

Meeting on Lit

I met my now wife on Lit we were both divorced and chatted on here for ages before we met we used the old chat rooms . Told each other loads of fantasies etc before we ever met as stayed in other ends of the country . When we met for first time it was fantastic and we fucked sucked played in every way imaginable and we are now happily married over 10 years later and still having loads of fun .

 

[Loveitdady]

I met a hot lady on here a couple of years ago and we had lots of hot sex for a while until her husband got a good job across the country and had to move. I still have not chats with her..

 

[callmeismael]

Only met one woman on here in person, and unfortunately only met in person once, although I'm sure both of us wished at the time it had happened more. We lived just close enough for meeting up to be possible, and far enough away (and across a border) for it to be logistically complex. I definitely still think a lot about what the other meetings could have been like and I regret not doing more to make them happen.

 

[Decoi]

How many people have actually had successful relationships after meeting on lit?
Whether just of an online nature or even finally meeting...
To the girls, what did it feel like when you first started chatting? Butterflies? Excitement? Nervousness?
To the guys, how did you know she was the one you were looking for?

Still trying to get an online thing at the moment XD

 

[LeinadVirgo]

Talked to a few that had the butterflies moments, but they didn't pan out, turned out we were looking for different things at the time. Though I have found somebody that we had since fun times, and another that's been a friend for a while now

 

[WetNTastee]

Hot and sexy

Met someone here when we were both separated. He hit all my buttons and was so fucking sexy. We met many times and had hot sex. But alas, after the divorces, many years and countless talks, I realized it was not going anywhere. I still think about him and wonder if he thinks about me.

Second man I met face-to-face was not my type. He was in town for a day and wanted to have sex. That was the end of that.

 

[chimpers767]

Met someone here when we were both separated. He hit all my buttons and was so fucking sexy. We met many times and had hot sex. But alas, after the divorces, many years and countless talks, I realized it not going anywhere. I still think about him and wonder if he thinks about me.

Turn on your PMs maybe so others can reach out?

 

[WetNTastee]

Turn on your PMs maybe so others can reach out?

I think I’m done meeting men here. Now, I prefer to chat only.