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[Guest]

just wondering....

Im a 22 year old virgin and have never had a dating life and i have yet to meet a woman whom would show interest in me in anyway even as friends.

Im curious about a little thing ive noticed over the years.

Aparently guys are not allowed to look for equal partners when it comes to "experience levels" and they are only supposed to accept what ever trash come to their way along the road of life.

But women on the other hand apparently have the right to discriminate against anyone and everyone they please without any moral problems.
This also includes treating other people like trash.


If a guy hapens to complain about such things he is imediately turned in to the antagonist in the discussion regardless of how the topic and discussion started.

I understand that there are sertain "sensitive" subjects involving
discrimination in reference to history... but what does that have to do with present day situations and why do women see it as a need to impose some historical stereotype on a guy simply when
he does not agree with them on some matters.
Even when the women know that the reference to history can not in anyway be applied to the male they are assaulting
for his oppinions.


I do note that the oppinions stated in my message do not
cover all of woman kind and the variations of personality out there. The sad fact of it is that in an argument such
rude and nonaplicaple tactics do get used quite a bit.
Instead of calm point to point explanatory logic.


just wondering why is that... and why do people always allow their hormones and spych problems controll them selves instead of logical though.

 

[Starfish]

Thank god you weren't discribing me there.

I am a goddess and we don't like being called trash.

 

[Aquila]

I'm not quite certain of your point. would you mind clarifying?

 

[Starfish]

just wondering....

Im a 22 year old virgin and have never had a dating life and i have yet to meet a woman whom would show interest in me in anyway even as friends.

Hey, discribe yourself to me. Tell me what you think women see when they meet you and tell me what you've got going for you on the inside that would make you appealing. I daresay you won't get a woman if you assume too much about them.

What is your attitude like, other than what you've said above, because it isn't really a big turn on to be around someone so negative.

 

[Aquila]

I assuming you mean your a virgin, and you want a virgin woman? and your angry because women get angry that you want that?

Or am I misinterpretting.

 

[MechaBlade]

Im a 22 year old virgin and have never had a dating life and i have yet to meet a woman whom would show interest in me in anyway even as friends.

....Aparently guys are not allowed to look for equal partners when it comes to "experience levels" and they are only supposed to accept what ever trash come to their way along the road of life.

But women on the other hand apparently have the right to discriminate against anyone and everyone they please without any moral problems. This also includes treating other people like trash.

If a guy hapens to complain about such things he is imediately turned in to the antagonist in the discussion regardless of how the topic and discussion started.

I understand that there are sertain "sensitive" subjects involving
discrimination in reference to history... but what does that have to do with present day situations and why do women see it as a need to impose some historical stereotype on a guy simply when
he does not agree with them on some matters.
Even when the women know that the reference to history can not in anyway be applied to the male they are assaulting
for his oppinions.

I do note that the oppinions stated in my message do not
cover all of woman kind and the variations of personality out there. The sad fact of it is that in an argument such
rude and nonaplicaple tactics do get used quite a bit.
Instead of calm point to point explanatory logic.

just wondering why is that... and why do people always allow their hormones and spych problems controll them selves instead of logical though.

I have a few problems with answering this, since you are an unreg with somewhat of a spelling/grammar problem, and this is more of a complaint than an actual question. But I feel where you are at and I want to try prevent more men from becoming misogynists as I have occasionally been.

So you're a 22 year old virgin with no dating experience. Seriously think if your standards are high or not. Even I, the most miserable of all men, have gotten a date (and had a girlfriend for a while). So keep trying, put yourself out there. If you're a little sloppy-looking, clean yourself up a little. If you're just shy, you must occasionally walk up to strange women and start conversations. This may not work, but you have to try, otherwise you can't really complain.

I find it hard to believe that you haven't had SOME women friends. Women, be they pretty or ugly, like having male friends. This leads me to believe you are the disfigured sort of ugly, or "Eep! a girl!" shy. Shyness can always be conquered.

Guys can look for only beautiful women (and some do) just like women. Yes, they get called on it, but no matter who you look for, most women and a lot of men will complain about your preferences. Fuck them. Go after whatever girl makes your groin happy.

A lot of the uberwomen treat people like trash. Most normal women don't treat guys like trash, well at least like 40%, unless you have somehow mistreated them. Are you coming on to them like a dirty old man?

As an experiment, try talking to the nonbeautiful women in the area. Don't talk to the hags; a lot of them have emotional problems and it won't help much. But the girls who you're not particularly attracted to, but don't look like they have issues. Don't pursue a relationship, but a friendship. The first step to getting a woman is hanging around women and finding out how they tick.

People (especially old fashioned men and feminist women) will often use the historical context argument. If they are men, shut them up by telling how everyone should be basically equal (at least dating-wise) now that it's 2002. If they are women, don't say anything. Women don't like being wrong, so just ignore wrong women.

People always want to win arguments, and they will use whatever's easy to win them. Misusing historical context is easy. Your friends are probably just the typical old-fashioned guys. Also, women don't use logic. Women and logic are like oil and water. They don't mix.

Just make some female friends and observe other guys that get women. Then make bold moves. Women like confidence.