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[XXplorher]

Certainly: Barbara Dare, Jeanna Fine, Ashlyn Gere, Selena Steele, and an unknown favorite – Krista (who really loves those mammoth black cocks) to name a few. Not to mention the squirters out there ; ) (now if only Raquel Darrian could let loose a little). Not that I’m disagreeing with your cunnilingus approach helle.

Seems milking it, teasing it, blowing on it, making love to the pussy vs. stabbing at it – gets the best results. As always, feel her, feeling you. Don’t be too eager (on occasion that’s good though), and basically, lay back a little, don’t be too forceful – sink, into her….. don’t bang your chin at it. Take the time to smell her, let that one of a kind taste run across your tongue. Feel her on your lips. Enjoy…….. ‘woman’.
At some intervals a few sharp flicks can work in your favor, but I wouldn’t recommend a real ‘strong’ tongue. Don’t attack her (again, at certain moods – that’s actually a good approach. It depends, but I’d say generally – no.) Some women like a lot of verbal accompaniment. Taunt her, make her yearn, question her, or tell her how much you like it – and MEAN it.
Make her wait. That’s a bitch sometimes when you just want to suck your face up inside her precious love, but a necessary evil. And when you feel her getting close – lip that clit in your mouth and suck it good. Mmmmm, suck that clit like it’s the finest chocolate in the kingdom – because it is! And you’ll soon get more dessert.

And realize while all this is happening – you still have 2 hands to work with. And they don’t necessarily have to concentrate on where your face is. Women are tender all over when you’re down there. Take advantage and stroke, pinch, graze…..roam. Say ‘thank you’ without speaking the words, eh.
Cliché term but: It’s not a job. It’s an adventure. Take that approach.

“That’s just my opinion…… I could be wrong”

 

[XXplorher]

BTW, the link helle printed above leads to a page that mentions a couple books by Nancy Friday (at the bottom of the page). I would HIGHLY reccommend both those books, as well as Women on Top, also by her.
They are filled with womens sexual fantasies - REAL sexual fantasies, that women sent to her for insight into why they have them. The stories are accompanied by Nancy Friday's STELLAR evaluation as to what creates and drives these fantasies. Why they exist. And her comments are nothing but encouraging, not judgemental.

I learned more from 'Women on Top' than I could from a million conversations and sexual episodes with women. Very few women will 'reveal' to a man directly, as they do within her books. It gave me insight into a womans psyche in a naked manner that I had never seen, nor expected.
Every man should read that book. And every woman should find strength and pride in her sexuality by doing same.

And that's not just my opinion - that's FACT!

 

[Matt]

Could some of you give me some advice/technicues/anything on giving oral pleasure to women? I'm really really REALLY interested on different technicues! =)

 

[Southernhelle]

first advice - learn how to spell it- cunnilingus . Go slow, don't do any of that annoying hyperspeed darting, and when you find a method that makes her respond, don't go changing it for the sake of variety. if something works, it doesn't need to be fixed, right? I haven't been with many men that were good at head, mainly because they try too hard to make it like a pornographic movie. Have you ever seen any of those women convincingly orgasm? I haven't.

 

[Tuxman]

Nice answer, XXP. Well stated.

TM

 

[Guest]

Very well said XXplorher. You have to make love to the pussy. You also have to love what your doing. If it just seems like a job that has to get done, its no fun for anyone.

 

[Southernhelle]

xxplorher - give me some titles. i'd have a field day with porn where the woman is enjoying herself to the extent that the man is.

 

[MorningStar]

years ago we ran across a book by Nancy Friday called something like 'Secret Garden'....both my husband and I enjoyed that one...and passed it along to family members...never have gotten it back!! She's an excellant author.

I hate to feed his ego like this....but XX is right....unless you act like you're loving what you're doing...you're not going to reap any rewards....teasing and tempting go a long way to making the lady in your life want to give you more...and don't concentrate on just that one area....it's all sensitive down there...and if you make the effort to remember and touch away from the very center, you'll find her hot and ready when you return to the opening of her love canal. Works for me anyway....smile.

(XX...please stop beaming like that....you're blinding me again....giggle)

 

[Hullo_nurse]

I'd have to agree w/XXp. If the guy isn't enjoying it & just doing it cuz I want him too it takes me longer to cum. If he goes for my clit right at the start & doesn't lick, suck & kiss my labia (lips for those who are not up on terminology) & vagina then it's gonna take me longer to cum, if I ever do. And the super fast darting tongue flicked back & forth on the clit doesn't do it no matter what you were told in high school. I like it when a man makes love to my pussy, all of my pussy. From the outer lips to the inner lips to the vagina, licking & sucking & tongue fucking my hole; then once I am excited and begging for more he goes in for the kill at my clit. And not just the bulge of the clit, but licking under it and the top of it and circling it with his tongue. And just like XX said, suck it hard when I tell you I am cumming & give me a finger or two, too. You can't even imagine what a well placed finger can do to intensify am orgasm, whether it be in the pussy or in the ass, or both! But most important you have to learn to enjoy your girl's pussy. The taste & smell is an aquired one, so I've heard, and every one is a little different, so appreciate your woman for who & what she is & get your face down there & lap her up like a kitten does tuna water!!

 

[Rodrigo]

Taylor Hayes and Alisha Klass both have both have convincing, squirting (more like exploding actually) orgasms on screen. They achieve these gushers by means of oral sex, vaginal sex and anal sex. They ply their trade in the films of the great autuer, Seymour Butts. I highly reccommend all of his films.
As far as cunnilingus tips, young Miss Helle and Double X hit a lot of the major points, if you want to try something a little more advanced, pop a few Halls cough drops into your mouth, and then gently blow on her naughty bits. Remember, the clit is a very sensitive piece of equipment, be very gentle with it. Go slow. Explore a little at first, pay attention to the responses you get. If she sinks into you, continue what you were doing. If she pulls back, change your pace or move on to something else. The most important thing about muff diving is act like you enjoy it, even if your nervous. It will relax your young lady friend, and make you seem like the type of chap who has tasted the nectar before. Enjoy yourself, it's just sex.

 

[XXplorher]

Helle, I’m not real clear on what your position is there, but some titles?
Curse of the Catwoman (serious steam, w/ creative, somewhat original scenes, big cocks, hot sex, decent storyline)
House of Dreams (not really ‘orgasmic’ but very sensual and possibly the finest cimematography ever done in porn)
The Natural (w/Krista and Celeste. Low budget, but some hot sex)
Those come to mind immediately. It’s definitely a male oriented business, so it ain’t easy finding complete movies full of ‘reality’ orgasms. Easier to go by the stars I listed. Best Lesbian scene I ever saw was w/Janine (how did I forget her?!) and Asia Carrera (also a very vibrant cummer) in an otherwise shitty flick called The Player. They have a scene in a Sauna that is just completely electric. Janine definitely knows how to appeal to the animal in every woman.
Blah, blah, blah. If you’re trying to say there’s no pleasure in porn for the women involved – I would strongly disagree. And I’m confident I know the difference between a staged orgasm and a real one.
BTW, ladies, I’d recommend anything with Peter North in it (which is NOT difficult to find). I can’t hold a candle to that guy. Excellent, strong cock, very attractive, well built guy that’s a little too stiff, but he seeks your pleasure as much as his own. Plus, they don’t call him the milkman for nothing! This guy cums a gallon, it just doesn’t stop. And you can be certain I’m one jealous motherfucker. Anyone got a secret on semen storage? I want to be like Mr North!

I read that link. Good call. Useful advice - go there. (Including the cough drop thing, which I’ve never tried. Hmm……….)

- Sorry about that ego starchild. Really, I suck. I’m a dork. Stupid. Never pleased a pussy – just ask Deborah. I try to be humble, but it just doesn't work, eh. I'm scum. (psst, don’t tell them to ‘act’ as if they like it. Tell ‘em to learn how to ‘genuinely’ like it)

- Nurse, I’ll be needing a sponge bath now. (oddly, I’ve heard more than a few women use the ‘lick it like a cat to milk’ terminology. Must be accurate, eh?)

God, I can smell the aroma in the air from the 2 of you. Please get down and box my ears!

And Rodrigo, Taylor Hayes! I keep seeing her ads and going ‘I have to see that chick in action!’ But as yet have not. My assumption was correct? Red hot?

 

[XXplorher]

Shit, that was excessively long. I'm already a memeber, what the fuck am I doing that for?!

 

[MorningStar]

Seymore's movies are the best since Ginger Lynn's better ones....he's witty with his commentaries...and gets some great shots of something we have yet to capture on film here...oops....LOL

XX you have no ego.....you have questions...I have answers...

YOU HAVE E-MAIL!!!

giggle

 

[Slutgirl]

Rodrigo is so on the right track! I have had the Halls experience and it surpassed them all!!! But so far, everyone on this topic has given good advice, in my opinion. This is what i thought the BB was all about! Keep up the good work everyone!

 

[Southernhelle]

x, are you looking for SOMETHING to disagree on here? I never ever said women in porn aren't enjoying themselves, but out of all the pornos I have seen (I work in a sex shop, I've seen a lot), I have not seen a convincing orgasm from a woman. I've seen a ton of contented, turned on women, sure, but none that reach climax. I suppose I need to get away from Michael Ninn and his weird shit. And Peter North attractive? Yikes...

 

[Rodrigo]

Yo, Double X. Taylor Hayes is a brown-haired, doe-eyed, fuck machine. There is nothing too dirty for this gal. She'll do anything to anybody...and I respect that. She goes all out in everything I've seen her in. If you want to pick up one of her flicks, I suggest Seymour Butts' Monkey Business. When she made this one she still had a touch of baby fat, which I absolutely fucking love, and which made her jugs look all the more stupendous. This chick is amazing, hot as a pistol. If you don't like your porno chicks with a touch of baby fat (Damn I miss Traci Lords) then check out a slimmer Taylor in Slippin'In The Out Door. This chick does not disappoint. And, uh, she like to eat pussy...there, now this post is on-topic. My work here is done.

 

[XXplorher]

Ahhh, a ‘fuck machine’! AKA, a woman after my own heart (nevermind the eyes, hehehe) Raw and uninhibited, that’s how I like my porn, brother. Monkey Business, eh? Sounds appropriate. Cock crazy and nothing out of the question, hmm?
She’s certainly got a smokin body (and a nice mouth). I hear she does a killer anal.....

Taylor must be denied no longer………
(You’re fuckin’ hilarious man)

Morningstar, my mail is drenched! It’s squirterific!

 

[Laurel]

I'd check the OED (Oxford English Dictionary, for those not in the know). It's at most libraries. I know there's a version available oneline, but I think it charges you to access it (of course, there may be someone online nowadays that offers it for free - search around...)

The OED is a multi-volume "dictionary" that traces the entymology of words, rather than just their meaning. It's incredibly complete, and always a crazy read. If you haven't seen it before, you're in for a funky new experience! Look up the dirty words first, of course...

 

[Deborah]

Hey Frenchie or somebody, please help me out here.

Anybody know the etymology of the word cunnilingus? I can't seem to readily find much out.

I met a guy recently who told me it is a French word. This dude is Arabic, originally from Oman, and a professor of religious studies. He told me some wild and crazy story that the derivation of the word cunnilingus stemmed from a translation of the "Perfumed Garden of Sheik Nefzaoui" which was translated into French in the mid-nineteenth century. Then a couple decades later Sir Richard Francis Burton published his infamous English translation from the French.

This erotic work is mainly about hetero sex. Apparently, well this is the jive this guy is giving me, there are some "missing" chapters dealing with oral sex and some real kinky stuff. He says those particular chapters in the French translations never made it into the English translation by Burton or anybody else. Anybody know anything about this?

 

[Guest]

The best porn actress I have seen performing cunnilingus is Nina Hartley, she thoroughly enjoys it, and with Barbara Dare!! That was a classic. Those two lovely ladies must love the art, or they are Acacemy Award performers.

 

[Cairo]

Cunnilingus.. It is a French derivative, and that French derivative reaches back into Latin roots. The word comes from a combination of "cunnus," which means box, and "lingus," which mean tongue. The natural aroma of a woman apparantly had very positive connotations in France way back when (and still does!), and the woman's vagina was often considered a "perfume box" of sorts. Well, cunnilingus is the act of putting your tongue (-lingus) into that perfume box (cunni-), so there you have it! I hope that helps, Deborah.