cumming faster

[lol11221122]

I'm a guy and im lasting alot longer during sex and while getting bj's and hj's than id like. Over an hour getting a bj just doesnt work so well. Is there anything I can do so that I can cum faster?

 

[SweetErika]

Cut WAY down on the masturbation, including porn, if you use it. When you do masturbate, use a light touch, lube and your imagination (envision encounters with real partners, or whatever).

The goal of this is to sensitize you to another's touch (i.e. less stimulation) and the environment of a real encounter because it's likely you've gotten too used to giving yourself what you want/need to get off quickly. If you stop giving to yourself in time, your mind and body will be happier with different types of stimulation, like that from oral, handjobs and sex.

I recommend cutting masturbation out at first if you have a regular partner, then adding it back slowly. Masturbation is wonderful and very healthy, but if you can abstain and be really horny for your partner, you'll have a better shot at coming quicker, which will also get your confidence up for subsequent encounters.

If you don't have a regular partner, cut way back before you're likely to have an encounter. If you're jacking off once a day now, for example, you might cut back to once or twice a week and use a much lighter touch when you do it. In time, you'll figure out how much and what type of masturbation works for you while still allowing you to come in a reasonable amount of time with your partner.

Also, be sure you're giving your partner plenty of feedback on how to please you. Everyone's different, and you may need them to be a little rougher or tap into your fantasies or whatever. As long as you do it in a kind way (e.g. "Honey, I love it when you touch me like this..." [then demonstrate] or "That's great, but would you be willing to try...?"), they're likely to be happy to oblige.

And take short breaks if you're having trouble getting there. Everything feels better when the nerves have time to "reset" themselves!

 

[Username_In_Use]

I've found that if I contract and relax my cock I cum alot faster.

 

[Dosxx82256]

Stop drinking so much alcohol

 

[sarah_rsl]

Over an hour getting a bj just doesnt work so well. Is there anything I can do so that I can cum faster?

So a woman sucked you off for an hour???

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

1) Do what SweetErika said.
2) CONNECT yourself to what you're doing. I believe that what you're doing is allowing (or forcing) your mind to stray from what you're doing so you don't cum too fast.
This is a good tool to use, but you're probably taking it to excess and you may not even really be aware of the fact that you're doing it. Connect. Focus on how good what she's doing feels to you. Don't focus on anything else...allow yourself to fully get into the experience.

I think this is 50% physical and 50% psychological.
Don't whack off as much, do the techniques SweetErika is talking about...
AND get more involved in the experience mentally...give yourself permission to cum quickly and you will. Allow yourself the indiscretion of being EXTRA excited about getting a bj or hj from this woman.

Jack

 

[lol11221122]

wow, thanks for all the advice guys and girls!

 

[SubNebGuy]

have her massage your prostate from the inside. finger(s) or a nice plug or dildo...especially if it vibrates!