Cum on Command

[ReadyOne]

Do you know of someone who was trained to "cum on command"?

What was the story about the training... How did it start, and how did things work up to it... Has anyone reached the point where they can (under the right circumstances) cum on demand?

I'd like to hear from all sides -- those who cum, those who command, those who trianed or were trained, but didn't get (aren't) all the way to the goal.

How would you do the training, or what training steps do you think would work in a training program?

 

[wolf2002]

I have asked the very same question on another board a while ago...
The reason I asked was a conversation right here on Lit, with a lady who assured me that she could... she was in a long distance D/s relation and she would always get very excited about her Master coming over... so excited that she didn;t need much to climax... just the soft whisper of His permission into her ear... she could even squirt when cumming...

I found out that tere is some controversy about the possibility of a 'cold orgasm' like that... usually it takes at least some foreplay, mental or physical, to get in the right mood... but I have spoken with females who assured me that it was possible...

This regards the 'cold orgasm', which appears very hard to train and only possible for a happy few.. but of course it is possible to train on timing one's orgasm... I invented a simple exercise myself which involved counting back from 60 to zero and then release... it's harder than it seems... it worked for me, in the sense that have managed to control and focus my orgasm better... I havent; been able to try it out on anybody else though, so am not sure if it works for everybody...

Wolf

 

[s'lara]

Here are some interesting threads concerning the subject and related subjects.

Good luck.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=112766&highlight=orgasm

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=187405&highlight=orgasm

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=154959&highlight=command

 

[Ebonyfire]

Nothing new Under the Sun

This topic has been covered in the past:

To those who are interested:

Cumming on Command Thread

Enjoy!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Here are some interesting threads concerning the subject and related subjects.

Good luck.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=112766&highlight=orgasm

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=187405&highlight=orgasm

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=154959&highlight=command

You beat me to the punch lara, thanks!

 

[ReadyOne]

Timing is definetly another variable.

Pushing someone over the edge with your voice is fun, seems easy. and probably happens a lot.

Never say never, but I doubt there ever was a person that could be doing something while totally unaroused, and then with a touch to their should and a whisper in their ear, ramp up from 0 to 60 in 4.5 seconds.

But how about making a phone call to your lover who has been thinking about you all day and after a few words of endearment, give the command that leaves them shaking?

Or how about a no manual stimulation situtation -- say you're setting in a resturant corner holding hands across the table -- can someone talk the other into cuming?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Timing is definetly another variable.

Pushing someone over the edge with your voice is fun, seems easy. and probably happens a lot.

Never say never, but I doubt there ever was a person that could be doing something while totally unaroused, and then with a touch to their should and a whisper in their ear, ramp up from 0 to 60 in 4.5 seconds.

But how about making a phone call to your lover who has been thinking about you all day and after a few words of endearment, give the command that leaves them shaking?

Or how about a no manual stimulation situtation -- say you're setting in a resturant corner holding hands across the table -- can someone talk the other into cuming?

All cumming on command is is Pavlovian conditioning.

 

[ReadyOne]

Re: Nothing new Under the Sun

This topic has been covered in the past:

To those who are interested:

Cumming on Command Thread

Enjoy!

How about putting these pointers into the FAQ?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Nothing new Under the Sun

How about putting these pointers into the FAQ?

I do not believe it meets the purpose of the FAQ.

 

[ReadyOne]

I kinda thought that BDSM Talk LIbrary was kind of an FAQ/Index. Perhaps FAQ isn't the right word. Something like "Threads that cover subjects frequently raised" is a better description?

Anyway, first I checked the Library. I'm not the best searcher, but I didn't see anything there. So.... I ask my question.

It doesn't surprise me or bother me that I got some "ask and answered" responses. I followed the links and got some good reading/ideas/etc. Thank you to those who posted links.

While it's not mine to decide, it does occur to me that a topic that is known to be "ask and answered" by several people who can supply links to past discussion MIGHT possably, may be, perhaps, could sort of be, something like, kinda is, deserving of an entry in the "Library" thread. So I made a suggestion, hoping that AnelizeDarkEyes or kin would see it.

Yes, I did say FAQ when I meant Library thread. But was I wrong to make my humble suggestion?

 

[Ebonyfire]

I kinda thought that BDSM Talk LIbrary was kind of an FAQ/Index. Perhaps FAQ isn't the right word. Something like "Threads that cover subjects frequently raised" is a better description?

Anyway, first I checked the Library. I'm not the best searcher, but I didn't see anything there. So.... I ask my question.

It doesn't surprise me or bother me that I got some "ask and answered" responses. I followed the links and got some good reading/ideas/etc. Thank you to those who posted links.

While it's not mine to decide, it does occur to me that a topic that is known to be "ask and answered" by several people who can supply links to past discussion MIGHT possably, may be, perhaps, could sort of be, something like, kinda is, deserving of an entry in the "Library" thread. So I made a suggestion, hoping that AnelizeDarkEyes or kin would see it.

Yes, I did say FAQ when I meant Library thread. But was I wrong to make my humble suggestion?

That is what it is all about. Making suggestions is a good thing. Asking questions is a good thing. But sometimes you do not get the answer you want, lol.