Cuckqueen

[WandaGrabowski]

I've been reading stories on Lit for several months and recently joined. I'm thinking of writing a story. Some of it will be based upon my real experiences and desires but also on fantasy. I'm not considering writing about regular cuckold situations but I do have some thoughts on a fantasy where one married female becomes the cuckold and is sexually dominated by the female bull. I've never seen the term, female bull so I'm sure that some of you can see how confused I am on this topic.

I'm open to insight, opinions and experiences.

thank you

 

[RawHumor]

I've seen cuckqueen/cuckquean (and have a story including it) for the wife/gf who is "with" the guy, and cuckcake for the other woman who is better, more dominant, sluttier, whatever.

 

[WandaGrabowski]

Does the term cuckqueen have the same meaning as when a husband is aroused by watching another man take his wife?

Should I ask this question in BDSM?

 

[screwher]

With my full approval, my wife regularly cuckolds me. But I'll be able to cuckqueen her. She would go ballistic if I ever fucked another woman!

 

[dabbler]

Quite hot, really.

I've done it a few times, I think the wife must be a cuckqean, seems to get off
on it. I think, upon gathering evidence, women are more secretive about their fantasies.

What it was, I was worried about what the wife may think, why she lets me get off with other women.

Then she let out a wicked laugh.

Men always like to think they're in control, don't they.

 

[RawHumor]

Does the term cuckqueen have the same meaning as when a husband is aroused by watching another man take his wife?

Should I ask this question in BDSM?

Cuckqueen is the female equivalent of a cuckold. It can have BDSM aspects to it, but not necessarily.

 

[WandaGrabowski]

Cuckqueen is the female equivalent of a cuckold. It can have BDSM aspects to it, but not necessarily.

Thank you. In doing my "research" I haven't been able to find the equivalent.

 

[WandaGrabowski]

348 hits so this must be a topic of interest but I was hoping to get more advice. I want to be certain that the term cuckqueen is the term for a woman who fucks the husband of a wife who is aroused by a more dominant woman stealing her husband. My research so far has been unsuccessful in finding a clear definition.

 

[RawHumor]

348 hits so this must be a topic of interest but I was hoping to get more advice. I want to be certain that the term cuckqueen is the term for a woman who fucks the husband of a wife who is aroused by a more dominant woman stealing her husband. My research so far has been unsuccessful in finding a clear definition.

No - the cuckqueen is the wife.

The cuckcake is the other woman.

 

[WandaGrabowski]

No - the cuckqueen is the wife.

The cuckcake is the other woman.

Thank you. I'm finding very little on this fetish. Are men and women different on this kink?

 

[diaperedtiffany]

I would say so. I haven't seen much on this if any, but I am curious as to how this develops.

 

[RawHumor]

Thank you. I'm finding very little on this fetish. Are men and women different on this kink?

It seems that there are a great number of men who find the idea of their wives being fucked by other/better/black/bigger-cocked/more dominant/etc. men to be a huge turn-on.

Not a lot of women like the idea of their husband finding a prettier/sexier/younger/sluttier woman to fuck.

I think it's a strange sign of the times.

 

[RawHumor]

You'll also notice how relatively unpopular this thread is compared to most cuckold or "my wife did this" type threads. And how many more there are of that type.

 

[ReadyOne]

It seems that there are a great number of men who find the idea of their wives being fucked by other/better/black/bigger-cocked/more dominant/etc. men to be a huge turn-on.

Not a lot of women like the idea of their husband finding a prettier/sexier/younger/sluttier woman to fuck.

I think it's a strange sign of the times.

Does the overwhelming population of the Lit community being male have any effect?

Maybe we need a poll (assume honest answers?!) asking who likes cuckold / bull / cuckquean / cuckcake vs male / female.

 

[WandaGrabowski]

You'll also notice how relatively unpopular this thread is compared to most cuckold or "my wife did this" type threads. And how many more there are of that type.

My goal for this thread was to try to understand the reality of this fetish. I think I do. There are always exceptions but I think that men and women are very different in regard to cuckolding.

I learned what I need to know and therefore I won't be including this in any story I write.

Thank you all for your input.

 

[ReadyOne]

suggested new poll

Please comment about the poll wording itself, and I'll post it for people to respond to when you believe I've gotten the combinations covered (given the 10 item limit).

___________________ (suggested new poll) ________________

This poll wants to differentiate responders by gender those who experience or fantasize a (generic) cuckold/cuckqueen relationship. Please comment, especially if you are part of a rarer combination (e.g. woman with the upper hand.)

One party accepts being compelled or overpowered, and those involved are aroused and/or humiliated by the power imbalance, and breaking into a relationship. If you're not into cuckold stuff, please don't respond (but do feel free to post a comment!)

What's your gender, and which side would you prefer?

Poll selections: (multiple responses allowed)

1. I am female (cuckcake) -- aroused by taking another woman away from their spouse.
2. I am female (homewrecker) -- aroused by taking another man away from their spouse.
3. I am female (cuckquean) -- aroused/humiliated by a more dominant woman taking me from my spouse.
4. I am female (cuckquean) -- aroused/humiliated by a more dominate man taking me away from my spouse.
5. I am female (swinger) -- not cuckold, but I'm aroused to watch my spouse with another woman (hetero sex).
6. I am female (swinger) -- not cuckold, but I'm aroused to watch my spouse doing same sex.
7. I am male (bull) -- aroused by taking another man's spouse away from him.
8. I am male (cuckold)-- aroused/humiliated by a more dominant woman taking my spouse for herself.
9. I am male (cuckold) -- aroused/humiliated by a more dominant man taking my spouse from me.
10. I am male (swinger, hotwife) -- not cuckold, but aroused by seeing my spouse with another.

 

[ReadyOne]

My goal for this thread was to try to understand the reality of this fetish. I think I do. There are always exceptions but I think that men and women are very different in regard to cuckolding.

I learned what I need to know and therefore I won't be including this in any story I write.

Thank you all for your input.

Eventually, I'd like to learn your conclusions. I'll certainly enjoy a story.

But I wouldn't mind reading about points of difference, too!

 

[dabbler]

It's cuckquean.

Get it right.

 

[RawHumor]

Does the overwhelming population of the Lit community being male have any effect?

It does, but the numbers (in terms of number/popularity of threads) seem to dictate that mots men would, seemingly, prefer to be cuckolded than to have a wife who encourages him to fuck other women. It makes zero sense to me, personally, but to each their own.

It's cuckquean.

Get it right.

I've seen it spelled both ways, actually. I don't know if there is an etymology for the word.

 

[WandaGrabowski]

There seems to be no shortage of married bi women who wish to sexually submit to another woman but it doesn't involve the husband or the humiliation factor of male cucks.

Thanks for the pms

 

[MuscleDaddy]

Poll selections: (multiple responses allowed)

1. I am female (cuckcake) -- aroused by taking another woman away from their spouse.
2. I am female (homewrecker) -- aroused by taking another man away from their spouse.
3. I am female (cuckquean) -- aroused/humiliated by a more dominant woman taking me from my spouse.
4. I am female (cuckquean) -- aroused/humiliated by a more dominate man taking me away from my spouse.
5. I am female (swinger) -- not cuckold, but I'm aroused to watch my spouse with another woman (hetero sex).
6. I am female (swinger) -- not cuckold, but I'm aroused to watch my spouse doing same sex.
7. I am male (bull) -- aroused by taking another man's spouse away from him.
8. I am male (cuckold)-- aroused/humiliated by a more dominant woman taking my spouse for herself.
9. I am male (cuckold) -- aroused/humiliated by a more dominant man taking my spouse from me.
10. I am male (swinger, hotwife) -- not cuckold, but aroused by seeing my spouse with another.

#2 should still be cuckcake, not homewrecker.
#3/4 Should be hotwife, not cuckquean.