Cuckolds: let’s talk about it.

[SweatyHotwife]

I’m a white woman happily married to a loving white guy.

I have been having an affair with a black man on the side and my husband has no idea. The sex is just too intense for me to give up, and it’s made me realize I’m kinkier than I had originally thought. It’s also made me fantasize about my husband doing all the things cuckold porn shows like creampie cleanup, licking my feet after sex, and licking my armpits after sex.

The goal of this thread is to really understand the cuckold mindset so I can get my husband into it without messing up my marriage.

What is it about cuckolding that turns you on? Do you watch your wife or does she just come home freshly fucked? What does sex between you and your wife look like in your fantasies, or are you fully pussy free?

Is smell a really big part of it for you? that’s a big thing for my bull and I’m never going to wear armpit deodorant ever again!

 

[jedclampet69]

Haha you have some big goals for your husband . To be a cuck he must know first off.. First possibly watch some cuckold porn with him to gauge his interest.. Then if he does slowly introduce him into the scene .. If he has not mentioned or even dirty talked about you being a slut then just take it easy first off

 

[NovaNick77]

Well how do I introduce the cuckold porn? I can’t just casually be like “hey hubby let’s watch BBC pound white pussy on pornhub to get us in the mood” lol
Our sex life is honestly kind of vanilla and not too intense right now. With my bull it is different

I have some ideas for you….pm me

 

[Addam829]

Well how vanilla is he if I may ask? I mean does he act shocked or disinterested when it’s anything but missionary or doggy? Or have yall ever watched porn together to get a feel? Instead of going straight for the bbc

 

[KR22]

Have the two of you ever tossed around role play in the bedroom? Having your husband pretend to be someone else and seeing your reaction could start to hint to him your desires.

 

[Addam829]

He doesn’t really get shocked no. We’ve done some other positions but sex is like around once a week for us and sometimes we don’t get to it. We both work and he travels often for work, so if he’s tired then that’s that.
I used to give him blowjobs much more and spice it up like having him cum in my water bottle that I sip from in front of others… but I’m honestly not that interested in sex with my husband these days because it’s just night and day compared to my lover. So I guess that’s part of why it’s vanilla and not too spicy

he’s good at going down on me

We don’t really watch porn together or talk about that. We’ve done it before like once or twice just to try it and experiment a long time ago - but it wasn’t that great compared to just having sex

Ahhh well that makes much more sense honestly. At least you genuinely tried your best. But if it is truly a night and day difference that’s awesome for you! Maybe having that rush of running around with your lover. If you are truly interested in attempting to get your husband to cuck what kind would you prefer him to be? Because your satisfaction and desire would matter on how you could possibly convince him.

 

[Oniafox]

I’m no expert. But I love to see women and girls doing things for themselves. I love the confidence of women who can keep their man happy, but top up their lust elsewhere

 

[Addam829]

I really want him to be a submissive cuck that my lover and I dominate. I want to totally humiliate him and have him clean up my cream pie. He should smell me after sex and clean my dirty body

My bull introduced me to anal (I’ve never let my husband do that). I want to rub it in his face that my ass is black owned

See now that is definitely good to know what type you want to try to breed him into a very submissive cuck. What you could do is try dominate him and take what you want from him. And since he is good and giving you oral you could take the rains there.
Make him stay down longer and gripping his head. Or mounting his shoulders and thrust him into the wall. Start planting the seeds of your dominance and what you want.

 

[Justfantasies]

Oooh sounds hot!! I think what I’m doing is more common than people think. Sometimes a girl just has to find pleasure elsewhere

I think this is true -- more women do it than say. I wonder if they keep it a secret because their hubby would be hurt or because they want variety or it's just sexy to keep secrets

 

[Addam829]

Well it’s not like we’ve done any bdsm stuff in the bedroom. I want him on his knees begging me to invite my lover over so we can make a delicious snack for him.

Should I do anything about the sex frequency? Also let’s say I get him to go down longer and longer - what next?

Well it’s about taking the steps I think as they grow comfortable. I mean I was groomed as a sub first. She want at the pace she noticed I was comfortable with. And then when we found I enjoyed more we moved at a slightly faster pace.
Of course your want him to beg. It’s definitely a mind chess game to get progress him into that. Especially with as hot of a fantasy as you have. Maybe you could have your lover give you anal and get your husband to eat it from their too.

 

[Justfantasies]

It’s not that sexy to keep secrets. I get the fantasy but in real life it’s a pain and causes worry. That’s why I need to make my hubby a willing cuck!

It's different for different people. With both my wives and one particular Girlfriend I got turned on knowing they were free to be with other people. But I was with other people too

 

[itsnotthatsmall]

Well how do I introduce the cuckold porn? I can’t just casually be like “hey hubby let’s watch BBC pound white pussy on pornhub to get us in the mood” lol
Our sex life is honestly kind of vanilla and not too intense right now. With my bull it is different

try bringing up past sexual experiences you had with others see if that sparks something

 

[Justfantasies]

I understand and everyone's different

 

[Addam829]

Was your wife already cheating on you though? Or she worked up to it?

Well I actually have never been the cuck. I’m always the one who’s invited. But I’ve been part of many and had several couples I would see again. Then got comfortable to know them better and understand where they were cumming from and wanting. Pun totally intended

 

[Addam829]

Have you ever been the other guy in an affair where the husband had no idea? And if so what got the husband into it as a cuck?

Definitely! It’s actually an interesting long story that I’ll try to shorten. But if you have questions to fill in the holes you can.
So I was the other guy and the other woman was my wife’s (at the time and now ex) friend. After a large amount of seducing from her and a couple years it we finally got her husband to be a cuck.

 

[Addam829]

Have you ever been the other guy in an affair where the husband had no idea? And if so what got the husband into it as a cuck?

Definitely! It’s actually an interesting long story that I’ll try to shorten. But if you have questions to fill in the holes you can.
So I was the other guy and the other woman was my wife’s (at the time and now ex) friend. After a large amount of seducing from her and a couple years it we finally got her husband to be a cuck.

Sorry for not answering your second question. Her husband was an always a minute man and either liked doggy or missionary. One day she expressed interest in being a cum slut and he liked it. Then watched porn with him and planted the idea of being used and asked if he would like the idea. After sitting on it and dirty talking and porn he was open to the idea and then convinced him to pick me. Which ended up happening after a hiccup. Then when he finished quick I made sure it was okay for me to go second since I knew beforehand.
Then kept it simple a little and took turns in the same night. Then I rocked her world and he kind of just liked watching. Then I chose wisely when to be a dom and have her talk down to him while she at least allowed him to masterbate watching us.

 

[jedclampet69]

Well how do I introduce the cuckold porn? I can’t just casually be like “hey hubby let’s watch BBC pound white pussy on pornhub to get us in the mood” lol
Our sex life is honestly kind of vanilla and not too intense right now. With my bull it is different

Possibly start with Vanilla porn then work towards the BBC with white girl

 

[Addam829]

I don’t think my bull wants to go second though. He’s pretty territorial and would go first, and my husband might not even get sloppy seconds!

Oh! I was just saying we did it like that the first couple of times. I couldn’t go out of the gate, especially since I was claiming her beforehand. Especially when we would have sex before work for both and sometimes I would meet at her place and fuck her face in the car around the corner and finish just for her to kiss him hello at the end of the day. I definitely asserted my dominance and he sits and just watches.

 

[steamboat610]

Oh I like this idea!! We haven’t tried role play at all. Instead of turning him down with an excuse, I’ll suggest this and see how he reacts

This is what lead to me wanting my wife to fuck everyone she wants. Wasn't one time thing and "bam go fuck whoever". Was over 8 months of roleplay of totally different people. Then roleplay of celebs/hall pass type people. Then roleplay of people we knew. Then bringing it up that I wanted her to be fucked by someone else. Has lead to so much more since. But was not what we planned or started out thinking would happen.

 

[madlapper]

My wife and I roleplay this all the time.She has a few bbc dildos that are thick 9 and 10 inches .It took a bit of time for her to start naming guys she has fantasized about but now as soon as I tell my wife to beg by name to fuck her she cums right away.After a lot of orgasms and can not take the big dildos anymore then I fuck her. Sometimes im there as hes fucking her other times we pretend I dont know and i will be asking her why she is so wet and loose.Wife will just say its because of me she so turned.Feeling her that wet and loose makes me cum so hard.What a turn on! Just wish she did it for real

 

[whenagain]

It’s difficult to get life to line up like porn. You’ll probably need to work slowly for it to appeal.

 

[zach20092]

I can help you out here and chat w your wifey - I think having female friends in the lifestyle does help a woman do it for real!!

She’ll be cheatin’ in no time

Over the years, have seduced quite a few married women.. or maybe they seduced me.. always been secrets and where they have been found out.. bad explosions.. but they have managed to control and get back together.. and cheat again

 

[van_delay]

Over the years, have seduced quite a few married women.. or maybe they seduced me.. always been secrets and where they have been found out.. bad explosions.. but they have managed to control and get back together.. and cheat again

Nothing better than another man’s wife

 

[zach20092]

Is making the husband eat your cream pie out of the wife (without him knowing it’s your cum) an important step? Maybe it preps him mentally

Is it really always a bad explosion? Ideally I want my hubby to start jerking off to it and embrace it

Yes, I think the cleanup is a big step.. ifyou want a good cuck.. else it's just someone resigned to a cheating wife..
One of them came back to me after a year or so.. and the husband knew when we net.. so not all that bad an explosion I guess

 

[zach20092]

Do you bull for any cuck couples regularly or you r all abt cheating once in a while? I want my husband to sit and watch while my bull pounds my pussy. I’ve seen it in the mirror and it’s the hottest thing ever. His black skin on mine as he pins me to the bed and takes what’s his!

My husband has no idea but my fantasy is for him to have his dick out and jerk off to it!

The darker skin to white skin contrast is so hot!
I have had one experience in the not so recent past but nothing regular now..
The porn approach is best.. work him in slowly..
Does he still get to fuck you? If so, get your toys out and have him use them on you after he is done.. just say you so horny today and want more