Cuckolded Gay Man

[Downtown_Guy]

Well... I'm a pretty good looking gay man who is 50 and in shape. My partner is 36, very good looking and also in shape. I'm in a committed relationship, but for some reason, the idea of my boyfriend cuckolding me is an intense turn-on. The fantasy would be something like this:

My partner meets another guy, maybe at the gym or a new neighbor and strikes up a friendship. We end up hanging out with the guy and either we're drinking or smoking a bit and my partner starts to respond to the guys flirtations (with me right there). They end up making out and essentially having sex right in front of me. The "new guy" is much better hung than I am and and fucks my BF bareback... pretty much leaving him a jazzy mess. Maybe the "new guy" makes me clean up the mess he made on/in my partner?

The "new guy" pretty much takes over my BF and just shows up to have sex with him whenever he wants. I can sit there and watch or slink off. The BF doesn't want to leave me, but he can't say no to the sex with the "new guy".

Not sure why my brain goes there because I'm pretty sure I couldn't deal with the scene, but tell my dick that.

Anybody think this is an interesting story idea?

 

[Downtown_Guy]

Ummm....

so... did I go too far with this one?

 

[allamagione]

I think this is a hot idea! Do you write?

 

[sr71plt]

It's a good scenario, I think. But what is the story resolution? Either something's got to bust or the cuckolded partner has got to adjust to finding it hot for him too. Or maybe, in turn, he takes away someone the other guy is after. It's a good story setup, but the story resolution hasn't been achieved yet.

 

[Downtown_Guy]

Thanks!

@allamagione... I have never written a story. I could probably get the words together, but I know it'd be a grammatical disaster

@sr71plt... I think the resolution would have to be that I come to terms with it and understand that things are as they should be. I've continued working out to the point where I have a better body than the "new guy" and I come to realize that I'm really happy with things the way they've evolved. Maybe?

Really appreciate you guys taking the time to respond.

J.

 

[sunandshadow]

so... did I go too far with this one?

Not too far at all; I read through it, just because it's uncommon to have a gay scenario described here and I like to see those, but I don't personally "get" cuckolding, so I didn't have any suggestions. If I tried to do anything with it I'd turn it into a story of a gay couple courting a third to become a triad, but that would totally remove the cuckolding angle and maybe defeat the purpose.

 

[sr71plt]

I understand cuckolding (in my own mind) as it happening without the cuckold being fully aware of it--until maybe at the point in the story where the story gets exciting and starts rushing toward a resolution. But I can't find a definition that supports my view of it, so that will just have to be a personal perception thing with me. That's the way I think I write cuckolding works up--and I can see it happening in the gay world as much as the straight.

 

[sunandshadow]

I understand cuckolding (in my own mind) as it happening without the cuckold being fully aware of it--until maybe at the point in the story where the story gets exciting and starts rushing toward a resolution. But I can't find a definition that supports my view of it, so that will just have to be a personal perception thing with me. That's the way I think I write cuckolding works up--and I can see it happening in the gay world as much as the straight.

Hmm, from what I've seen it's usually the cuckold's partner, the one being seduced into unfaithfulness, who isn't fully aware of what's happening until right before the sex happens. The cuckold on the other hand usually sees what is happening but for whatever reason takes no action to interfere or makes a token attempt to interfere and is immediately shut down. Structurally I think I understand how a cuckolding story works, I just don't understand at a gut level why it's supposed to be arousing, since it doesn't appeal to me.

 

[Hypoxia]

OP: You're talking about a willing cuckold, not an unwitting dupe, right?

This is a peeve of mine. A 'traditional' cuck's partner just cheats on them, usually secretly. The 'willing' cuck wants to watch their partner with another. These are NOT the same. I wish we had a better label for willing cuckolds.

 

[Downtown_Guy]

Clarification

Really appreciate all the posts here... I just wanted to clarify my use of the term cuckold. I realize I'm probably not speaking of a true cuckold in the traditional sense.

For me I believe it really revolves around me sexualizing my own humiliation as my BF chooses someone else to have sex with. Someone who is better hung, etc. As I said, I don't understand it, but it's the most intense turn-on I can imagine. The idea of having to lick up or clean up the other guys jizz from my BF sends me over the edge.

The interest isn't new, as I said, I'm 50 years old and the idea/turn-on has been with me since I was a teenager.

 

[sr71plt]

OK, so it seems that the turn on is in the humiliation, not that it's a cuckold situation. But I don't see a problem in writing it up. I just continue to see a problem in it being a story unless/until there is a resolution involved. A resolution would be him thinking that it was the cuckold aspect that was both a problem and a turn on but then being in a situation without the partner and discovering that he got the same arousal just from the humiliation aspect. So, not really a relationship issue at all.