Cuckholding, on the other hand

[ms_ann_thrope]

Creeps me the fuck out.

 

[Pairaclities]

Out of curiosity, is it still called cuckholding when gay/lesbian partners engage in the practice?

 

[mamasota]

cuck·old
n.
A man married to an unfaithful wife.

tr.v. cuck·old·ed, cuck·old·ing, cuck·olds
To make a cuckold of.

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[Middle English cokewald, from Anglo-Norman *cucuald, from cucu, the cuckoo, from Vulgar Latin *cucclus, from Latin cuclus.]

Word History: The allusion to the cuckoo on which the word cuckold is based may not be appreciated by those unfamiliar with the nesting habits of certain varieties of this bird. The female of some Old World cuckoos lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, leaving them to be cared for by the resident nesters. This parasitic tendency has given the female bird a figurative reputation for unfaithfulness as well. Hence in Old French we find the word cucuault, composed of cocu, "cuckoo, cuckold," and the pejorative suffix -ald and used to designate a husband whose wife has wandered afield like the female cuckoo

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Out of curiosity, is it still called cuckholding when gay/lesbian partners engage in the practice?

Beats me. It's the "Henny Youngman" of twisted relationships. "Take my wife- please."

 

[Joeybagadonuts]

Serious question: Is there such a thing a female cuckold?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Serious question: Is there such a thing a female cuckold?

You're so rarely serious. This must be serious. This also beats me.

 

[mamasota]

Serious question: Is there such a thing a female cuckold?

So that'd be the man being unfaithful,
guess that would mean he's just doing what comes naturally

 

[Joeybagadonuts]

So that'd be the man being unfaithful,
guess that would mean he's just doing what comes naturally

the wife being sexually aroused by the husbands infidelity.

 

[mamasota]

Well, there's that, it could be a thrill to watch.

 

[badbabysitter]

we've been contacted by more then one couple during experience in the lifestyle, that want the cuckold experience

it was spooky at first, and we felt it at times a touch racist.. but coming to know some of these folks we've learned there are many different kinds of cuckold

some want to watch, some want humiliation, some are a femdon couple, some want details and giving the wife a boyfriend and a mistress on the side.. it goes on and on

 

[BotanyBoy]

So that'd be the man being unfaithful,
guess that would mean he's just doing what comes naturally

Actually there are studies upon studies that show women cheat and are more likely to cheat than men....it's all part of the biological imperative and can be traced right down to the neurochemical transmitters that cause it. Any search engine, will back me up by a fucking landslide. You ladies is more scandalous n' slutty than men......FACT.

So princess self righteous....how bout you take that sexist dirtbag tude' and blow it out your ass.

Serious question: Is there such a thing a female cuckold?

That is a good question.....a cuckoldress if you will? Ladies? Any of you like to watch your guy go at it with another chick while you remain faithful?

we've been contacted by more then one couple during experience in the lifestyle, that want the cuckold experience

it was spooky at first, and we felt it at times a touch racist.. but coming to know some of these folks we've learned there are many different kinds of cuckold

some want to watch, some want humiliation, some are a femdon couple, some want details and giving the wife a boyfriend and a mistress on the side.. it goes on and on

So it's more like swinging with an S&M/voyeur etc. element to it is what you're saying....?

But are there women who like to be the one who is being "cheated" (I know it's not cheating if your S/O is all "DO IT!!!") on??

If there are do you know if they are as common as the male version?

 

[Laurel]

Cuckquean

and it's "cuckold", no "h"

#thingsyoulearneditingeroticstoriesfor15years

 

[lovetoread]

Cuckquean

and it's "cuckold", no "h"

#thingsyoulearneditingeroticstoriesfor15years

I think I just fell in love.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Cuckquean

and it's "cuckold", no "h"

#thingsyoulearneditingeroticstoriesfor15years

Ok considering I found like 4 videos under "Cuckquean" with a search on my favorite tube and like 20,000 under cuckold.....I'm guessing guys like to watch more than girls.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Based on my experiences females are more interested in appearances than fidelity. Every woman I know will cuck her spouse if the opportunity comes along, and she wont be discovered. And they assume males are worse about it. When the old man fucks her sister she see's it as justification to fuck her boss.

 

[Aphro]

Based on my experiences females are more interested in appearances than fidelity. Every woman I know will cuck her spouse if the opportunity comes along, and she wont be discovered. And they assume males are worse about it. When the old man fucks her sister she see's it as justification to fuck her boss.

Just. No. Or you just know some skanky women, or women who don't care about their spouse.

On another note...if a man with a cheating wife is a cuckold, what is the term for a wife with a cheating husband? A cuckoldess?

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Just. No. Or you just know some skanky women, or women who don't care about their spouse.

On another note...if a man with a cheating wife is a cuckold, what is the term for a wife with a cheating husband? A cuckoldess?

Understand that I worked with lotsa people over the years, and seen a lot. Now! Either I have the goddamnedest luck catching married women having sex or maybe lotsa married woman have affairs. Plenty propositioned me over the years. In a few cases their husbands invited me home for a good time with the missus. I aint THAT beautiful.

I simply think its common. I don't believe all women or men are skanky.

 

[Aphro]

Understand that I worked with lotsa people over the years, and seen a lot. Now! Either I have the goddamnedest luck catching married women having sex or maybe lotsa married woman have affairs. Plenty propositioned me over the years. In a few cases their husbands invited me home for a good time with the missus. I aint THAT beautiful.

I simply think its common. I don't believe all women or men are skanky.

Just feeling a bit bristly at the sterotyping of "females" then.

And trying to wrap my head around husbands who invite another man home to sleep with their wife. That is wow...and fortuitous if you are the recipient I guess, sex with a married woman sans guilt.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Just feeling a bit bristly at the sterotyping of "females" then.

And trying to wrap my head around husbands who invite another man home to sleep with their wife. That is wow...and fortuitous if you are the recipient I guess, sex with a married woman sans guilt.

All women don't, but many do. But it does explain why so many men hit on women. The odds of scoring are good.

My thinking is, men who bring other men home wanna dump their wives. I was told by an old marriage counselor that swapping is all about dumping husbands/wives.

 

[Laurel]

I think I just fell in love.

Finally!

 

[Laurel]

From what I understand, there are two types or cuckold fantasies (well, there's probably lot of types, but there seems to be two main groups): there's the ones involving shy/prudish/semi-reluctant wives whose husbands like to expose them publicly, show them off to other men, and eventually watch the wife have sex with another man/other men. It's a variant of voyeur, kinda.

Then there's the guys who enjoy it when their wives "cheat" and "betray". These stories involve the wife going out alone on dates and returning with stories. More extreme versions involve creampie activity, impregnation, and sometimes the husband becoming a gay bottom to the wife's lover. This is, at its heart, a femdom fantasy.

These two camps engage in heated and often hilarious debates in the comments sections of the LW category on the story side of Lit.

 

[Laurel]

Because of gender sexual dynamics, women don't seem to get off being on the other end of either of these fantasies. I dunno.

 

[Recidiva]

It doesn't freak me out. It hooks into a reasonable part of the social brain about taboos.

I think I mostly get weirded out by your typical kids, animals, fluids and solids not being in the right places.

Mostly I'm just like...really? I'm so glad I don't need a budget or a script, but it sounds like it could be fun for the right brain.

Like the guys who fetishize balloons "Looners" or the guys who like to throw pies at each other "Fun but messy!"

 

[unregistered]

 

[pointless]

the wife being sexually aroused by the husbands infidelity.

that's not what it means, really. and technically no, there is no female equivalent.

look up cuckoos, son. there's your clue.