Crying and Submission

[KoPilot]

WTF? Not even when Rodimus Prime beat up Galvatron in the 1986 Transformers movie?

I cried when I found out the movie existed. ;P

Proverbially, of course.

/not originally a Geewunner

 

[callinectes2]

The red swollen eyes and dripping nose can't really be stopped, but you can cry more prettily by making sure you're concious of not "twisting" your face in any ugly crying poses. Allow yourself to radiate your sadness from your eyes while making sure the rest of your face is as impassive as possible.

It's quite heartbreaking to look at and can still be very pretty.

I learned this trick years ago when I had to do a "crying" scene for a photoshoot.


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Heh, if I had to concentrate that hard on looking pretty when crying, I'd never actually cry. I'd be too preoccupied with not twisting my face.

 

[the captians wench]

Heh, if I had to concentrate that hard on looking pretty when crying, I'd never actually cry. I'd be too preoccupied with not twisting my face.

Do it for a while and it becomes natural.

 

[CutieMouse]

Does anyone have the trick to crying "prettily". I seriously don't think anyone would get turned on at the sight of my swollen red eyes and dripping nose after I have cried.

The dacryphiliacs I've known over the years weren't very tolerate of "crying prettily"... because part of the allure was knowing they were the ones who reduced me to a snot nosed, tear stain, mascara streaked, whimpering [begging] little puddle of goo. trying to be "pretty" about it would result in them either A) stopping whatever they were doing or B) pushing hard enough I couldn't be "pretty" about it. It didn't take long to get over worries of looking pretty enough when I cried. LOL

 

[switchbitch]

The dacryphiliacs I've known over the years weren't very tolerate of "crying prettily"... because part of the allure was knowing they were the ones who reduced me to a snot nosed, tear stain, mascara streaked, whimpering [begging] little puddle of goo. trying to be "pretty" about it would result in them either A) stopping whatever they were doing or B) pushing hard enough I couldn't be "pretty" about it. It didn't take long to get over worries of looking pretty enough when I cried. LOL

Oh! yes indeed, when I push subby girl to do a particular something she is not comfortable with(although she secretly loves being pushed) her eyes get red ,her makeup smears in dirty trails, her little face crumples and her bottom lip shakes while she carries out her task regardless. Absolutely Fucking delicious!

 

[Lilac_Sky]

Oh! yes indeed, when I push subby girl to do a particular something she is not comfortable with(although she secretly loves being pushed) her eyes get red ,her makeup smears in dirty trails, her little face crumples and her bottom lip shakes while she carries out her task regardless. Absolutely Fucking delicious!

OK ... this .... wheww ... um .... yes .... please.....

 

[switchbitch]

Oh! yes indeed, when I push subby girl to do a particular something she is not comfortable with(although she secretly loves being pushed) her eyes get red ,her makeup smears in dirty trails, her little face crumples and her bottom lip shakes while she carries out her task regardless. Absolutely Fucking delicious!

OK ... this .... wheww ... um .... yes .... please.....

Mmhmmm it is quite delightful isn't it. Sometimes (because I can be such a bitch and because I like it so much)when she finishes her task I rest my hand softly against the side of her face,look into her eyes, kiss her sweet lips,smile and simply say,AGAIN HARDER my sweet. The horror in her crying eyes is such a wonderful reward.

 

[satindesire]

The dacryphiliacs I've known over the years weren't very tolerate of "crying prettily"... because part of the allure was knowing they were the ones who reduced me to a snot nosed, tear stain, mascara streaked, whimpering [begging] little puddle of goo. trying to be "pretty" about it would result in them either A) stopping whatever they were doing or B) pushing hard enough I couldn't be "pretty" about it. It didn't take long to get over worries of looking pretty enough when I cried. LOL

Not all dacryphiliacs are the same. I'm sure the ones I've had experience with have loved my ability to still look beautiful even while sobbing.

 

[chaoticDeviance]

I have always loved to cry during really intense sessions and I think it is particularly hot when other girls cry. ><

 

[CurvAppeal]

I find this thread to be very alluring. And I agree with DeepGreenEyes' post. Takes a lot to pull something like that off. Takes tons of trust and bonding. Very sexy though. =)

 

[MasterandSir]

tears

I find I rather enjoy making my pyl cry. Sometimes she cries when I push her with exceptionally heavy impact play coupled with wonderful things like zippers, sometimes she cries from emotion, sometimes she cries by me commanding it...... I find it all to be delightful because frankly, I love it when she cries for me

 

[switchbitch]

I find I rather enjoy making my pyl cry. Sometimes she cries when I push her with exceptionally heavy impact play coupled with wonderful things like zippers, sometimes she cries from emotion, sometimes she cries by me commanding it...... I find it all to be delightful because frankly, I love it when she cries for me

thankyou master

 

[midwestyankee]

The dacryphiliacs I've known over the years weren't very tolerate of "crying prettily"... because part of the allure was knowing they were the ones who reduced me to a snot nosed, tear stain, mascara streaked, whimpering [begging] little puddle of goo. trying to be "pretty" about it would result in them either A) stopping whatever they were doing or B) pushing hard enough I couldn't be "pretty" about it. It didn't take long to get over worries of looking pretty enough when I cried. LOL

Not all dacryphiliacs are the same. I'm sure the ones I've had experience with have loved my ability to still look beautiful even while sobbing.

Count me in the turn-her-into-a-puddle-of-begging-goo camp and I think it would be especially delicious fun to turn a cry-pretty type into a spot on the floor.

As much as I enjoy the aesthetic pleasure of a well-reddened ass, for me the whole exercise is about mental states. Maintaining enough control to keep your makeup intact while crying would suggest that I have more work to do to create the mental state I'm after.

 

[satindesire]

Count me in the turn-her-into-a-puddle-of-begging-goo camp and I think it would be especially delicious fun to turn a cry-pretty type into a spot on the floor.

As much as I enjoy the aesthetic pleasure of a well-reddened ass, for me the whole exercise is about mental states. Maintaining enough control to keep your makeup intact while crying would suggest that I have more work to do to create the mental state I'm after.

You can still cry hard enough to ruin your eyeliner without twisting your face into an ugly expression. It just takes practice.

 

[midwestyankee]

You can still cry hard enough to ruin your eyeliner without twisting your face into an ugly expression. It just takes practice.

Seems like it would also take a degree of control, wouldn't it? And complete loss of control would be my goal in this kind of scenario.

 

[Skytripper]

Seems like it would also take a degree of control, wouldn't it? And complete loss of control would be my goal in this kind of scenario.

That's just so...so...

...so hot.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

For me, there are the tears of joy, tears of laughing incredibly hard, tears over an apt tenderhearted Hallmark card, tears of empathy and sympathy for the suffering of others. These are moments that typically occur in the company of other humans and social propriety encourages the folded tissue dabbed in the corner of the eyes of a pretty girl cry, and I can do that too when I need to, sure.

But all that aside, this moment of being pushed past the limits of my own experience and tolerance to that uncharted place beyond my control where I become a passenger in my own body, I don't believe that I would be worried about my facial expression. I think for me the whole point would be about finding that place where I can surrender my social proprieties, pretty girl expectations, and considerations to just be present with my more animalistic self. I would want to just feel the wet trembling and strain of the adrenaline surging through me as I am basted with the exquisite painful pleasures being provided until I am saturated and then on the brink of drowning in the experience. I would not want to have to hold back my responses to the moment, I would want the freedom to be honest and honestly I can safely assume that moment would be a messy one for me. Someone that would not want to see this side of me would of course simply not be the right fit, and someone that was would enjoy it for what it is. A primal cry is not one that most would probably call "pretty" exactly, but I think it is beautiful in its very own way.

At the end of a passionate night, the right kind of tears can add that sort of sweet salty flavor that can deepen the rich flavor of sex soup, don't you think?

 

[midwestyankee]

For me, there are the tears of joy, tears of laughing incredibly hard, tears over an apt tenderhearted Hallmark card, tears of empathy and sympathy for the suffering of others. These are moments that typically occur in the company of other humans and social propriety encourages the folded tissue dabbed in the corner of the eyes of a pretty girl cry, and I can do that too when I need to, sure.

But all that aside, this moment of being pushed past the limits of my own experience and tolerance to that uncharted place beyond my control where I become a passenger in my own body, I don't believe that I would be worried about my facial expression. I think for me the whole point would be about finding that place where I can surrender my social proprieties, pretty girl expectations, and considerations to just be present with my more animalistic self. I would want to just feel the wet trembling and strain of the adrenaline surging through me as I am basted with the exquisite painful pleasures being provided until I am saturated and then on the brink of drowning in the experience. I would not want to have to hold back my responses to the moment, I would want the freedom to be honest and honestly I can safely assume that moment would be a messy one for me. Someone that would not want to see this side of me would of course simply not be the right fit, and someone that was would enjoy it for what it is. A primal cry is not one that most would probably call "pretty" exactly, but I think it is beautiful in its very own way.

At the end of a passionate night, the right kind of tears can add that sort of sweet salty flavor that can deepen the rich flavor of sex soup, don't you think?

I like the honesty in here. And yes, that saltiness does deepen the flavor of sex. Gives it a unique umami, I suppose.

 

[satindesire]

Seems like it would also take a degree of control, wouldn't it? And complete loss of control would be my goal in this kind of scenario.

If that's your goal, sure, but I think he has more fun when I'm functional and can actually move and speak instead of a choking pile on the floor. Whatever gets you hot is fine, I just travel in different fetishes, and that's the beauty of BDSM...we're all allowed to like different stuff!

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

If that's your goal, sure, but I think he has more fun when I'm functional and can actually move and speak instead of a choking pile on the floor. Whatever gets you hot is fine, I just travel in different fetishes, and that's the beauty of BDSM...we're all allowed to like different stuff!

Quite the delicious buffet, indeed!

 

[wicked woman]

For me, there are the tears of joy, tears of laughing incredibly hard, tears over an apt tenderhearted Hallmark card, tears of empathy and sympathy for the suffering of others. These are moments that typically occur in the company of other humans and social propriety encourages the folded tissue dabbed in the corner of the eyes of a pretty girl cry, and I can do that too when I need to, sure.

But all that aside, this moment of being pushed past the limits of my own experience and tolerance to that uncharted place beyond my control where I become a passenger in my own body, I don't believe that I would be worried about my facial expression. I think for me the whole point would be about finding that place where I can surrender my social proprieties, pretty girl expectations, and considerations to just be present with my more animalistic self. I would want to just feel the wet trembling and strain of the adrenaline surging through me as I am basted with the exquisite painful pleasures being provided until I am saturated and then on the brink of drowning in the experience. I would not want to have to hold back my responses to the moment, I would want the freedom to be honest and honestly I can safely assume that moment would be a messy one for me. Someone that would not want to see this side of me would of course simply not be the right fit, and someone that was would enjoy it for what it is. A primal cry is not one that most would probably call "pretty" exactly, but I think it is beautiful in its very own way.

At the end of a passionate night, the right kind of tears can add that sort of sweet salty flavor that can deepen the rich flavor of sex soup, don't you think?

I love this, especially the part that's bold.

 

[midwestyankee]

I love this, especially the part in italics.

That would be all of it, right?

 

[wicked woman]

That would be all of it, right?

well yes...I did say I loved it... but wasn't what I meant to do. Corrected now with bold. Thanks for letting me know.

 

[sadangel]

I have a love/hate relationship with crying during a scene or after. It's not something that is common for me. In fact, I can count on one hand the number of times it has happened. The last time I played with my now ex-girlfriend I began sobbing about 20 minutes into the scene. It was not expected and not a response to the pain in and of itself. It was a mental "break"...release...whatever you want to call it. As much as I HATE being that emotionally vulnerable, when it was over I felt very calm, centered, and at peace. That said, my ex did NOT handle it well IMO, and it was looked at as a sign of my weakness/unworthiness/incapacity to "handle" things. I got told how it was unacceptable and not normal to cry...blah blah...blah. I was made to feel ashamed of a physical response that I could NOT have controlled in that moment if I tried.

It has been nice to read this thread and see that it is "normal." Well, as "normal" as anything can be in this life...

Your ex would find my reaction even more abnormal. I laugh. Rather hysterically after a great orgasm, or 20. Really. I'm actually embarrassed each time it happens, but Sir finds it endearing. I can't control it anymore than you could control the tears.

I grew up in a home where laughter and tears both got you into SERIOUS trouble. I learned to do neither. It's still hard for me to cry, but with Sir, I am learning that it's perfectly alright to laugh. Or cry. Or nothing.

 

[PatchIsMe]

I love bringing my girl to tears. It is like breaking a barrier she can't otherwise break on her own. I think she is beautiful even if she isn't one of the pretty criers....