Crossing That fine Line

[PageWriter]

We all have that fine line between fantasy and reality. Have you ever crossed it and was it worth the risk?

 

[ericrodman101]

How do you mean? Did we have a fantasy which we tried to make cum true? Did we get away with it, or was it a bad experience?

 

[OldFred65]

We all have that fine line between fantasy and reality. Have you ever crossed it and was it worth the risk?

We try everything we can think of, so I guess we have crossed a lot of lines, and it has been well worth the risk.

 

[LauraWilling]

Absolutely I've crossed many of these lines. Sometimes on purpose and other times pushed or coerced into crossing them. This is how one learns. Sure, at times it can be scary, but I have learned what I don't like, things that I might be willing to do even though not a something I look forward to doing, but more often than not discovered new thrills and pleasures I never would have known if I ha not crossed those lines.It has brought me to a point now of having very few boundaries, but many wonderful experiences in my sexual life.

Many years ago my then future husband had a t-shirt made for me. One the front it said, " It's Only Kinky The First Time" At first I just thought it was funny, but found that is is really very true.

 

[Erosfan]

I have had the good fortune to cross that fine line a number of times. The fantasies that I have experienced have been far better than my fantasies. Was it worth it? Oh, hell yeah! I want to do them again and again. I still have a few that I really want to experience and a couple that just can't be done. I'm okay with that.

 

[FGB]

Took awhile to find out where that line might be.

My younger life was so crazy I felt like I was living in a dream if not nightmare most of the time.

I found my myself explaining to my "Date" as I was putting my key in the door that I was not divorced yet and had three women living with me...

I had forgot.

I remember Jackie climbing into bed with me at about 2:00 AM and asking me if I had "Anything Left"...Always for her!

I may have had a few years of Chaos.

So I am going to go with "YES".

 

[sunshinestate100]

If you don't cross the line, later life will be full of what if's and regret. I so regret some of the opportunities with women I passed over in my youth.

 

[OneAuthor]

Yes indeed. Always worth it.

 

[magicalmoments]

Yes indeed. Always worth it.

It's a yes from me, but in reality the line is never crossed, it's just keeps being pushed a little further out, always waiting to be crossed.

 

[OneAuthor]

It's a yes from me, but in reality the line is never crossed, it's just keeps being pushed a little further out, always waiting to be crossed.

I look at it as...once you cross the line and the other person is fine with it, that line disappears and a new one appears...to be crossed at a later time.

 

[MatthewRoydon]

I have a great and complex fantasy and i am always happy to explore and enjoy new experiences with the right ones. Thanks to it i could experience (and make my partners experience as well) a lot of things that came from there and almost every time it was more than worth.
I will keep on

We all have that fine line between fantasy and reality. Have you ever crossed it and was it worth the risk?

 

[FGB]

We all have that fine line between fantasy and reality. Have you ever crossed it and was it worth the risk?

Yes.

I have had several dates that took a turn for the surreal but for several decades my life was a bit ... well I just called them "Wild cat Adventures".

Strolling down the Twilight Zone was often just another Friday or Saturday night here in East Texas.

Or as many a female Friend would say."You still know how to show a girl a good time!" as I rolled my eyes. Car wrecks, several Bar fights and the odd shoot out or two is NOT my description of a good time on a date.

Although it does get the old blood a circulating!

 

[amofiga]

Yes I've crossed it with several things but not with others. The threesome fantasy was satisfied but the orgy one wasn't. I had fantasies of some women that were completed, many others not. I have one of a particular woman right now that alas will probably never be realized. We've all had those situations and the risks are obvious.... STD's, Obsessive nutty people, spouses finding out about outside interests, etc. Each person has to weigh the risks and rewards for everything from sex to the stock market to which car to buy to what to order on the menu. It's called life.

 

[genxer36]

Many times I crossed it. Sometimes with great results and other times with complete failures. You have to take chances.

One failure was an older neighbor lady I was having fantasies about. Blond big tits. Always wore tight sweaters. I was in my late twenties and she was probably late 40's to early 50's. One day I approached her and helped her with her groceries. I grabbed her ass when she bent down to put something under the sink. She got mad and told me to leave. A week later she showed up at my house. I think I may have turned her on or got her interested. I tried again inviting her in. I made up an excuse to have her help me hang a picture. Gave me the opportunity to see if she was really interested. I rubbed her ass while she was standing on the sofa to hold the picture. She gave me an unapproving glance. I wonder sometimes why she came over after my first advancement. If she was conflicted about fooling around. Nothing ever happened with her.

 

[Daddysfatwhore]

Yes a few times and do I regret it? No it was my fault.

 

[Erosfan]

If you don't cross the line, later life will be full of what if's and regret. I so regret some of the opportunities with women I passed over in my youth.

Me too. I have some really great experiences behind me. I also have a few what ifs and a couple of regrets. I don't regret anything I have had the good fortune to experience. I do regret not doing a couple of stunts, suggested by a GF, that have become really strong fantasies that will most likely never happen.

 

[MascaraRuns]

Yes, heart pounding, and it was very much worth it, If I hadn't made the choice, I would have missed out on an incredible experience.

Here, here. Agree 100% in my case. Not saying everyone's lines are going to turn out the same or begin in the same spot. In my case, was also an incredible experience.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

We all have that fine line between fantasy and reality. Have you ever crossed it and was it worth the risk?

Have I ever "crossed the line"???
Every single one I was ever presented with...

 

[Cindy69love]

My husband and I have tried bisexuality. It worked for us both!!

 

[Jimee]

Cool thread. It really got me thinking about ‘my lines’. From earlier days to present day. I have to admit to crossing many, and can honestly say i have no regrets for crossing them. Some took longer to accept or appreciate, but the ones that cum to mind have, or are, all greatly enjoyed.

 

[SubmissiveMom]

As a Submissive Woman and especially attending 'Sex/Dungeon' parties in the past, have sometimes crossed that fine line in order to please sexually and forced to explore some very taboo things out of my 'comfort zone' but in the 'safety bubble' of when 'tied/and/or/forced/ ordered', then not my own will, so freed from guilt x
Other more sensitive taboos you can never totally 'cross the line' so have always kept one 'high-heeled boot' on one side of the line, and my 'natural bare foot' on the other x x x

 

[asus013]

That's what makes sex exciting! Always crossing another line!

 

[CuttingEdge]

My wife has always had a rape fantasy, and confided in a past boyfriend about it. He told her not to wear clothes she liked one night, and they played it out, but she did not like it.

For her, the "rape" part was having a man want her so badly, that he just takes her, no matter the legal and moral repercussions later, but to some extent rough sex as well. The man just brutalized her though.

It was not a date rape in the end, but was a sexual experience she did not like.

As her husband I would love to give her that Rape Fantasy she always wanted, but never have because I am not sure how to properly do it, and do not want a repeat of what her ex-boyfriend did.

 

[varv]

overcoming this edge, and there is a sense of fantasy. It is overcoming it that excites me incredibly. And interestingly, gives impetus to overcoming the following. This in my notion of, and there is love and the thirst for to life.

 

[SissySalina]

We all have that fine line between fantasy and reality. Have you ever crossed it and was it worth the risk?

If you are talking about "dreams" then yes and yes.
If you are talking about thoughts in the mind, then the world is not ready for those yet.