Crossdressing, etc

[michigan1206]

This is new to me, being able to talk about something that is such an incredible turn on for me. I love the feel of satin underwear. It's strange, when I go to the mall, or the store, I get this strange excited feeling when I walk into the underwear aisle or lingerie stores. I have to imagine the clerk knows I am shopping for myself, because I am so timid, but these days I kind of don't care. I think part of the excitement is shopping for them. I still haven't come to grips with that part of it. I try to be cautious or stealthy about it, which is just kind of a turn on for me. I love how it make my heart race and then purchasing them.......I typically have an erection from the time I think of going to the store until well after I get home and am wearing them.

I just wanted to tell someone about these wonderful experiences

 

[Bitchslapper]

I like to wear panties under my masculine clothes when I got out in public. I like the idea of no one else knowing what I'm wearing under my jeans.

 

[bob159487]

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[RedFun]

It wasn't until last summer, when I had the fortune of going shopping with a very enthusiastic female friend, that I finally bought some panties for myself. Now while I usually wear something boring like black Body by Victoria briefs (amazingly comfortable!), every so often I pull out something sexier like a v-string or a thong. Smooth and stretchy satin are my favorites, especially if I've shaved recently. It's fun thinking that if the people I work with only knew...

 

[bob159487]

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[Guest]

I'm female, and not a cross dresser, but I figured I'd contribute to this thread anyway because I used to have a crossdressing friend when I was in highschool. Everyone knew he was gay (and yes, I do know not all cross dressers are gay), but no one knew he was a cross dresser, including myself, until he was in my bedroom and began admiring one of my dresses. I gave it to him as a present (as its part of my cultural tradition to give people things when they show a great appreciation of them) and after that he asked me to go shopping with him to pretend to be the purchaser of various women's garments (he was too embarassed to do the purchasing alone). It seemed to me that once he had access to women's clothing and accessories he smiled a lot more, seemed a lot more positive in his outlook, and basically seemed like more of a complete person. I don't know why cross dressing is stigmatized, but I say if that's what bakes your cake then go for it, and more power to you

Xtaabay

 

[Bitchslapper]

I've not had the courage to wear anything in public but love to wear at home.

What are you thinking, what's your favorite part (I may work up the nerve), and how do you keep you erection from showing, lol?

I usually calm down once I'm completely dressed, but if it continues to be a problem, I suppose jerking off once or twice would help.

Anyway, I'm not really sure what you mean when you ask what's the best part. I'd say it was wearing women's panties, but I don't think that's what you meant. As far as what I'm thinking, I think I already answered that, as did RedFun at the end of his post.

 

[kennymo45]

in maryland

I am looking for a ts or crossdresser in maryland or surrounding area

 

[RedFun]

Another fun part of shopping with a female is that, at least in my case, she always wants me to try it on.

With the exception of the briefs I mentioned earlier, which took the place of boxers (got sick of sitting on my nuts), dressing is a sensual activity for me and almost always leads me to take advantage of myself. A lot of my fantasies lately revolve around being dressed and being with a man, another crossdresser, or TS/TV. I love the thought of wearing a corset, stockings, and a pair of four inch heels, being bent over a counter and fucked up the ass while he runs his hands up and down my stocking covered legs.

I actually prefer not to wear anything under my normal clothes in most circumstances. I guess I'm just paranoid about it. Now if it were socially acceptable for a man to wear a pair of four inch heels, well, I'd be all over that.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I go the opposite direction

I love to wear men's clothing and have spent quite a few nights out and about with my girl in a tailor made 3 piece suit. The problem of course is being so busty and short..but I have learned how to wrap my breasts so they just look like a chest.

Men's silk boxers on closely shaven cunt lips is a thrill. Just as wearing a well fitting suit and fedora with boys dress shoes. I don't know of too many other women who dress the man's part but I do it whenever I have the time and I love it.

 

[Bitchslapper]

I love the thought of wearing a corset, stockings, and a pair of four inch heels, being bent over a counter and fucked up the ass while he runs his hands up and down my stocking covered legs.

Hmm, I love that thought too...from both angles.

 

[RedFun]

Re: I go the opposite direction

Men's silk boxers on closely shaven cunt lips is a thrill.

I never thought boxers could be sexy. You've proved me wrong.

 

[RedFun]

Hmm, I love that thought too...from both angles.

I've got the clothing...

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Re: Re: I go the opposite direction

I never thought boxers could be sexy. You've proved me wrong.

why thank you..*blush*

 

[prettygrneyes]

hmmm , wondering if you would have a picture of that so I can enjoy the view??<eg>

 

[tvguy6]

I'm glad I found this link. I too love the feel of lingerie. I guess I always have. The feel of silky panties is just so intense. Lately, I don't feel fully dressed unless I wear panties, bra, stockings and garter belt.

There is certainly a rush when shopping for myself, but my experiences have always been good. I stick to major department stores like Kmart and Walmart and try to shop early in the day when the store is less crowded. As soon as I can I intend to post some pics.

 

[bob159487]

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[gaytvfromuk]

i have dressed in female clothing since my teens and i never get tired of it,walking around in stockings ,heels and a dress is the best feeling in the world for me,it also compliments my feminine feelings when with a man

 

[oo0_boo_0oo]

When I shop for underwear now I buy stuff that I know will look good on both myself and my partner!! LOL!

It ends up a fight to who wears it first

 

[Amandanow]

What a treat to go out shopping and let the salesgirl wonder if the lingerie is a gift or really for you. Would love to find a woman to disucess these mind boggling questions with.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

<--- naive here

are you just wearing womens clothes or are you also putting on a wig or lipstick or makeup?

i honestly do not see the thril or excitement in a guy wearing womens clothes but as long as you arent huring anyone go for it.

whatever floats your boat

 

[John Doe]

<--- naive here

are you just wearing womens clothes or are you also putting on a wig or lipstick or makeup?

i honestly do not see the thril or excitement in a guy wearing womens clothes but as long as you arent huring anyone go for it.

whatever floats your boat

Are you a man or a woman?

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Does it matter?

 

[John Doe]

Does it matter?

I think you just answered my question for me.

Yes, of course it matters. A woman may not be able to understand as well why a man would get a kick out dressing in womens' clothes as much as another man might.

The thing is, a woman may try to imagine the feelings involved in the experience by imagining what it would be like to dress in mens' clothes, but the problem is, in American society it is generally more acceptable for women to dress in traditionally masculine clothes, whereas male crossdressing is not so well tolerated. Do you see where I'm going with this? A part of the thrill (for me at least) is that it's "taboo."

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Thank you

yes, i do see where you are coming from.

I never said I was against it or said anything negative about it. I just said that I (as a male) do not understand it.


Thanks,