UtilityCurve
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Not everybody's thing, but ever since I saw my first such scene, I was hooked.
My experience is that guys are ga-ga for it, almost universally, but I was surprised when my (late) wife expressed a curiosity about it (after I told her [a] it existed [naive on her part, though Rule 34 was not as well-known when I did] and it turned me on like little else).
Her explanation was neutral--and surprising, obvious once you think about it: "We (girls) never get to see what's going on down there without mirrors or gymnastics."
I don't think it did for her what it did for me, but she did say it was "kinda hot."
To this day, the most appealing thing about porn to me is not the antics onscreen (though I love 'em!) but watching it with my partners and seeing that as soon as the woman/women onscreen are being pleasured (even if we all know it's 90% acting), it triggers, I dunno--to me, as a guy, it seems like some sort of envy thing and the next I know, the porn is background noise and she's cowgirling like mad! (Necessary aside--at no time, now or EVER in the past, is a girl wanting to feel the pleasure her body can give her somehow cheap or disgusting. A woman's flat-out sexuality is both beautiful and important; and I speak as a former husband who accepted that HIS wife wanted to be fucked by an ex.)
Yeah, this is a niche thing, and more than a few girls were like "what's the big deal, isn't that the normal/usual/ordinary way intercourse (always) ends?"
But I am older, and I remember when it was a big(ger) deal to ejaculate inside a girl's pussy (older=not a thought was given to ejaculating in her ass, or even penetrating her that way). So maybe we HAVE evolved: The issue in 2021 isn't so much whose cum ends up inside her, but that everyone is okay BEFORE IT HAPPENS whose/when/how it does.
(And I am sorry, ideologues: No matter how much I love my partner, evolution--the hard-wiring in the brain--makes me feel differently if it is MY baby inside her: I've yet to meet a mother who didn't intuitively, instinctively get that and 99% of non-moms as well.)
My experience is that guys are ga-ga for it, almost universally, but I was surprised when my (late) wife expressed a curiosity about it (after I told her [a] it existed [naive on her part, though Rule 34 was not as well-known when I did] and it turned me on like little else).
Her explanation was neutral--and surprising, obvious once you think about it: "We (girls) never get to see what's going on down there without mirrors or gymnastics."
I don't think it did for her what it did for me, but she did say it was "kinda hot."
To this day, the most appealing thing about porn to me is not the antics onscreen (though I love 'em!) but watching it with my partners and seeing that as soon as the woman/women onscreen are being pleasured (even if we all know it's 90% acting), it triggers, I dunno--to me, as a guy, it seems like some sort of envy thing and the next I know, the porn is background noise and she's cowgirling like mad! (Necessary aside--at no time, now or EVER in the past, is a girl wanting to feel the pleasure her body can give her somehow cheap or disgusting. A woman's flat-out sexuality is both beautiful and important; and I speak as a former husband who accepted that HIS wife wanted to be fucked by an ex.)
Yeah, this is a niche thing, and more than a few girls were like "what's the big deal, isn't that the normal/usual/ordinary way intercourse (always) ends?"
But I am older, and I remember when it was a big(ger) deal to ejaculate inside a girl's pussy (older=not a thought was given to ejaculating in her ass, or even penetrating her that way). So maybe we HAVE evolved: The issue in 2021 isn't so much whose cum ends up inside her, but that everyone is okay BEFORE IT HAPPENS whose/when/how it does.
(And I am sorry, ideologues: No matter how much I love my partner
