Crazy fetish / sex drive in my 50's

Queenzray808

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I'm now in my early 50's and my sex drive and fetish interest has returned and increased so much. I married when i was 45 to a woman with an average sex drive and little interest in anything kink, just a plain jane. I was content with that as I was a bit of a man whore throughout my 20's and 30's, had threesomes, one night stands and preferred sex with strangers over long term girlfriends. I've often masturbated to my older sister and on a number of occasions came close to initiating something with her when we'd drink & do coke together. And by my early 40's was slowing down and looking to settle down. But lately I've had an insatiable sexual appetite, I'm getting aroused everyday, all day by young and old, at work, on the train, I'm masturbating in the bathroom at work, I'm watching porn constantly. Im tempted to grope females on the train, i come home and watch more porn, mostly incest stuff but I now find stuff with much much older women very arousing. I love pregnant porn and young women peeing gets me off now too. I love my wife but I'm now looking to seek no strings attached encounters, I'm trying to find free hookup sites to meet young n old women. Anyone else in their 50's experience such an increase in sexual interests and drive ???
 
Are you in a monogamous marriage? Does your spouse know that you’re having sex with other people? If not, you should tell her, if only so she can get tested for STIs.
 
I'm now in my early 50's and my sex drive and fetish interest has returned and increased so much. I married when i was 45 to a woman with an average sex drive and little interest in anything kink, just a plain jane. I was content with that as I was a bit of a man whore throughout my 20's and 30's, had threesomes, one night stands and preferred sex with strangers over long term girlfriends. I've often masturbated to my older sister and on a number of occasions came close to initiating something with her when we'd drink & do coke together. And by my early 40's was slowing down and looking to settle down. But lately I've had an insatiable sexual appetite, I'm getting aroused everyday, all day by young and old, at work, on the train, I'm masturbating in the bathroom at work, I'm watching porn constantly. Im tempted to grope females on the train, i come home and watch more porn, mostly incest stuff but I now find stuff with much much older women very arousing. I love pregnant porn and young women peeing gets me off now too. I love my wife but I'm now looking to seek no strings attached encounters, I'm trying to find free hookup sites to meet young n old women. Anyone else in their 50's experience such an increase in sexual interests and drive ???
Yes I have had a increase in sexual drive and wanting to have sex more
Turning 50 definitely up the sex drive and wanting crazy sex with women in thier 40s 50s
 
Im 54 and on the downhill slide of going through menopause. Besides annoying brain fog, hot flashes and a little weight gain, my sex drive is still high; I mean, my kids r out of the house,so I figure, what else do I have to do??? As a submissive, I was hopping to find DD/bg dynamic and while there are loads of them on lit,I can't seem to find any that r single, wanting a monogamous, meaningful connection. It's a good thing my vibe is rechargeable; I'd hate to think of what I would have to fork out for replacing batteries, lol!
 
Im 54 and on the downhill slide of going through menopause. Besides annoying brain fog, hot flashes and a little weight gain, my sex drive is still high; I mean, my kids r out of the house,so I figure, what else do I have to do??? As a submissive, I was hopping to find DD/bg dynamic and while there are loads of them on lit,I can't seem to find any that r single, wanting a monogamous, meaningful connection. It's a good thing my vibe is rechargeable; I'd hate to think of what I would have to fork out for replacing batteries, lol!
Sorry you haven’t had any luck. I hope you find what you are looking for soon.
 
It was when I was in my earlier 50's that I was introduced to the experience of group sex. I found this to satisfy my mature cravings for different sex very rewarding. I will always be thankful for meeting H & W my Dutch friends who introduced me to that and one or two other pursuits lol.

But it is true, as I get further through my 50's I am getting more and more sexually adventurous and my libido is higher than it was in my 20's ......... I shit you not!
 
I'm now in my early 50's and my sex drive and fetish interest has returned and increased so much. I married when i was 45 to a woman with an average sex drive and little interest in anything kink, just a plain jane. I was content with that as I was a bit of a man whore throughout my 20's and 30's, had threesomes, one night stands and preferred sex with strangers over long term girlfriends. I've often masturbated to my older sister and on a number of occasions came close to initiating something with her when we'd drink & do coke together. And by my early 40's was slowing down and looking to settle down. But lately I've had an insatiable sexual appetite, I'm getting aroused everyday, all day by young and old, at work, on the train, I'm masturbating in the bathroom at work, I'm watching porn constantly. Im tempted to grope females on the train, i come home and watch more porn, mostly incest stuff but I now find stuff with much much older women very arousing. I love pregnant porn and young women peeing gets me off now too. I love my wife but I'm now looking to seek no strings attached encounters, I'm trying to find free hookup sites to meet young n old women. Anyone else in their 50's experience such an increase in sexual interests and drive ???
It gets worse at 60. LOL
 
Looking forward to it.
Samuel Johnson's quote.

When you think about it, it explains the phenomenon quite well. Bill Clinton, no stranger to philosophizing about sex (does "sex" include a blowjob [I'm assuming that suitors of the young Chelsea loved that argument], how many naked angels can dance on the head of a ... pin, etc.), spoke touchingly about having more yesterdays than tomorrows at one point in his retirement.

Cheap Bill Clinton jibe: Did you know that after the success of the 1992 campaign's use of Fleetwood Mac's "Don't Stop" as its theme song, Bill had to be talked out of using a Loverboy tune in the 1996 re-election campaign?
 
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Encourage your wife to get hormone replacement therapy. Once I started, my urges skyrocketed, hence my renewed interest in Lit and nonstop, skyhigh desire to be fucked and used over and over by an aggressive and possessive Dom.
 
Encourage your wife to get hormone replacement therapy. Once I started, my urges skyrocketed, hence my renewed interest in Lit and nonstop, skyhigh desire to be fucked and used over and over by an aggressive and possessive Dom.
I am quite amazed at how different these 'therapy's' can affect different people, women in this case. I had no where near the results Tna4u had, and in fact I did not get any sexual rise from it! I'm sad and glad at the same time?????? I don't know what I would do if I was driven like that! Wow! Just WOW!
 
I am quite amazed at how different these 'therapy's' can affect different people, women in this case. I had no where near the results Tna4u had, and in fact I did not get any sexual rise from it! I'm sad and glad at the same time?????? I don't know what I would do if I was driven like that! Wow! Just WOW!
I'm so sad to hear this. If I could share it with you, I totally would! It did take some experimenting and mixology to get the balance of progo/estro/testo just right.
 
It was when I was in my earlier 50's that I was introduced to the experience of group sex. I found this to satisfy my mature cravings for different sex very rewarding. I will always be thankful for meeting H & W my Dutch friends who introduced me to that and one or two other pursuits lol.

But it is true, as I get further through my 50's I am getting more and more sexually adventurous and my libido is higher than it was in my 20's ......... I shit you not!
You go, girl!
 
Well hell. I'll be 50 in 17 months. Can't seem to find a female that fits my fancy. Not sure where I've gone wrong. Hope my desires and interests drop off at this rate since I got no lady friends to please.
 
Im 54 and on the downhill slide of going through menopause. Besides annoying brain fog, hot flashes and a little weight gain, my sex drive is still high; I mean, my kids r out of the house,so I figure, what else do I have to do??? As a submissive, I was hopping to find DD/bg dynamic and while there are loads of them on lit,I can't seem to find any that r single, wanting a monogamous, meaningful connection. It's a good thing my vibe is rechargeable; I'd hate to think of what I would have to fork out for replacing batteries, lol!
Sorry you’re so far away !
 
I am 65 and love Sex more now but have to go with the Flow with the Better Half. Does it happen on the Other Side of the fence.
 
Aaaanyway, for the OP, I think it's normal. Could be related to a mid-life crisis, but in a positive way, no real crisis per sey. Just don't do any inappropriate and don't try to talk anyone into any really weird stuff unless you really think they may be open to it. If getting with a young person, check their IDs, etc..
 
I am quite amazed at how different these 'therapy's' can affect different people, women in this case. I had no where near the results Tna4u had, and in fact I did not get any sexual rise from it! I'm sad and glad at the same time?????? I don't know what I would do if I was driven like that! Wow! Just WOW!
Sounds like whatever you were on wasn’t what you were missing.
I’m on hrt plus dhea. Getting hormone blood tests helps a lot. When it was only a patch, I was indifferent.
Dhea helps me produce more testerone which I wasn’t producing enough of due to low s-dhea from surgetical menopause.
 
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