Couples with Married Deployed Military Husband

[sharon__nj]

Last night I had a particularly exciting discussion with a navy man who is deployed in Afghanistan (I didn't know there was water there?)

He was describing to me how he meets with his wife on FaceTime or Skype to watch her having sex at home with a close friend who is on the marines who services his wife while he is deployed for 9 months. He meets them online and watches them and masturbates himself while he watches them together. This seems to excite him very much and apparently it's sober hint that is not uncommon in the military for those E who are serving overseas for long periods. He mentioned there are other service men who he found do similar things though it's not publicized amongst them so much as its considered humiliating to know your wife is being taken care of by another man, but apparently he found someone who understands as he said there were a few of these sessions where another of his colleagues was present to watch her with him, and that this man had DVDs and erotic pictures she had sent him to please him which they both also looked at.

I just found the whole cultural aspect of it very sexually arousing ....the adult games and the play times ....all so much pleasure while so much stress is all around ....

He is back now but his description of the events and how his wife was addressed by such a marine bull impacted me in a very deep way and I would like to speak with him again. I sent him a message to contact me again if he could, and if he responds I will try to encourage him to speak more to be about it ...

What I was wondering is how common is this sort of thing, is it more common than one would suspect? I'd be interested,and frankly rather excited, to hear about true experiences that have been hidden from view and happening out there.....

S~

 

[Porkwarrior]

You didn't even suggest a deployed wife?

That's a microaggression. Stop being so sexist.

 

[chimpers767]

Hi

Last night I had a particularly exciting discussion with a navy man who is deployed in Afghanistan (I didn't know there was water there?)

He was describing to me how he meets with his wife on FaceTime or Skype to watch her having sex at home with a close friend who is on the marines who services his wife while he is deployed for 9 months. He meets them online and watches them and masturbates himself while he watches them together. This seems to excite him very much and apparently it's sober hint that is not uncommon in the military for those E who are serving overseas for long periods. He mentioned there are other service men who he found do similar things though it's not publicized amongst them so much as its considered humiliating to know your wife is being taken care of by another man, but apparently he found someone who understands as he said there were a few of these sessions where another of his colleagues was present to watch her with him, and that this man had DVDs and erotic pictures she had sent him to please him which they both also looked at.

I just found the whole cultural aspect of it very sexually arousing ....the adult games and the play times ....all so much pleasure while so much stress is all around ....

He is back now but his description of the events and how his wife was addressed by such a marine bull impacted me in a very deep way and I would like to speak with him again. I sent him a message to contact me again if he could, and if he responds I will try to encourage him to speak more to be about it ...

What I was wondering is how common is this sort of thing, is it more common than one would suspect? I'd be interested,and frankly rather excited, to hear about true experiences that have been hidden from view and happening out there.....

S~

hi. can you turn on your pm's or msg me? I would like to chat with you.

 

[Disgustipated]

Last night I had a particularly exciting discussion with a navy man who is deployed in Afghanistan (I didn't know there was water there?)

He was describing to me how he meets with his wife on FaceTime or Skype to watch her having sex at home with a close friend who is on the marines who services his wife while he is deployed for 9 months. He meets them online and watches them and masturbates himself while he watches them together. This seems to excite him very much and apparently it's sober hint that is not uncommon in the military for those E who are serving overseas for long periods. He mentioned there are other service men who he found do similar things though it's not publicized amongst them so much as its considered humiliating to know your wife is being taken care of by another man, but apparently he found someone who understands as he said there were a few of these sessions where another of his colleagues was present to watch her with him, and that this man had DVDs and erotic pictures she had sent him to please him which they both also looked at.

I just found the whole cultural aspect of it very sexually arousing ....the adult games and the play times ....all so much pleasure while so much stress is all around ....

He is back now but his description of the events and how his wife was addressed by such a marine bull impacted me in a very deep way and I would like to speak with him again. I sent him a message to contact me again if he could, and if he responds I will try to encourage him to speak more to be about it ...

What I was wondering is how common is this sort of thing, is it more common than one would suspect? I'd be interested,and frankly rather excited, to hear about true experiences that have been hidden from view and happening out there.....

S~

hi. can you turn on your pm's or msg me? I would like to chat with you.

u 2 deserv eachother

 

[sharon__nj]

hi. can you turn on your pm's or msg me? I would like to chat with you.

Sorry, I wasn't aware....it should be set now.

 

[Aquagal]

Somehow they justify getting some strange for the interim.

 

[Ldy_Sea]

I served in the Navy, back before females were allowed on combat ships.

It always amused me when ships deployed how the wives hit the clubs and hooked up with unmarried sailors while their husbands are away. UI saw many a sailor come home from a 6 month deplyment to a wife who was 4 months pregnant and claim the baby was his.

Technically it is a violation of te UCMJ (Uniform Code of Military Justice) for someone in the military to sleep with another persons spouse, or sleep with anyone other than their spouse (if married), and it can, and has lead to people in the military being court martialed.

That being said when I was in the Navy VCR's was the height of technology and Windows NT3.0 was the latest and greatest operating system, and WordPerfect ruled the day. So there have been a few changes in how deployed military couples handle the seperation. Back then 6 months was the longest deployment


Although I will never forget the one time I was a line handler for a destroyer that was getting underway, and 3 or 4 of the wives were behind the dumpster on the pier sucking off every sailor that brought garbage from their ship. I always felt bad for those guys.

BTW There are always Navy boots on the ground in combat zones.
Navy Seals, Sea Bees, UDT, EOD, Supply, Aviation units, Medical Staff, Intel, Command and Control, and much much more.

 

[cookiecat]

This wasn't the thread I thought it was going to be.

 

[Ldy_Sea]

This wasn't the thread I thought it was going to be.

I often find the general board to be disappointing, if not downright hostile. I only venture in here during daylight, well armed, with the safety off and a round in the chamber.

I usually still feel like I've been raped before I get out.

 

[sharon__nj]

I often find the general board to be disappointing, if not downright hostile. I only venture in here during daylight, well armed, with the safety off and a round in the chamber.

I usually still feel like I've been raped before I get out.

I'm sorry, perhaps I should have posted somewhere else, this is my first time asking a question here.

 

[Ldy_Sea]

I'm sorry, perhaps I should have posted somewhere else, this is my first time asking a question here.

It's not you luv, or the topic of this post. It's the wild beasts and unhousebroken, barely human pyschos that populate this particular forum.

The only one worse than the GB is the politics forum which used to be part of the GB.

It's getting dark, time to run away...

 

[navytime09]

I will never forget the one time I was a line handler for a destroyer that was getting underway, and 3 or 4 of the wives were behind the dumpster on the pier sucking off every sailor that brought garbage from their ship. I always felt bad for those guys.

That is up there with some of the craziest stories I've heard.

In regards to the OP, I think behavior like this is probably a lot little higher than that of the civilian population. Military members, especially enlisted get married so young and don't fully understand the strain of deployments until they've gone through one. As with any situation, you learn to adapt and cope in whatever way possible, adjusting your morals as you see fit.

They are quite a few couples I have seen over the years who stray with spouse approval and most are not limited to just deployment time. There was even one couple a few years back whose live-in "friend" was much more. I think the most outrageous stories come from submarine bases and officers at or who graduate the Naval Academy.

My own experiences, both before and after I married, were always alcohol fueled and usually a way to just fight off boredom. It sounds weird when I write it down but most of the time, it was just "Fuck it, let's do this."

 

[Wings]

I often find the general board to be disappointing, if not downright hostile. I only venture in here during daylight, well armed, with the safety off and a round in the chamber.

I usually still feel like I've been raped before I get out.

Ugh. Just...ugh.

 

[Disgustipated]

Ugh. Just...ugh.

She must've posted with GarbageCan..

 

[Killswitch1]

Somehow they justify getting some strange for the interim.

http://www.yeovilpress.co.uk/media/c/blg/2506/1380643074/r/695/466/stranger-danger-don-t-go-say-no.jpg

 

[NOIRTRASH]

From what I know most people stray. What surprised me was how horny my female clients were during the years I did psychotherapy. And husbands are often cooperative with her appetite for strange. And none of this is new. He will stray if the opportunity exists, and so will she...if the incentive is adequate.