Couples Meeting a Third

[flamatrix99]

My wife and I have swung on and off for years. We have met guys and had threesomes. Now we have agreed for her to meet other guys and play solo. What I was curious about is, for the guys that have have been a bull for a wife (that’s not cheating), on the initial meet do you typically meet the couple or just the wife?

 

[SPARTAN047]

I just happened to meet one on the beach and some in swinger clubs, but it was both of them.

 

[peruchica]

My husband and I have more of a hotwife dynamic now and I mostly meet the guys solo. I also know other couples who prefer to have the husband take the lead and screen the guys first, and plenty others who prefer to meet as a couple. At the end of the day it's whatever you feel most comfortable with and whatever works for you.

 

[Bigloadshooter69]

Whenever someone contacts my wife on a profile of ours and she's interested enough to meet him in always there for that first meeting over a drink somewhere. It's mostly a security thing, plus I want to see the guy that may end up fucking my wife. If I see that they're getting along I'll leave and give them some private time.

 

[Stoicbutfun]

I have met a few couples and always met with the couple initially and played with both of them present, focussing on the wife which was a wonderful experience for me for sure.

 

[pace_purr]

My wife and I have swung on and off for years. We have met guys and had threesomes. Now we have agreed for her to meet other guys and play solo. What I was curious about is, for the guys that have have been a bull for a wife (that’s not cheating), on the initial meet do you typically meet the couple or just the wife?

We always met for the first time as a couple more of a security thing if she didn’t fancy him I was there to make sure he didn’t get pushy. If all went well on future occasions we would either get together as a threesome or if Anne felt like it and I was working or away on business the two of them would just have sex.

 

[Versa92646]

Most of the time I meet the couple for first encounters. About evenly split between their place and a safe location (bar, park, coffee shop). A few times the husband interviewed me before taking me home to his wife.

 

[Versa92646]

I just happened to meet one on the beach and some in swinger clubs, but it was both of them.

Swinger parties are best. The couple knows exactly what they are getting and can tell I can perform for an audience.

 

[whatahoot]

My husband and I started by going to sex clubs and swingers parties and would then split off from there. After making a few friends though, we began to kind of do our own thing.

 

[travelenman]

I was thinking about this, and I think in most cases, I have met them as a couple, and on the first date, we progress straight into a threesome, or he watches. From there, it can lead to a one-on-one with her.

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

When my Husband and I first started we didn't want to meet a complete stranger for a third person, but we also didn't want the third person to be too close.

We would meet the person and see if we "click" with them and we would have to both agree.

 

[magicalmoments]

My first wife and I had an open marriage. We played alone and together. When we played together it was mainly as 3sums but occasionally couples. We always met as a couple. She never met guys without me being with her. This was simply the way it worked out, it wasn't a rule or anything. When I was meeting couples by myself with a view to 3sums, most times I met with the couple together. A few times I met the husband first and a couple of times met the wife alone

 

[thefireman73]

Wife and I had an open relationship. We live in a rural area, so not a lot of people. Our rule was to tell the other who we were going to be seeing. If no objections, then we would make sure the other knew where we were going to be playing. At first she would text me whenever she went to his house. Then after several times, she would just let me know if she would be home late.

We never met as a couple. But I usually knew the guy or at least of him.

 

[sftopbottom]

My wife and I have swung on and off for years. We have met guys and had threesomes. Now we have agreed for her to meet other guys and play solo. What I was curious about is, for the guys that have have been a bull for a wife (that’s not cheating), on the initial meet do you typically meet the couple or just the wife?

In the four times I've done this (over 30 years or so), the last three occasions I played with both together first, then each of them alone - not exclusively one or the other. That has proven to be less complicated relationship-wise. The first time led to some very natural jealousy, and I vowed to not be a wedge for any marriage/situation.

 

[wordsNguitars]

I always, ALWAYS want to meet the couple because to do my role as a third/bull well, I need to know that 1). they are both on board with this and can both verbalize that and 2). for this lifestyle to succeed, the needs of both partners need to be met. Understanding what the husband needs out of any playdate (active involvement, watching/listening, pics/video/calls during, etc) is crucial to my being a good partner to them.

 

[Sgts19]

During our brief lets try swinging we met them as cpls....we never played with any singles. We put a profile on SLS.....swinger sight....with some cropped pics of her which was like baiting fish. Lots and lots of people contacting us until we narrowed it down to one cpl. We turned down a lot more than we were with....no fucking on the first date.

 

[Waiter519123]

We started smoking pot with our first couple. One thing lead to another and we full swing with them.
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[magic_rat]

I've only met one cuck couple where I acted as bull.

I met the husband first, we chatted for some time (he was a nice guy, and the couple are now good friends) to make sure we were on the same wavelength. I told him I'm a photographer with a home studio (I am) and proposed taking some pictures of her and seeing where things went.

Then i met them as a couple in a bar close to my flat (I was between partners at that point) and we all got on well.

After a few drinks we went back to mine, the wife had brought some fetish gear and we had a fun photo session before I dragged her to the bedroom and told the husband he was not allowed to leave the sofa.

She was a great fuck. Periodically I'd whatsapp pictures of her sucking my cock etc to the husband as a reward. I finished off with anal. A good night.

 

[Uncut1969]

My husband and I started by going to sex clubs and swingers parties and would then split off from there. After making a few friends though, we began to kind of do our own thing.

Would be hot go into a room and seee wife enjoying another cock or cocks

 

[Waiter519123]

My husband and I started by going to sex clubs and swingers parties and would then split off from there. After making a few friends though, we began to kind of do our own thing.

That’s how we began and ended dating others but we always reclaimed our love for each other.

 

[SevMax2]

My wife is just not into sex anymore, at least partly due to health reasons and due to menopause and other things. Frankly, that part of our lives is over. However, as we aren't exclusive, I wouldn't mind partaking in someone else's marital fun as a third....I always had this fantasy of banging a married couple, preferably both spouses, though shacking up couples are perfectly fine, too. Also, it could be two women or two men, but the main fantasy involving this is about a bi husband and his wife intimate with me.

 

[marriedpervs]

My wife is just not into sex anymore, at least partly due to health reasons and due to menopause and other things. Frankly, that part of our lives is over. However, as we aren't exclusive, I wouldn't mind partaking in someone else's marital fun as a third....I always had this fantasy of banging a married couple, preferably both spouses, though shacking up couples are perfectly fine, too. Also, it could be two women or two men, but the main fantasy involving this is about a bi husband and his wife intimate with me.

You have my number.

 

[Scotchlander]

I have met with couples in public prior to fun.

Met with husbands alone then been taken home / hotels to meet wife’s.

Also met with one wife in her home after exchanging emails and photos, with husbands consent, and after lots of encounters with his wife, I never ever got to meet him. Only passing in the car on his way out and my way in

Met with one wife in her home, without her husbands consent while she was blindfolded the whole time.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

My husband has been present 98 percent of the time when we have engaged others for sex. Rarely, except in very few circumstances, have I gone on my own, except meeting another woman, married or single to explore her bisexuality, no men present. When there is a male or couple we are interested in, we usually start with "getting to know you" conversations at neutral locations such as local sports bars, food courts at malls, nightclubs. Sometimes, one meeting is it and we have signals we give to one another if we think the individual(s) are not going to be a good fit for us. Other times, we might slowly get to know others over a period of time. We have actually had persons we hung out with well over a year before anything sexual happened. It has also happened that within a few hours of meeting someone, our clothes were on a bedroom floor somewhere while we were engaging in all out sexual debauchery!

We always lay down "ground rules" with others so they know what our expectations and limitations are be it with men or couples. My husband has also served as a bull, and I always present as I do get off on that. Even then, the woman knows his "cock is borrowed" but he is MINE! and fortunately we have never had any negative experiences in that aspect.

Bringing a third or more into the bed can be fun and exciting, but TOTAL honesty with each other and the potential partner or partners is crucial. We have also seen the negative side of this, but almost always there are underlying marital problems at play

 

[alex85sun]

My wife and I have swung on and off for years. We have met guys and had threesomes. Now we have agreed for her to meet other guys and play solo. What I was curious about is, for the guys that have have been a bull for a wife (that’s not cheating), on the initial meet do you typically meet the couple or just the wife?

I've never met just the wife, always the couple except twice. The husband/boyfriend and yes it was awkward.