Couple would like a woman to join them

[ken0000001]

I'm happy to say I am having an affair with a woman who is the best thing that has happened to me sexually in my lifetime.

Moreover, she has said that she found another woman, much younger than us and who lives near us in Boston, and that she wants her, with me. But she is skittish. She has never been with another woman before and wonders if she can go down on her. She is very nervous. We have not met her yet, and we hope she is agreeable to meeting me first for some coffee so I can talk to her.

So, does can any bi or lesbian woman here tell my gf what it's like the very first time you tasted another woman's pussy? Were you hesitant? Were you nervous? Please speak about whatever you'd like bc I am just beside myself with excitement bc I can check another experience off my Buckett's (Ken's) To-Do List.

But alas, perhaps it won't work out. We are open to any northeeast woman who might be interested. PM me for details if I should be so lucky to have you so inclined. Right now, she is thinking about it all the time and that thought alone is making me hard as a teenager.

 

[Etoile]

You're having an affair with this woman AND you want to make it a threesome? And you're trolling for MORE? Cripes.

 

[RozieMozie]

the first time i went down on a woman i was very nervious ... i knew she was a squirter and i've this thing with not liking my face being wet ... while i was down on her it was great, i could feel her move, hear her moan, and im pretty sure she was playing with my hair ... i lost myself in the expereance

 

[ken0000001]

Well, technically, I am not both wanting a threesome and trolling for MORE, but wanting a threesome BY trolling for someone -but actually, I wanted advice to give her. That's all. No harm meant by it.

You're having an affair with this woman AND you want to make it a threesome? And you're trolling for MORE? Cripes.

 

[ken0000001]

Hmmm. Must have been beautiful - did she ever squirt?

the first time i went down on a woman i was very nervious ... i knew she was a squirter and i've this thing with not liking my face being wet ... while i was down on her it was great, i could feel her move, hear her moan, and im pretty sure she was playing with my hair ... i lost myself in the expereance

 

[Etoile]

Well, technically, I am not both wanting a threesome and trolling for MORE, but wanting a threesome BY trolling for someone -but actually, I wanted advice to give her. That's all. No harm meant by it.

Yeah, but it sounds like you want somebody else just in case this lady doesn't work out. Maybe your gf isn't interested in a threesome with just anybody, but only this person. But are you married to your gf, or having an affair with her? That's the part I was really commenting on. If you're having an affair, like you said initially, AND you want a threesome, that's what I find deplorable. So I hope it's not that.

My best advice is: if she doesn't like it, don't act disgusted. Just find a polite way to get out of there and move on to something else. If she doesn't like it, and lets that be known, it will really offend the other girl and it'll kill the whole evening. So just be nice.

 

[ken0000001]

I am always nice. I make it a practice to not make moral judgments about otheres. Judge not, lest.....you know the rest? Most people have good sides and not so good sides. I try to focus on the good and just accept the bad (unless it hurts others)

Thanks for the advice and I totally agree that I should be supportive, whatever the outcome. Hey, it's just sex - sometimes it works our, sometimes it doesn't. You know I'm an older guy, so my desire to argue like a lawyer left me long ago. My desire for success in every endeavor is no longer paramount. Peace to everyone. Accept everyone youi possibly can.

Yeah, but it sounds like you want somebody else just in case this lady doesn't work out. Maybe your gf isn't interested in a threesome with just anybody, but only this person. But are you married to your gf, or having an affair with her? That's the part I was really commenting on. If you're having an affair, like you said initially, AND you want a threesome, that's what I find deplorable. So I hope it's not that.

My best advice is: if she doesn't like it, don't act disgusted. Just find a polite way to get out of there and move on to something else. If she doesn't like it, and lets that be known, it will really offend the other girl and it'll kill the whole evening. So just be nice.

 

[Etoile]

I am always nice. I make it a practice to not make moral judgments about otheres. Judge not, lest.....you know the rest? Most people have good sides and not so good sides. I try to focus on the good and just accept the bad (unless it hurts others)

Thanks for the advice and I totally agree that I should be supportive, whatever the outcome. Hey, it's just sex - sometimes it works our, sometimes it doesn't. You know I'm an older guy, so my desire to argue like a lawyer left me long ago. My desire for success in every endeavor is no longer paramount. Peace to everyone. Accept everyone youi possibly can.

I think you misunderstood most of what I said.

I assume your comment about "judge not" and morals pertains to the fact that you are not only cheating, but you are planning to cheat with multiple people.

Now to the part that you misunderstood. When I said be nice, I wasn't referring to you at all. You had asked for advice for your gf, and that's what I was giving. (See, even though I find cheating unacceptable, I'm admitting that I don't know your entire situation and answering your question anyway. )

So let me rephrase the part that you misunderstood. Your gf is afraid she won't enjoy going down on another woman. She might like it, she might not. My point was that if she doesn't like it, she should be discreet and come back up for more kissing or something. My point was that even if she is grossed out, don't let that show, because it's like telling the other girl her pussy is disgusting. Your gf may not like it, but if she wrinkles her nose a little bit it's going to make the other girl upset and not want to participate. So to keep things going, she should just be nice about it.

Okay? Make more sense now?