Counting the pain

[delphi604]

In your experience, how many lashes from a whip, flogger or similar device is too little, too much, or just right?

 

[twister947]

In your experience, how many lashes from a whip, flogger or similar device is too little, too much, or just right?

Goldilocks was a sub?

 

[delphi604]

You're right. Question was poorly worded. I'll take down the post and try to come up with something that shows I'm serious.

 

[IrisAlthea]

You're right. Question was poorly worded. I'll take down the post and try to come up with something that shows I'm serious.

Or you could just expand on it here.

It differs a lot, not only from person to person but also from one time to another.
There is no way past needing to communicate and being observant.

 

[lisaharlot]

Interesting question

It depends on so much. My first time I discovered the joy of subspace and I begged her not to stop spanking me with a hairbrush. Other times it was 10-15 with a cane and I was done. Some people hit harder than others and where they’re impacting is a huge difference. The back of the thighs are more sensitive than the ass and the front is whole different experience. I think it’s generally best if you go slow and stop while you’re both wanting just a little bit more, but YMMV.

 

[Winter_Fare]

I experience a wide variety of physical tolerance around my monthly cycle. Very very sensitive just before period, literally indestructible the week after.

Level of foreplay and arousal also changes the game.

Communication needs to be ongoing, where communication fails, trust fails, scene fails, the end.