hello all,
I've posted many pics on the forum through the years but have never really sought any advice or guidance. On occasion, my wife will indulge my dominant tendencies and allow for some role play. In the past, this has consisted of a language protocol, such as she is to refer to me as Sir. I will order her to serve me a beer then maybe perform a lap dance, then instruct her to shower and sit on a chair in the middle of the bedroom, lights off, as I slowly drink my beer and watch TV. As subtle as it may be, it seems to have the effect of further displaying who's in control. sometimes I'll make her wait only five minutes, sometimes 15-20. Upon my entrance to the room, I'll typically perform a brief inspection, i.e. did she shave her legs, is she wearing lipstick, is her pussy wet, etc. I'll ask a series of questions to gauge her compliance and submission. From there, I'll normally order her to her knees on a pad on the floor and tell her to suck.
I'll be presented with another such opportunity soon, and while I don't want to overthink it, I'd like to be as prepared as possible. I only provide the above anecdote to show what I've done previously as a reference. I'd like to explore deeper domination and specifically servitude on her part more so than tying her up and whipping her ass red (although that thought inspires as well!).
Not looking to be full time Dom, but rather perhaps some ideas and advice for these occasions.
Thoughts?
I've posted many pics on the forum through the years but have never really sought any advice or guidance. On occasion, my wife will indulge my dominant tendencies and allow for some role play. In the past, this has consisted of a language protocol, such as she is to refer to me as Sir. I will order her to serve me a beer then maybe perform a lap dance, then instruct her to shower and sit on a chair in the middle of the bedroom, lights off, as I slowly drink my beer and watch TV. As subtle as it may be, it seems to have the effect of further displaying who's in control. sometimes I'll make her wait only five minutes, sometimes 15-20. Upon my entrance to the room, I'll typically perform a brief inspection, i.e. did she shave her legs, is she wearing lipstick, is her pussy wet, etc. I'll ask a series of questions to gauge her compliance and submission. From there, I'll normally order her to her knees on a pad on the floor and tell her to suck.
I'll be presented with another such opportunity soon, and while I don't want to overthink it, I'd like to be as prepared as possible. I only provide the above anecdote to show what I've done previously as a reference. I'd like to explore deeper domination and specifically servitude on her part more so than tying her up and whipping her ass red (although that thought inspires as well!).
Not looking to be full time Dom, but rather perhaps some ideas and advice for these occasions.
Thoughts?