Could Really Use a Pick-Me-Up Flirty Chat Kik Me

[Octobersky1994]

So I went out to the movies tonight with some friends and we went on a double date. It's been a while since I've went on a date so I was excited. It was with a guy I really thought was gorgeous- in usually only into white men but he was mixed and looked like Prince. He had this gorgeous smile that just made me want him and e loved my personality so I decided to accept us all "hanging out" at the movies together. We went to see some movie called "The Green Inferno" and it was pretty much an abortion disguised as a movie. It was obviously all filmed on someone's iPhone 4 and all of the actors were nonprofessional and terrible. The movie really didn't even make any sense and was filled with a bunch of bloody gory scenes that I (literally) had to cover my eyes at. Anyways, this guy was the worst date I've ever had. The entire time he talked loudly and joked around with his buddy, anytime there was partial nudity or even anything showing close nudity, he would immediately talk about how hot the girls were and he hoped he could see tits and pussy. Today was his 21 birthday but I seriously felt like I had went out with some 14 year old who had just hit puberty. He was obnoxiously immature. But he said he was "young at heart" so I decided to just go with it. I wanted popcorn and something to drink but wouldn't you know it he hadn't brought any money. Go figure. Some of the shit that came out of his mouth was so immature and stupid it literally left me speechless. At the end of the night, my friend said that I should give him a birthday kiss (obviously trying to set me up to get to at least first base, very good job, friend) and I kid you fucking not, before I could even say that I don't kiss on first dates, he loudly said "ew no. Her breath smells like popcorn I can smell it from here." ( the other couple had popcorn and shared withe because I had skipped dinner to get ready. Which, by the way he never gave me a single compliment but instead loved to talk about how good he looked.) I was totally humiliated and smacked him hard in the back of the head before shoving him away and praying we got back to the dorm soon. Once there, we hugged and said we'd see each other at breakfast the next day. The whole night was a total disaster. My ego is crushed- I mean maybe I don't deserve the perfect guy but I know I'm not that desperate or ugly. I could use a little flirty convo and someone to boost my ego a little. So if any males from 21-34 would like to kik me at breatheinOctober and make me feel better, please do. Otherwise, I'm going to sleep. Thanks for reading this much. Terrible day.

 

[oceanterra]

Awe
That's so unfortunate!

Best I can do is give you a hug!
*hugs*

 

[RuneBlade]

This is what I don't understand about how women (if you'll permit me a broad brush) see things. Obviously, the guy was not worth your (or anyone's) time. Why would you allow his immaturity to affect your ego in any way, let alone crush it? You have control over how others make you feel. His lack of respect and tact have nothing to do with you. Brush off your shoulder, move on. It's not worth your time or stress to even bother with thinking about it. Your terrible experience says absolutely nothing about you, except that you had the good patience and tact to see the night through without ditching.