Could I be bi?

[A1579]

Could I be bi? I'm not attracted to guys, like for example, When I watch TV or see some guy in real life, I don't say to myself "Wow, this guy is hot", but sometimes the thought of having sex with a guy turns me on. Has anyone ever heard of this?

 

[petrel]

mmmm you're probably not bi
there is a difference between stuff oyu have fantasies about and stuff you would really like to try. i fantasise about quite heavy duty BDSM but in reality there are certian things i don't like and certain boundries i won't cross. That doesn't stop me getting tunred on by the fantasy though.
online chat is a good way to explore a fantasy

 

[PunkFan]

Being bothered about sexuality will lead to lack of experience, don't think about it just do what feels good

 

[DustyWolfe]

A1579:
The question is not whether your fantasies of guys turn you on or not. The question is.... Are you attracted to females? This is an important question to consider.

Dusty

 

[CarolineOh]

Could I be bi? I'm not attracted to guys, like for example, When I watch TV or see some guy in real life, I don't say to myself "Wow, this guy is hot", but sometimes the thought of having sex with a guy turns me on. Has anyone ever heard of this?

I think most people have some fantasies of sex with persons of their own gender at some point. If that makes one bi, then just about everyone is bi.
The important thing, IMO, is to be comfortable with who you are. If you feel comfortable taking these fantasies further, then go for it. If you don't, then chalk it up to a passing fancy. Neither is right or wrong.

 

[Guest]

Could I be bi? I'm not attracted to guys, like for example, When I watch TV or see some guy in real life, I don't say to myself "Wow, this guy is hot", but sometimes the thought of having sex with a guy turns me on. Has anyone ever heard of this?

Well, every girl has those thoughts.. I'm not sure how common it is in guys, but I'm sure they have those to.

But the bottom line is, if you're not attracted to guys you're probably not bi. You probably get turned on by it because it seems wrong.

 

[Lasz]

your not bi
I have had this discussion with gay people and bi people.
YOu just like pleasure, and when you are recieving it you get to a certain level where you dont care what or how you just want it.
We all fantisise about weird things and once we cum we think, "what the fuck!!!"

Laz

 

[DustyWolfe]

In all honesty I would have to say that your not bi at all. Let me tell you about me. When I was about 17 I started taking notice of myself. I hadn't dated at all and was surrounding by a lot of really great guy friends. Though I never thought of being with them. My relationships with females often failed because it was too intense. I was trying to not be gay. I dated a guy because he was really nice but he got frustrated because I wouldn't have sex with him. There was no chemistry between us. He did things he shouldn't have and that was the end of us. I went on a single date with another guy whom most of the girls I knew drooled over. Nothing happened, I wasn't attracted to him at all.
Then... I started realizing that I was in love with a friend of mine. Scared the you know what out of me too. I talked with a few friends online about it and they told me to just embrace it. I started talking to other lesbians and the more I talked the more I realized what I was and that it was ok.
Sure, I'm not 100% female biased, I've had fantasies about men. I enjoy srp's with men, but would never be with one in real life.

I hope this helps.

Dusty

 

[A1579]

Yes, I'm attracted to females, I just thought I'd ask here if I might be bi, cause the thought of having sex with guys turns me on sometimes. But given what some of you had said, I'll just leave it as a fantasy, cause any other time is zero.

 

[Semler]

I don't think it is a Bi thing either. I'm with you, I don't notice hot guys and men don't turn me on. The thought of kissing or cuddling with another man doesn't do anything for me. But, when it comes to a cock, I have many fantasies about fondling one and giving a bj and having one come in my mouth. I just don't want the rest of the male body that comes with it.

 

[ineedwildsex]

your not bi, humans are just very sexual and there is nothing wrong with pleasing people.

 

[zantac666]

A lot of men think about it and never do anything about it and some do.

When i was 13 i had camp out in my trailer there were 4 of us my best friend and i slept inthe big bed in the back one on the floor and one on the little bed up front.

I hought everyone was asleep when i felt a hand grab my dick an rub it i said nothing it felt good and at 13 your hormons are at warp speed. So i started stroking his dick well after a few minutes he shot his load and then i shot mine. we have seen each other for 30 years now he is married. And i love women but when he puts his lips around my dick wow.

But we don't kiss or cuddle we just get each other off. that may make me bi but i would takewomen before him any day.

But you are not bi until you try it ad if you continue to do it and like it

 

[Guest]

well if it makes you feel any better i think i'm bi also i mean i've kissed a girl once and i want to do it again. And when i look at porn i notice that i search for the lesbian porn. I know that my family and friends would never understand or accept it so i think i keep it to myself and not explore it even though i would like to some day.

 

[krista_kisses]

maybe i guess you should try to be open minded about it, if it just so happens you're bi, then let yourself be bi, if you AREN't it's totally ok to fantasize!