I understand exactly what you are going through. I fought, worried, cried and wondered with the same feelings you described for several years. I am a 27 year old female who is open and honest about being a happy and healthy "bi" woman in today's society. I would love to help you or discuss any confustion you might be having on any issues. Hope I can help. You can reach me at raven469d@hotmail.com
Hi Mrs. Confused. First off, I'm no therapist.....but one thing I can tell you...try to relax....hopefully this is not consuming your thought process. Thinking about this all of the time will only confuse you more. I am a 31 y/o lesbian....I have been with afew men, but it's purely for the sexual pleasure....I chose women for the emotional feelings and seem to enjoy their physic more. How's your sex life? Still active....enjoying it with your husband? Do you have feelings of wanting "more" for your sexlife or is it simply pure attraction to this woman? I've been with afew married women who were feeling "unloved" by their spouses and just wanted more affection....is this the case? There is quite abit to think about before "diving in".....you should be sure of your feelings and that the woman you plan to experience this with is also sure. Has this woman ever mentioned any bisexual experiences? Take it slow....think things through....you don't want to ruin a good friendship.
hi-thank you for your letter on being confused about your feelings about this woman.I agree with the lesbian woman on looking at all the aspects of your relationship with your husband vs. having curiousity about being with a woman.i would welcome an opportunity to chat with you 1-1 about this issue.I am a 40 yo bi-female and I enjoy men and women and have since I was 15 yo.If you would like to chat feel free to contact me at southwest queen 1 @aol.com
