Cooling your heels on someone else
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I haven't really settled for someone before. When I get horny or lonely, I fall into a sexual relationship faster, but they're usually people I would've waited for anyway.
I wouldn't dump them straight away if something better came along, I'd let the relationship run it's course. If the other person's still around when we're through, then I'd give them a chance. If they're not, I can survive.
I wouldn't dump them straight away if something better came along, I'd let the relationship run it's course. If the other person's still around when we're through, then I'd give them a chance. If they're not, I can survive.
Bindii
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I've never understood why people do that. My sister is one of the worst I have seen when it comes to relationships. She has this 'idiot' radar I'm sure, and always seems to end up with the jerks.
When I ask her why she chooses to date and stay with men that treat her with no respect and in some cases are violent she states that she doesn't want to be lonely.....its so sad.
She's an attractive woman, has a great personality and many men would be estatic to have someone as nice. She can't see it though, the years of abuse have knocked her self esteem to below ground level, she feels that if she ends a relationship then no one will ever want her again. It hurts to see her like this.
Lifes to short to stay with someone who is less than what we need in a partner.
When I ask her why she chooses to date and stay with men that treat her with no respect and in some cases are violent she states that she doesn't want to be lonely.....its so sad.
She's an attractive woman, has a great personality and many men would be estatic to have someone as nice. She can't see it though, the years of abuse have knocked her self esteem to below ground level, she feels that if she ends a relationship then no one will ever want her again. It hurts to see her like this.
Lifes to short to stay with someone who is less than what we need in a partner.
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T.H. Oughts
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I'd never get sensual with someone just because they offered themselves to me and I was horny.
They would have to be smart, intelligent, have a humour, curtious and of course wayyyy sensual......
Oh yeah, hopefully they can spell better than me too
They would have to be smart, intelligent, have a humour, curtious and of course wayyyy sensual......
Oh yeah, hopefully they can spell better than me too
CeceliaSkye
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My advice would be: Never settle for anything less than magical...
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SA Storm said:
If I did that, I'd be in a relationship right now. As I'm not, I'm going to guess the answer is no.
sometimes people do strange things when they are lonely or horny. I see women in settling for men that are either complete jerks, or do not appreciate them the way they should be appreciated. I think it is a natural thing that people usually realize isn't the best way to have a relationship after the relationship is already going downhill.
