Contingency plans: Does anyone else do this?

[landcruisergal]

... I was stupid, stubborn and naive to think eventually, he would mellow.....
Fury

Too much.
Oh well at least its good that some of us learn from our mistakes...
Gross stupidity for me; choosing the wrong type twice.

 

[FurryFury]

Too much.
Oh well at least its good that some of us learn from our mistakes...
Gross stupidity for me; choosing the wrong type twice.

I think that tends to be the rule repeating mistakes. I just got lucky.

You know what though? Now that I think about it, most of my guys picked me not the other way around.

Course lots of guys tried to pick me and I didn't go for them but yeah they had to show an interest in me first or I did go there.

The few times I singled out a guy, they had waaaaay too much ego for my liking.

Fury

 

[timberwolf05]

i guess, being an only child, and being someone that is used to living out of the car or van, i am normally always in control. when my 3 wives told me to get lost, with 1 blanket, 1 pillow, 1 plate, 1 cup, spoon, 1 knife, 1 fork, 1 bowl, 1 plastic glass,....i am used to being on my own since i left home at 16.
i have never felt wanted by anyone anywhere in my 50 years.
some day i hope to, but am not holding my breath.

i guess the plans talked about here have always been in-the-ready in my life---- all my life.

wolfie

 

[FurryFury]

i guess, being an only child, and being someone that is used to living out of the car or van, i am normally always in control. when my 3 wives told me to get lost, with 1 blanket, 1 pillow, 1 plate, 1 cup, spoon, 1 knife, 1 fork, 1 bowl, 1 plastic glass,....i am used to being on my own since i left home at 16.
i have never felt wanted by anyone anywhere in my 50 years.
some day i hope to, but am not holding my breath.

i guess the plans talked about here have always been in-the-ready in my life---- all my life.

wolfie

Wow! You've had it rough. I'm so sorry. *HUGS* I don't know what to say.
I hope things improve for you and I suspect they already have if you have a computer to use now, at least living arangements wise.

From the things I've seen you write on this board before I feel you are a pretty great person so you should soon see other good people come into your life. Just try to make sure they are not like your previous three wives. Whatever pattern you have there is not working for you.

I was lucky enough to break my pattern and it was luck. I wasn't thinking that clearly to do so on purpose.

Good luck.

Fury

 

[landcruisergal]

i guess, being an only child, and being someone that is used to living out of the car or van, i am normally always in control. when my 3 wives told me to get lost, with 1 blanket, 1 pillow, 1 plate, 1 cup, spoon, 1 knife, 1 fork, 1 bowl, 1 plastic glass,....i am used to being on my own since i left home at 16.
i have never felt wanted by anyone anywhere in my 50 years.
some day i hope to, but am not holding my breath.

i guess the plans talked about here have always been in-the-ready in my life---- all my life.

wolfie

I actually love living with the bare minimum, with only me and my dogs to worry about. Last time I hit the road I didnt want to stop.Driving into towns started to freak me out. I slept outside in my swag, if it rained, in the back with the dogs.Washed out in the open under my solar shower...
One of my fondest memories are living in a trailer park for 4 months, in my 16 foot van. The van didnt even lock, but I had nothing worth stealing anyway.

 

[FurryFury]

I actually love living with the bare minimum, with only me and my dogs to worry about. Last time I hit the road I didnt want to stop.Driving into towns started to freak me out. I slept outside in my swag, if it rained, in the back with the dogs.Washed out in the open under my solar shower...
One of my fondest memories are living in a trailer park for 4 months, in my 16 foot van. The van didnt even lock, but I had nothing worth stealing anyway.

I have a serious throwing away problem. I can't do it! I've got so much crap that I need to throw away it's not funny.

I get emotionally connected to lots of strange things. Clothes particularly, I've got clothes from way back and not just mine. I've got stuff from my grandparents, I really do. It's nuts!

Fury