Connecticut Jack and Jill BBQ /gathering

[Jaded1]

The weather is starting to turn hot and sultry...

People are looking for excitement and fun. I know this has been tired in the past and not sure if it was sucessful or not. But I just figured with the better weather we would have a better chance at fun....

I was wondering if there was any people in the area that may be interested in trying a Jack and Jill party...

I personally believe to be sucessful that it has to be more of a one to one ratio gals to guys. So this is going to require some work on the side of both of the sexes. I will keep a total of gals to guys ratio posted. This will be done with total discretion. There will be no cameras permitted. Each person being considered will be screened. Each person with be asked to answer questions that will clearly define their limits of envolvement. This information will only be available to those attending the BBQ.

Perhaps you may thing that I am being overly cautious? But it is my name that is associated with this gathering and safety is concern with no exceptions. NO ONE WILL BE FORCED TO DO SOMETHING THEIR NOT COMFORTABLE WITH! Those that do not respect the other members of the group will be asked to leave! This is open to singles, marrieds, or just couples. This is the first time I have done a Jack and Jill party so this is a learning process for all of us...

Mmmmm, can ya smell the sex in the air....

Jaded1, CT

 

[Jaded1]

Oops...........

<bump>

 

[Jaded1]

Just checking in....

 

[tigerjen]

Ahhhhhhhh Jaded

So you're giving the J&J BBQ a whirl then?


tigerjen

 

[Jaded1]

Re: Ahhhhhhhh Jaded

So you're giving the J&J BBQ a whirl then?


tigerjen

A very good morning T.J.

I am in fact considering it...

All depend on the response. I personally feel this way people will have the opportunity to become comfortable and relaxed.

Thank you for inguiring.........

Jaded1, Ct

 

[TheOverlord]

sounds intresting i wouln't mind...just be careful around the Grill

 

[Jaded1]

sounds intresting i wouln't mind...just be careful around the Grill

I give all new demensions to flipping the burgers....

Jaded1, CT

 

[tigerjen]

Re: Re: Ahhhhhhhh Jaded

A very good morning T.J.

I am in fact considering it...

All depend on the response. I personally feel this way
people will have the opportunity to become comfortable
and relaxed.

Thank you for inguireing.........

Jaded1, Ct

Anytime, Jaded...anytime

*giggle*


tigerjen

 

[Jaded1]

Oops, again

<bump> How clumsy of me

 

[FinnMacCool]

Count me and m'lady in,only stipulation is that it would have to be a Saturday,other than that,we're in

 

[Jaded1]

Hmmm................

As I promised I would keep every one up to date on progress. So far the total people that showed interest are 4 people of which three are males and 1 is female.

It is my opion to keep the first one small in size around 12 particapants.

I was going to target a Saturday in case it happens to run over night....


Oh, if you feel uncomfortable with posting to this thread you can PM me direct and you will remain anonymous....

Jaded1, CT

 

[HoHoBomb]

Hi Jaded1

let me know when you decide on the date!
remember i want to be the one to give you a helping hand


love
kG

 

[Jaded1]

Hi Jaded1

let me know when you decide on the date!
remember i want to be the one to give you a helping hand


love
kG

Luv ya, Kissinggurl....

But you'll need both hands........

Oh, I do get to play with thing too don't I!

Jaded1, CT

 

[Jason Random]

new cumer

I'd like to get more info i've been trolling the boards alot but have be a scarce poster.

 

[tigerjen]

Jason Random...welcome!

I'd like to get more info i've been trolling the boards alot but have be a scarce poster.

welcome to Lit!
we hope that your stay is a long and happy one!


tigerjen

 

[tigerjen]

Jaded

A Saturday is good too, though more towards the late
afternoon/early evening if possible as I come off from
the overnite shift at my job 9am in the morning and
need to get some sleep after I get home.

However, I cannot commit at all until a date has been
set, only because of my friend's wedding (Saturday
Aug. 9th) and we might have stuff going on a Saturday
sometime before the wedding day......

Just giving you a heads-up my friend....we'll talk.


tigerjen

 

[Agnosticfellow]

Do you have room at your party for a SWM? If so I'd love to attend.

 

[Jason Random]

Re: Jason Random...welcome!

welcome to Lit!
we hope that your stay is a long and happy one!


tigerjen

thanx i hope it is long and fun!

 

[tigerjen]

Re: Re: Jason Random...welcome!

thanx i hope it is long and fun!

I also invite you to stop by the Connecticut and
New England threads on the Playground forum
of Lit!


tigerjen

 

[Jaded1]

Sorry gang was busy last night. Will catch up with you this evening. Still need more responses for gals!

Don't know if I'm cumming or going....

Jaded1, CT

 

[Jaded1]

Connecticut Jack and Jill gathering.

Count me and m'lady in,only stipulation is that it would have to be a Saturday,other than that,we're in

 

[SxDx80]

........edited............

 

[Jaded1]

Hi, gang...

The reponse for guys was overwhelming. We are in need gals and/or couples.

Come on ladys explore your sexuality...

I'd really like to have you cum....

Jaded1, CT

 

[redrider4u]

Hi, gang...

The reponse for guys was overwhelming. We are in need gals and/or couples.

Come on ladys explore your sexuality...

I'd really like to have you cum....

Jaded1, CT

Jaded, this is a great idea. My personal opinion is that in order to have a 1:1 m/f, there is going to have to be a high comfort level among the gals. That is, they'll probably end up being folks we have met or will meet here on Lit and socialize with for a while prior to a meeting. I just do not think you are going to find many gals willing to attend something with several unknown guys.

What we need to do, is direct some female acquaintances in this direction.

 

[Jaded1]

Jaded, this is a great idea. My personal opinion is that in order to have a 1:1 m/f, there is going to have to be a high comfort level among the gals. That is, they'll probably end up being folks we have met or will meet here on Lit and socialize with for a while prior to a meeting. I just do not think you are going to find many gals willing to attend something with several unknown guys.

What we need to do, is direct some female acquaintances in this direction.

Hi, RedRider...

I do agree with you that people have the need to feel comfortable with one another. That is why I made it a day long (or weekend long... ) very casual gathering. So people do have the time to become adjusted to each other. That is also why it was posted only on the Lit personal board. Now as far as women are concerned it is going to take a woman that feel comfortable with her body and a exhibitionist. Not every one male or female is interested in this form of openness. I am currently looking for females or couples. I have found that when you place a group of intelligent fun love people together they become to loose their inhibitions quickly. I'm a single guy and as long as the place is back to a semi normal condition by Monday I'm happy... <- Thats me being happy!

Remember it is a Jack and Jill party. Not a full blow Roman sex orgy involving thousands. Perhaps if my place was bigger then the Roman sex orgy...

Jaded1, CT