Connecticut Cougars

[Robum11]

Hello, I am a male 25 yrs old moving to Connecticut in a couple weeks. Looking to see if there are any Cougars in the Norwich area?? If so maybe we can chat!

 

[madisoncb29]

I've learned one thing from being on this site for so long. There are pretty much zero females and about 3 males from Connecticut. This is not a popular state for this site, and it's upsetting.

 

[julius_1975ct]

Yeah, not many nutmeggers here...

 

[Mike9173]

Maybe it's just the culture here in CT. For example, Women in CA seem to be friendlier and more open from what I hear from others who have lived there. I would hate to say it, but I think women are more picky or self-centered in the Northeast, but perhaps I am wrong.

 

[Blase]

Maybe it's just the culture here in CT. For example, Women in CA seem to be friendlier and more open from what I hear from others who have lived there. I would hate to say it, but I think women are more picky or self-centered in the Northeast, but perhaps I am wrong.

From what I've seen, it doesn't get any colder or harder to make a connection with someone than in the Northeast.

On the plus side, if you can connect with someone here, you can probably do it anywhere.

 

[Mike9173]

From what I've seen, it doesn't get any colder or harder to make a connection with someone than in the Northeast.

On the plus side, if you can connect with someone here, you can probably do it anywhere.

I really like what you said in the last sentence. If we move elsewhere or visit and want to meet women maybe we will have too many choices lol but that would be a good problem to have!

 

[ExpressxLove9]

Maybe it's just the culture here in CT. For example, Women in CA seem to be friendlier and more open from what I hear from others who have lived there. I would hate to say it, but I think women are more picky or self-centered in the Northeast, but perhaps I am wrong.

Ouch. Picky and self-centered?

Maybe women in the Northeast just don't like you because of your poor opinion of them?

 

[Mike9173]

I have noticed though that women located in the south and west are much friendlier and more understanding.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

I just feel like that's not true. I'm just as friendly as anyone from the south or west, so to be disregarded because I'm from the north isn't fair. You will meet pleanty of bitches from those other states, so why blame the north?

 

[Mike9173]

I just feel like that's not true. I'm just as friendly as anyone from the south or west, so to be disregarded because I'm from the north isn't fair. You will meet pleanty of bitches from those other states, so why blame the north?

Ok so I will test your theory. Would you care to go on a date with me?

 

[ExpressxLove9]

Sure, pick me up at 8?

 

[Mike9173]

Sure, pick me up at 8?

It is after 9 pm haha.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

duh, I don't have enough time now to do my hair....does it matter that I'm not in Connecticut, nor am I a cougar?

 

[Mike9173]

No that doesnt matter as long as you are over 21 but if you live a good distant away we should get to know each other a little better. Oh and I am not the greatest looking guy either.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

Getting to know each other is always a good step. So you're using lit to get dates or am I just an experiment to prove that you're right about women from the Northeast?

 

[Mike9173]

Well I would like to prove I am right lol but I really want to be in a relationship. I don't much care for being lonely.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

why does not being in a relationship equal being lonely? I never understood that.

 

[Mike9173]

Becaause there is no one to love, to hold, to make love too. And for women it is much easier to find love or sex than it is for men unless the guy is real handsome and/or rich. That is the game.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

I haven't found it easy to find love or sex, but that doesn't make me lonely. I find my joys elsewhere and in other forms. I guess we're just different.

 

[Mike9173]

True we are different. I need love and companionship I am needy th
at way.

 

[Mike9173]

It should be easy for you to find sex at least since you are a woman. My two ex girlfriends dumped me and found new boyfriends right away and they were really not that pretty either.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

okay.