Confusion about active and passive roles

[lucy_sometimes]

I have been caught out by this, so it is always better to check before meeting what your potential sex partner expects.

If you suck and slurp on someone's cock, until he shoots in your mouth or all over your face, I would say that you, the sub, are the active one, giving the blowjob.

If a Dom grabs your ears and forces his cock deep into your mouth - if he's really long, down your throat, I would say that he is the active one, using your mouth.

If you climb onto him and bounce on his cock, aren't you the active one?

If he bends you over and thrusts into your hopefully lubed hole and roughly bones you until he shoots, he is the active one, surely? You should have agreed whether a condoms is a must or not.

I once met a man for oral, where we had agreed that I would be passive. I didn't get the blowjob I was expecting.

 

[Yarglenurp]

Well, that’s educational.

I didn’t check the category and thought this about active vs passive voice.

This topic is so much better.

 

[Alpha_femboy]

I am active all the time and i fucking love it